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What do you think of "The Secret"
Not new but it's true
28%
 28%  [ 7 ]
New and true! Get The Secret today!
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
New and complete mumbo jumbo, $$$ scheme
16%
 16%  [ 4 ]
Not new and not true, it's wishful thinking or worse
4%
 4%  [ 1 ]
I haven't read TIME mag, seen Oprah, Larry King, DVD, book,... dunno what it is at all
52%
 52%  [ 13 ]
Total Votes : 25

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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:

Yeah, if you want to realize a dream, you have to work at it. (Although I think The Secret argues you don't have to work at it, you just have to think about it a whole whole lot and quantum mechanics will deliver it to you.) I guess many people have never really been introduced to the idea you got to get off your ass and work.

'The Secret' makes it very clear you actually have to take action when opportunities present themselves, it's not simply a matter of visualisation or thinking (though that part is important too).


Oh well, Whew. At least it's based on a rational, bottom up approach to determining the problems in your life, the steps you need to take to solve them, and an honest assessment of the likelihood you can attain those goals and upon determining that maybe a goal is beyond your reach, finding an alternative you can find happiness in.

Mmmm hmmmm.

But really I see nothing about "action" in this "law of attraction"

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The Law of Attraction is a theory commonly associated with New Age and New Thought philosophy. It posits that one should never dwell on the negative, as the metaphysical principle of life is embodied in a "law of attraction": "you get what you think about; your thoughts determine your destiny."[1]


Quote:
In one example in the film, "a kid who wants a red BMX bicycle cuts out a picture in a catalog, concentrates real hard, and is rewarded with the spiffy two-wheeler."


(From wiki)

If you could direct me to some links where The Secret is about action vs sitting on your fat ass, please enlighten me to his amazing, long suppressed secret.
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 5:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
Mashimaro wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:

Yeah, if you want to realize a dream, you have to work at it. (Although I think The Secret argues you don't have to work at it, you just have to think about it a whole whole lot and quantum mechanics will deliver it to you.) I guess many people have never really been introduced to the idea you got to get off your ass and work.

'The Secret' makes it very clear you actually have to take action when opportunities present themselves, it's not simply a matter of visualisation or thinking (though that part is important too).


Oh well, Whew. At least it's based on a rational, bottom up approach to determining the problems in your life, the steps you need to take to solve them, and an honest assessment of the likelihood you can attain those goals and upon determining that maybe a goal is beyond your reach, finding an alternative you can find happiness in.

Mmmm hmmmm.

But really I see nothing about "action" in this "law of attraction"

Quote:
The Law of Attraction is a theory commonly associated with New Age and New Thought philosophy. It posits that one should never dwell on the negative, as the metaphysical principle of life is embodied in a "law of attraction": "you get what you think about; your thoughts determine your destiny."[1]


Quote:
In one example in the film, "a kid who wants a red BMX bicycle cuts out a picture in a catalog, concentrates real hard, and is rewarded with the spiffy two-wheeler."


(From wiki)

If you could direct me to some links where The Secret is about action vs sitting on your fat ass, please enlighten me to his amazing, long suppressed secret.

Have you actually seen it? If not, there doesn't seem to be any point further debating it.
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

On Larry King, one of the authors of this book admited that he charges $997 a person to attend his seminar.

I think this speaks volumes about the legitimacy of The Secret.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Mashimaro wrote:


If you could direct me to some links where The Secret is about action vs sitting on your fat ass, please enlighten me to his amazing, long suppressed secret.

Have you actually seen it? If not, there doesn't seem to be any point further debating it.


So you can't actually provide any?

http://www.purplegoddessinfrogpyjamas.net/2006/12/02/100-quotes-from-the-secret/

    Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting

    You attract your dominant thoughts

    It�s OK that thoughts don�t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)

    You get exactly what you are FEELING

    You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it�s not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song

    What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match - no exception

    LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW

    You can start with nothing .. and out of nothing or no way - a WAY will be provided.

