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Paji eh Wong

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2003 6:23 am Post subject: |
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whatthefunk wrote: |
So you've zipped through 6 countries in 3 months and now have the ability to put the bits of culture you have seen into vauge categories that don't recognize any differences. Excellent. |
Buddy. I'm not saying Thailand = Vietnam = Korea. I went from Cambodia to Veitnam last week and it has the apperance of night and day. But both countries are driven by sets of ideas that share a lot of similarities.
Here are some things I find similar (and admitedly negative) between the cultures I've visited.
a generalized acceptance of, and obediance to, authority.
a lack of accountability on the personal level.
managing relationships as the driving factor to success in life.
a lack of opportunities for ordinary people to make decisions.
Do you remember the causes of the "IMF" crisis? High personal and corporate debts, coupled with a lack of transparency in government and business. Most countries in asia were in the same boat when the $hit hammer came down. They had all made the same mistakes.
So, WTF, can you compare a couple of countries in Asia, and show me how they don't have at least a couple of items from the above list? |
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whatthefunk

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Dont have a clue
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2003 8:32 pm Post subject: |
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Paji eh Wong wrote: |
Here are some things I find similar (and admitedly negative) between the cultures I've visited.
a generalized acceptance of, and obediance to, authority.
a lack of accountability on the personal level.
managing relationships as the driving factor to success in life.
a lack of opportunities for ordinary people to make decisions.
So, WTF, can you compare a couple of countries in Asia, and show me how they don't have at least a couple of items from the above list? |
I really don't like to compare because I think its best to look at cultures as individual rather than try to match them up with some other culture. Comparing people to other people always leads to trouble. Ive been to three asian countries, don't understand any of them and I will not compare between them. |
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kiwiboy_nz_99

Joined: 05 Jul 2003 Location: ...Enlightenment...
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 12:49 am Post subject: |
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I really don't like to compare because I think its best to look at cultures as individual rather than try to match them up with some other culture. Comparing people to other people always leads to trouble. Ive been to three asian countries, don't understand any of them and I will not compare between them.
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He'll dip his toe in the water but won't dive in. Life as a social anthropologist obviously NOT calling for this one. |
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whatthefunk

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Dont have a clue
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 12:50 am Post subject: |
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kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote: |
He'll dip his toe in the water but won't dive in. Life as a social anthropologist obviously NOT calling for this one. |
That's right. Anthropology is bs. |
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HardyandTiny

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 2:50 am Post subject: |
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It's a difficult theory for a foreigner in South Korea since foreingers are not offered the same protection under law.
Yes, in the written law, they may be, but not that's not reality.
You would have to take into consideration the relationship between how law enforcement officials handle various types of situations and the extent of their authority.
Socially, legal matters excluded, I think there are definitely things which I do not understand.
I think a classic example, related to many folks on this board, would be the idea of passing or failing a student in an English institute.
I know from my past experience with English teachers in Korea that there is a tremendous pressure to pass adults who are not worthing of a passing grade.
I've heard stories of young men crying and begging to be passed even though they showed up to less than 50% of the classes and failed all their exams. Their companies had sent them to these classes, and expect a passing grade, and at the same time expect them to work overtime rather than attend their evening English class.
The unwritten code may be to take the bribe?
To have sex?
Maybe the code is to just pass them?
Yes, that happens. We don't understand all the codes.
But then, basically, everything that is wrong here is wrong everywhere else. And, maybe, sometimes, they need us more than we need them? |
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kiwiboy_nz_99

Joined: 05 Jul 2003 Location: ...Enlightenment...
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 3:27 am Post subject: |
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It's a difficult theory for a foreigner in South Korea since foreingers are not offered the same protection under law.
Yes, in the written law, they may be, but not that's not reality.
You would have to take into consideration the relationship between how law enforcement officials handle various types of situations and the extent of their authority.
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So true. |
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Paji eh Wong

