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lastat06513
Joined: 18 Mar 2003 Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 3:59 am Post subject: |
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I wasn't prepared for my first trip.
Actually, I had no choice but to come here since I was a soldier at the time. But like many countless others, it grew on me.
But I would say that the 2 and half years as a soldier in Korea and chatting with ESL teachers at the time, that is what prepared me to come back here as a civilian and stay here as a teacher. |
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 4:11 am Post subject: |
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| I suppose I learned the necessary qualities for life in Korea previously from my various customer service jobs. Patience, controlling your temper, dealing with several difficult people at the same time, etc. A London barman serving hundreds of drunk people every night is a good training for life out here, in the classroom and out of it. |
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Dalton

Joined: 26 Mar 2003
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 4:15 am Post subject: |
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| Well said Rapier. |
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skinhead

Joined: 11 Jun 2004
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 4:23 am Post subject: |
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I'd known Korean students as close friends since 1996. Took a holiday with some of them to Korea in 1998. That drew me right in.
It's amazing the difference in response I got as a tourist from what I received as a teacher from 1999-2001. When I came on hols in '98 I had all walks of Korean life asking me welcome to Korea questions on the subways, groups of school kids wanted to take my picture in Lotte World, etc, etc...
When I started working as a teacher in '99, I got nothin'. Apart from the usual scowls and glares, schoolgirls jumpin' outta their skin as soon as they found a waygook standing near them on the subways, and none of my old buddies wanted a bar of me. WTF??? I even took to wearing my backpack, camera on my belt, bumbag around the waste and "I Love Seoul" t-shirt to try to rekindle the old flame. No love...
Wha'appen?
Love to you all, Skinny |
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Dalton

Joined: 26 Mar 2003
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 4:56 am Post subject: |
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| LOL Your state of mind as a tourist is different. This is only half an answer I know. The other half is what happened to them? Can they really smell a teacher coming? That is the question. |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 5:34 am Post subject: |
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| Dalton wrote: |
| LOL Your state of mind as a tourist is different. This is only half an answer I know. The other half is what happened to them? Can they really smell a teacher coming? That is the question. |
I generally find I still get a daily "hello" or "welcome to Korea" from school kids. It might be as a teacher the previous poster is not going to places one would go to as a tourist. His timing seems to be all pre-World Cup. I would think coming before World Cup there would be a higher degree of curiosity of foreigners and post-World Cup a sort of blasé attitude.
Korean kids are like neurons. There has to be a certain cluster of them before they fire off a "hello" or "welcome to Korea". Usually there has to be at least two boys. Very rare to get your drive-by single kid shouting a hello without a wingman. Girls tend to have to be in wolf packs of 5 or 6 before one will shout off a "hello".
Koreans always seemed terribly happy when you claim to be a tourist. The English teacher and biz flavor of waegook they understand. But tourist seems to them a rare bird. It's a bit like meeting a German tourist in St. Louis.
"But but you could have gone to NYC, LA, Chicago?"
"Yes but St. Louis is the greatest city in America!"
You'd be both complimented and thinking this Kraut has to be a little off center. Sometimes I think Koreans view tourists like that.
"You could have gone to Tokyo, Beijing, Hong Kong, Singapore... but you came here?" |
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skinhead

Joined: 11 Jun 2004
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 5:36 am Post subject: |
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Yeah. It's all of that I reckon. They can smell an innocent from a hard-bitten know-it-all. I'm sure many like me began to carry that 'back off!' vibe after a certain period of time. I did like playing the waygook spy and standing in the corner of the subway door pretending I was Bond. What a creep I must've looked. No wonder. It was a rather dramatic contrast, but looking back at how I was, don't blame 'em really.
Love to you all, Skinny |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 6:35 am Post subject: |
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A couple things helped make my transition to life in Korea easy.
I've held a decades-long affinity with I Ching, the Book of Changes (known as Chu-Yeok here), Wilhelm-Baynes translation. I've worn out several copies over the years. Confucius had honest intentions & there is wisdom to be gleaned there. Insight into the mindset here too.
As a teacher my most valuable preparation was raising kids of my own. Knowing how kids think. Largely the same the world over.
Sorry, neither is a quick fix for a new graduate thinking about coming to Korea. But never did it cross my mind Korea might lie in my future -- it just sprang up, later on, & has worked out well for me.
My best advice to anyone -- follow your interests & be sincere. |
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Bowden_PSM

Joined: 22 Jun 2004 Location: United Arab Emirates
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2004 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| Taking in a first year university student when I was in fourth year. His parents worked in Yongsan, Seoul as English teachers. He had a lot to say about his 9 years growing up in Korea as an ex-pat. Enlightening and got me on the path to open my eyes. After what he said, I expected everthing and anything at the same time. I agree with some posters; Baptism of fire is the best route to take. |
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Sleepy in Seoul

Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Going in ever decreasing circles until I eventually disappear up my own fundament - in NZ
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2004 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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I spent 8 years as a Police Officer, which gave me invaluable experience at dealing with deranged people (very good for working in hakwons).
Also, I had 10 Korean flatmates (not all at once) over 2.5 years while I was at Uni. They were great and are now back in Korea and we're all still good friends. Having lots of Korean friends has made life in Korea sooooooo much easier. |
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royjones

Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Location: post count: 512
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 8:12 am Post subject: |
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| working with mentally ill individuals in a clinical setting. |
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johnriley007
Joined: 25 Jun 2004
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2004 9:05 am Post subject: |
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the best way to prepare is, if you can, take some korean language course at your college. i know that during my senior year i had a lot of time in my schedule for something like that...and it would have been free.
secondly, don't sign a contract before you come here. you can't trust what you read online. seriously, it's risky putting your trust in someone who doesn't give a f**k about you.
the best thing is to come here on a tourist visa and take a language course at Yonsei, Sogang, or ewha university. they are all good programs and will help you adjust to korean culture more than anything else. also, you can learn the ins and outs of working here from other foreigners in your classes.
good luck. |
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skinhead

Joined: 11 Jun 2004
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Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 9:27 pm Post subject: |
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| royjones wrote: |
| working with mentally ill individuals in a clinical setting. |
Did you ever recover? Forgot to ask. Hope the therapy is having at least some effect on your condition. Please reply... |
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mnhnhyouh

Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom
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Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 10:04 pm Post subject: |
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Three months in India and a month in Cambodia. After India, I expect all will be easy.
Two years teaching in an Australian high school, dealing with mostly low level students helped my teaching skills and classroom management.
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goodgood
Joined: 22 Nov 2006 Location: seoul
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 12:40 am Post subject: |
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I don't think I'm alone in being prepared for Korea by Shawn's Korea Life Blog. Now that I've been here a while, I realize how amazing it was that he kept that first month here naive/excited feeling about the place for all the years he was here. It was an excellent intro to Korea.
It's really sad what happened with him. Without ever speaking to me, he helped me decide to come here. Thanks, Shawn. |
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