    No rules according to the universe .. you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond.

    If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen


I mean, crap, does any of this crap from The Secret sound like calls to getting off your fat ass and affecting change through actions? This all sounds like someone is saying "think about what you want and it will happen". I'm sorry if the call to action is simply reaching out to grab the BMX bike when it comes your way is not much of a call to making changes in your life via action.
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mindmetoo



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 9:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dev wrote:
On Larry King, one of the authors of this book admited that he charges $997 a person to attend his seminar.

I think this speaks volumes about the legitimacy of The Secret.


So what if you think really hard on this guy letting you into his seminar for free?
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
Quote:
Mashimaro wrote:


If you could direct me to some links where The Secret is about action vs sitting on your fat ass, please enlighten me to his amazing, long suppressed secret.

Have you actually seen it? If not, there doesn't seem to be any point further debating it.


So you can't actually provide any?

http://www.purplegoddessinfrogpyjamas.net/2006/12/02/100-quotes-from-the-secret/

    Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting

    You attract your dominant thoughts

    It�s OK that thoughts don�t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)

    You get exactly what you are FEELING

    You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it�s not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song

    What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match - no exception

    LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW

    You can start with nothing .. and out of nothing or no way - a WAY will be provided.

    No rules according to the universe .. you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond.

    If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen


I mean, crap, does any of this crap from The Secret sound like calls to getting off your fat ass and affecting change through actions? This all sounds like someone is saying "think about what you want and it will happen". I'm sorry if the call to action is simply reaching out to grab the BMX bike when it comes your way is not much of a call to making changes in your life via action.

nah, didn't think you'd seen it. Come back when you actually know what you are talking about.
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lulu144



Joined: 31 Aug 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah 997 for a seminar..... seriously....

I watched the secret and saw larry king live as my sister and mom were raving about it back home....

my mom kind of thinks a lot of it is crap, but my sister truly believes it, and thinks i'm not spritual enough for not believing in it... uhhhh.... right. They also went to go see one of the speakers at U of C. I think it was free or maybe cost 20 dollars. it wasn't a seminar, just a talk etc....

Okay sure I believe in what they are saying- when you think about what you want, and think positive about it, then you will get what you want.
they also said it come down to
thoughts
feelings
and actions

when you have all of those 3 things in line then of course you will be focused on your goal. Now whether it is going to actually appear or not is a different story. The secret would say that the universe entitles you to whatever you want.... but...

when some of the speakers were talking on Larry King I was rolling my eyes. Like what happens if two persidential candiates want to be president and both believe and practice the secret.... who wins?? The guy on LK jusitified by saying one wasn't meant to be president... okay... well then couldn't you say that for any want and aspiration?>so what's the point of the secret?

Also Joe Vitale- one of the speakers said of the recent murder of a Young Girl in California where there was just a convition that she' subconsciously attracted' the attack. Like are you ffing kidding me>> I couldn't believe he said that on national TV. Like what about babies who die of sids... did they attract that?.....

he also said there was going to be a secret 2 and didn't say anything else. there are ' more secrets' oooooh... I'm so exited... *gag*,... let me pay to see it now
right......
it's turning into a money grabbing phenomenon. Sure positive thoughts are good but people need a balance as to when something bad really happens you don't totally snap into negative thoughts and actions...

I don't know.... just my opinions....
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:
Quote:
Mashimaro wrote:


If you could direct me to some links where The Secret is about action vs sitting on your fat ass, please enlighten me to his amazing, long suppressed secret.

Have you actually seen it? If not, there doesn't seem to be any point further debating it.


So you can't actually provide any?

http://www.purplegoddessinfrogpyjamas.net/2006/12/02/100-quotes-from-the-secret/

    Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting

    You attract your dominant thoughts

    It�s OK that thoughts don�t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)

    You get exactly what you are FEELING

    You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it�s not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song

    What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match - no exception

    LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW

    You can start with nothing .. and out of nothing or no way - a WAY will be provided.