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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I really don't like to compare because I think its best to look at cultures as individual rather than try to match them up with some other culture. Comparing people to other people always leads to trouble. Ive been to three asian countries, don't understand any of them and I will not compare between them.
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That's ... a pretty good policy. I think it was Socrates who said "The only true knowlegde is knowing that you know nothing". It was either Socrates or Bill&Ted.
I, on the other hand, am not as smart as Socrates (or Bill & Ted for that matter). On an individual level I can see how aproaching people as blank slates is a good idea. However, I'm a big picture sort of person. And when I look at the big picture, I see certain patterns in individual's behaviour start to emerge.
You're right. Comparing individuals isn't a good idea, and yes, we do operate on an individual level. But I think comparing things at a cultural level in a responsible way is possible. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 12:40 am Post subject: Re: Asian Culture Meeting the West |
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I would definetely have to agree with whatthefunk, as a really broad brush of all Asians just doesn't apply whatsoever. We're talking about alot of really different societies and people here on this continent. But anyhow, I'll take it as Leeroy's perspective of most likely teaching predominately northeast Asian students most likely found in Japan, Korea, and China. (Although actually even these 3 very similiar countries have enormous differences and personality traits when dealing with each other, with foreigners, on every level).
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Asians are not sure where to place westeners within their own social hierarchy. The cultural rulebook of behaviour and interpersonal relations that Asians are groomed on does not cover 'outsiders' - consequently they are seen as a curiosity, a threat, or an oddity. |
I think they place us quite fairly. We are here to do our role or or profession of teaching English in our cases, or doing business deals or whatever it is our purpose is to be here. Maybe taekwando student.. or whatever it is. Not that different from being in the West in that your dentist is usually your dentist.. and not necessarily some confused vague identity you can't make sense of. Regarding 'outsiders'.. I find Koreans pretty fair to me. I am what I am.. and I have no problem with Koreans seeing me as a white guy who came from the West to teach English and live in their country.. they've assessed me fairly correctly.
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Most Asians living in western cultures (I am referring here to ones who move to western countries to study, typically not for more than 1 or 2 years) do little to adapt. The behavioural patterns that serve them well in their home communities are not applicable in western cultures - they do not know how to act, and lack the independent abilities necessary to 'learn' what being part of a new culture entails. This results in them living within their own communities, doing little to integrate or socialise with members of their host culture. |
I disagree..
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/national/daily/dec98/melt29.htm
http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial2.shtml
Here you can see that most Asians who go to the US marry, intermix, and become very American in extraordinary rates.. 36% of asian-pacific MEN marry white girls.. then there is marriage between asians and african-americans and latinos and asians.... and tons of white men and asian women in particular all over the place..
Granted within this greater culture at large.. there are still huge Chinatowns, Koreatowns, Little Saigons, LIttle Manilas and all the rest.. but I love their restaurants and thats a good thing.. makes it more fun.
Well, actually, in general I find that most Asians I know who go to the USA, Canada, Australia, Europe, NZ, wherever.. they do change and they become totally different people. When I'm here in Korea I can see and feel the difference significantly between someone who spent a year or two in Sydney or Los Angeles or Vancouver or wherever it they went..
Also, on another note.. myself living in Korea I change as well.. when I go back to the US I'm kind of a hybrid of what I was before.. I think nothing of ordering take-out octopus and sloppily slopping it up while all the others are safely within their 'shrimp fried rice' asian-food extent of things..
But one thing though.. often times because of an experience we find we've changed AFTER it rather than during it. Since you, leeroy, are teaching in the UK.. I'm betting you are reaching many Asians who are traveling in packs and keeping to that identity.. some will break out of that and some won't. Some will travel with the packs and then go home and find they've embraced stuff they didn't realize they would. They might now be different yet.. but once they go back they will be different. (This same concept can be applied to college - you don't realize its effected you until later - a year or two in and then quit you kind of stay the same but a little different - stay a little longer and you just aren't the same as before you went in anymore).
Same can be said here in Korea.. alot of English teachers when traveling in packs of other westerners take on all the characteristics.. and then the longer you are here the more you break off and go imbetween both worlds more and more until one day you find yourself doing strange Korean things that you'd never had done if you hadn't been exposed to it so much from living here.
All kinds of weird stuff happens Its a weird world.. and too many people step outside of the boxes on regular basis'.. |
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leeroy12
Joined: 01 Jul 2003
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 11:06 am Post subject: |
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Tiger - I see where you're coming from with regards to Asians mixing. The articles you link to, though, refer to immigrants. I was referring to temporary students...
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in analyzing intermarriage rates, we should focus mainly on those who were raised in the U.S. and whose socialization was within the context of U.S. race relations |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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Just as a rough rough answer.. probably Asian students mix into the general population as much as western teachers mix into the local population.. (they do).. but they also due to linguistic needs, familiarity with things back home, and all the rest.. probably do gravitate to the familiar while often tasting the unfamiliar.. (or something like that) - just a rough thrown-out there answer.. I don't really know though.. |
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Son Deureo!
Joined: 30 Apr 2003
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 6:52 pm Post subject: |
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leeroy12 wrote: |
Although I acknowledge there are huge differences between Chinese, Korean, and Japanese culture, the "sit down, shut up, do what the teacher tells us" spirit is very much there.
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Are you sure these are Korean kids?  |
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Medic
Joined: 11 Mar 2003
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Posted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 8:37 pm Post subject: |
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We waeguks who are teaching English aren't at the bottom of the totem pole or at the bottom of the hierarchy. The DDD (Dirty,dangerous and difficult) workers are the ones who really cop the crap. Their rights are abused constantly. The Koreans here who do have a complex about their worth take out their fustrstions on the poor Asian workers. It's a thing of the people who are at the bottom end of the dominant culture needing to feel good by misstreating anyone they consider lower than themselves.
." Eastern cultures are less accepting of westerners 'penetrating' their social code than the other way around, especially when western people are seen to be undisciplined in their behaviour, showing of emotions, etc... "
Was acutely aware of this the other day at the bank. Two foreigners (a couple in fact) were having trouble getting money from the ATM machine. Anyway a member of the staff came and gave them some help, but I was a little embarassed to hear their desperate emotions and their showing how relieved they were to get some money from their cards. I kind of wished they had shown a little more restraint and been a little quieter. |
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