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[Adventurer]

I generally don't think they are very outwardly friendly with some definite exceptions. Do you think that's expecting too much? I guess people aren't that friendly to strangers back home either with some exceptions.
What do you think about that? I generally make an effort to acknowledge other foreigners by making eye contact, but if I don't see a mutual effort then I move on as if they don't exist.

[tfunk]

You talkin' to me?

[Sine qua non]

OP, you're not from a city are you? You sound like you spent a lot of time in a small town back home.

[wylies99]

Sine, (if I may call you by your first name ), some "teachers" here are very rude. I agree with the OP. They shouldn't give everyone that "what are you looking at?" kind of glare. We get enough of that crap from Koreans.

[Missile Command Kid]

Living in Daegu, I've fallen into the nasty habit of uttering out loud, "Look, a foreigner!" every time I see one. It's gotten quite bad. I know what you mean, wylies99, about the "What are you looking at?" glare - mostly from the men, too. Huh.

[pdx]

Ha. My roommate and I live in a part of Seoul where there aren't very many foreigners, and we don't work with any foreigners, so we are constantly pointing out foreigners when we see them on the street or subway. I mean.. not pointing, but we give each other a look or say "there's a white guy". It's just such.... I don't know. We're stupid.

But then when I see a foreigner I don't know what to do. I don't want to assume they speak English and I certainly don't want to assume that they even want me to say hello. so... I don't say anything and I try to avoid eye contact.

[Homer]

I think that people are pretty much the same as back home.

You walk around Toronto for a while and I dare you to spot a smile or a friendly nod...

In montreal they do smile more in general when you greet them.

Here...well...I do not feel the need to force eye contact when I see a fellow westerner here. I mean whats the tie? Our skin color or nationality?
I will return the greeting if someone initiates.

[Bibbitybop]

Take the initiative to be nice. If most foreigners don't smile or make eye contact, walk up to them, smile and start a conversation. I have done this many times and have had others approach me.

It's refreshing because the person you think is not being friendly may be thinking the same thing about you. You reap what you sow.

[Paji eh Wong]

You know, I've noticed that US military personnel are much more friendly than other expats. I wonder why that is?

[merkurix]

When I lived in Bundang two years ago, I used to try to greet random foreigners who I would come across on the on the sidewalk where we are heading toward each other in opposite directions. I would make eye contact and say "hello." But they wouldn't respond. They would just continue to stare at me with a straight zombiefied face and not respond in the slightest; then they would break eye contact and ignore me. I don't think I smelled, and I am not really scary looking either, but a lack of acknowledgement is almost as rude as an insult. This wasn't a "one time thing" either; this has happened time after time to the point where I just "gave up" on saying hello to fellow foreigners (in contrast, some Koreans had no qualms about approaching me to test their Englihs abilities there). Maybe it was just the Bundang foreigners at the time that lived in my immediate neighborhood. Didn't get the same vibe from foreigners in other places in Korea.

[NeonRain]