    No rules according to the universe .. you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond.

    If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen


I mean, crap, does any of this crap from The Secret sound like calls to getting off your fat ass and affecting change through actions? This all sounds like someone is saying "think about what you want and it will happen". I'm sorry if the call to action is simply reaching out to grab the BMX bike when it comes your way is not much of a call to making changes in your life via action.

nah, didn't think you'd seen it. Come back when you actually know what you are talking about.


Simply put, you can prove me wrong by providing one quote. All you gotta do. Your continued silence on this matter is rather indicative. Sorry but nothing I read on this crap indicates actions are a major component. This is self help fluff for fat asses who don't want to get off the couch and actually do something.


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mindmetoo



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lulu144 wrote:

he also said there was going to be a secret 2 and didn't say anything else. there are ' more secrets' oooooh... I'm so exited... *gag*,... let me pay to see it now
right......
it's turning into a money grabbing phenomenon. Sure positive thoughts are good but people need a balance as to when something bad really happens you don't totally snap into negative thoughts and actions...

I don't know.... just my opinions....


Is this this decade's Celestine Prophecy/10th Insight? What was his face... Redfield in the first book offered 9 "amazing" insights. And then, miraculously, right before the Christmas buying season, came out with a 10th.
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:

Yeah, if you want to realize a dream, you have to work at it. (Although I think The Secret argues you don't have to work at it, you just have to think about it a whole whole lot and quantum mechanics will deliver it to you.) I guess many people have never really been introduced to the idea you got to get off your ass and work.

'The Secret' makes it very clear you actually have to take action when opportunities present themselves, it's not simply a matter of visualisation or thinking (though that part is important too).


They do on Oprah, but not on the DVD (the large inconsistency between the two is indicative, in my opinion, of its illegitimacy).

On the DVD, the kid wishes for the bike, the guy in the suit imagines getting cheques instead of bills, and the bald metaphysician says 'The Secret' attracts things to you rather than saying it attracts you to them (implying the things will act differently because of your thoughts rather than you acting differently because of your thoughts).
In all three of those cases, no one does or says you have to actually do anything different besides change your thoughts.

You might argue that the other guests on the DVD say slightly different things on this topic, but that's yet another glaring inconsistency.
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mindmetoo



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I finally got a cycle to watch this piece o crap:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csiAsbPxmmY

It says nothing, nothing, nothing about "action". It's all about thinking and the universe providing. "It's you placing your order with the universe. It's really that easy."

Mashimaro, please explain, exactly, where the "action" comes in? You're 100% wrong.
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 2:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
I finally got a cycle to watch this piece o crap:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csiAsbPxmmY

It says nothing, nothing, nothing about "action". It's all about thinking and the universe providing. "It's you placing your order with the universe. It's really that easy."


the secret 47m.08sec

"When you have inspired thought
you have to trust it
and you have to ACT on it."

Still sure "It says nothing, nothing, nothing about action"?


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ajuma



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry, Mashimaro. I don't buy it. Does that mean that all of the people killed in tsunamis, earthquakes, tornados and the like ASKED for them?? Were there so may "bad thoughts" around that the universe "gave" people what they wanted??
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Mashimaro



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ajuma wrote:
Sorry, Mashimaro. I don't buy it. Does that mean that all of the people killed in tsunamis, earthquakes, tornados and the like ASKED for them?? Were there so may "bad thoughts" around that the universe "gave" people what they wanted??


No need to apologise. I don't care if anyone buys into it or not. If you have any questions that are bothering you, you could check out the website, I believe they have some forums there that may or may not help you.
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Smurfette



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 4:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

From the little bits that I have seen, it's nothing new. However, I have seen this kind of thinking manifest to create my present reality. Works for me......
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