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Why is Dave's addictive?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Muffin wrote:
I am aware that Dave's is not unique, it's just that I personally didn't find the other boards I looked at so appealing. But if you want to extend, you could try and explain the appeal of message boards in general.

Is it because we like to feel our opinions are heard? Perhaps with Dave's it is the dichotomy that exists: the kindness and the spite, the humour and the pathos etc. People find conflict entertaining perhaps that is what lures us back....


I think what you experienced is that some boards are just kinda boring. Usually the boards where people are all in agreement are boring as hell. I like those with diverse opinions and some modicum of angst. Sometimes it takes awhile to get one you like.

But also I think it has to do with personalities. Some people will want to sit down to a beer and have a nice chat about linguistics. Others would shoot you if you tried that. So that leads to your question of what it is that makes people want to post on message boards to begin with. For me, it's always been a couple of factors. I find people online to often be very funny (intentionally or not); I like to hear people criticize my opinions, because it gives me room to grow; it's more interesting for me to read short blurbs of others' opinions than to read some blog or news page.

Before Dave's, I posted for a couple of years at Theology Web. It's a nice site, but I found the crew at Dave's to be more diverse and thus more interesting to hear from. So I forsook the other site. (Though still recommend it to anyone who wants to know about Christianity in depth.)
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would say it's only a few who are really on this site a lot. We're probably a bored and/or lonely bunch, or else we just like it. We get familiar with the posters, and like to read and share thoughts. Also we are all in a similar boat as foreigners, mostly all English teachers, in Korea. This gives us a shared experience among many people that we don't get as often or as easily anywhere else.
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!

PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 11:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

corporal's posts.
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ChopChaeJoe



Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to spend a lot of time on Dave's. then i realized that i was judging situation after situation through the jaded eyes of Dave posters that i had never met, based on bad experiences of theirs that bore no resemblence to what i had experienced. What a drag.


Living vicariously has it's charms, but they're short lived.

BTW, I was using email and message boards in the mid 80's.
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amberflannery



Joined: 25 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

you know chop.... your hair looks nice today Rolling Eyes
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote=merkurix]It's so much fun to see how wildly varied intelligence as well as mood is demonstrated here.[/quote]

Dave's sometimes drives me bonkers, but I keep coming back. It probably boils down to this:

1) The characters. There are the erudite, the hooligans, the clueless, the naive, the mysterious ones that wobble between all four. Wild and occasionally wise perspectives.

2) The speed of updates. There's usually something worthwhile/amusing at least once an hour. The intermittent reward system is certainly the most effective, as Skinner showed.

3) The community. Some people don't pull their punches, and others will stab you from the shadows, but there are also quite a few very sympathetic souls, and usually someone who has been through something similar.
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The King of Kwangju



Joined: 10 Feb 2003
Location: New York City

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 12:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm an odd case, I know. I never went to Dave's when I was in Korea, and certainly never spent time on message boards. I was out every night with friends or teaching privates.

It was only when I came back to Canada that I started reading it, as a way to connect with a former lifestyle that I left behind.

I don't read often, but I check in from time to time to see what's up. I skip most of the posts, of course. By this point I've been reading so many years it's like reading a long book. Also, as a person who works on the internet, this site has a unique community that I find interesting.

For what it's worth, I think right now is not exactly a high-water mark for the community.

It's been so-so for a few years.
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dog_disco



Joined: 25 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 1:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

...I'm up at 0530 most days. Check Dave's for five minutes. Repeat when I get home around 2100. Lots of cranks + (sad) passive-agressives on here, but some of it is smart +/or funny as hell.... especially the stuff obviously written when somebody was drunk (or otherwise wasted).
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mlomker



Joined: 21 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 2:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
I've been a message board geek since around 1992, before people even knew what email was.


I ran a BBS from 89-92 just so I could get FidoNet in my rural area.

I've been hanging out here for two years. Living overseas is a dream for me and hanging out here and reading blogs gives me something to look forward to...it helps me get through my day.
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Ecumenist



Joined: 04 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kermo wrote:
merkurix wrote:
It's so much fun to see how wildly varied intelligence as well as mood is demonstrated here.


Dave's sometimes drives me bonkers, but I keep coming back. It probably boils down to this:

1) The characters. There are the erudite, the hooligans, the clueless, the naive, the mysterious ones that wobble between all four. Wild and occasionally wise perspectives.

2) The speed of updates. There's usually something worthwhile/amusing at least once an hour. The intermittent reward system is certainly the most effective, as Skinner showed.

3) The community. Some people don't pull their punches, and others will stab you from the shadows, but there are also quite a few very sympathetic souls, and usually someone who has been through something similar.


That's a damn reasonable post.
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