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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| willneverteachagain wrote: |
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| I will beat the ever living *beep* out of you |
im with u man, im sure we can find him |
Normally three against one would be considered unfair, but so is insulting someone who just died in front of their friend.
This is a great example of where moderators need to step in so we don't have to. |
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dmbfan
Joined: 09 Mar 2006
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:30 pm Post subject: |
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If anyone knows where this person may be, share the information.
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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| Yep, suicide.. tough road.. It was nice of the deceased's friend to contact those he could. |
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willneverteachagain
Joined: 17 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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| This is a great example of where moderators need to step in so we don't have to |
i know what you are saying race but even if the mods did step in, i still would have said something. it was uncalled for and rediculous and he should be banned from daves |
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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| So sorry RSS. Like has already been said, take some time to feel sad. |
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kimchi_pizza
Joined: 24 Jul 2006
Location: "Get back on the bus! Here it comes!"
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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| My sympathies Smooth for your friend and you. Don't take it too hard or personally. Really isn't too much you coulda done. Be good. |
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dmbfan
Joined: 09 Mar 2006
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm waiting for Bukwowski to be lurking in the bushes somewhere..... |
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cbclark4
Joined: 20 Aug 2006
Location: Masan
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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Let me explain a little about grieving for a suicide.
First off get rid of any feeling of "what could I have done".
I let that sit for too long once. There was nothing I could have done.
You must first ask how much energy was involved in the suicide imagine taking your own life, how much negative energy must be used to consume oneself to that degree. It's not your fault. First of you must have done something positve for that person at one point or another, remember that first. The problem is the negative energy was there. Whether from illnes or nastiness or just a desperate isolation, nothing could cure that.
For my exgirl some 20 years ago.
For my cousin ten years past.
For my friend in youthful desperation.
For my pal, the genius, never quite good enough for his mom.
For that old guy and all of his money.
These I have known.
Their agony, is not known to us.
cbc |
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BuHaoChi
Joined: 30 Jan 2007
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Keepongoing
Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject: sorrrry |
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| my deepest sympathy to the OP and the victims family |
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kitekid
Joined: 31 Aug 2005
Location: usually at http://www.expatkorea.com/
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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condolences to you, and your friend's family
take care, rss |
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cbclark4
Joined: 20 Aug 2006
Location: Masan
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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My condolences to you, and your friend's family and Gerry Falwell, his family and friends.
cbc |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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My condolences to you, and your friend's family and Gerry Falwell, his family and friends.
cbc |
Wow, after all we've discussed, and you can't even spell the old b@stard's name right. |
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tzechuk
Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Condolences, RSS. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 10:53 pm Post subject: |
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| cbclark4 wrote: |
Let me explain a little about grieving for a suicide.
First off get rid of any feeling of "what could I have done".
I let that sit for too long once. There was nothing I could have done.
You must first ask how much energy was involved in the suicide imagine taking your own life, how much negative energy must be used to consume oneself to that degree. It's not your fault. First of you must have done something positve for that person at one point or another, remember that first. The problem is the negative energy was there. Whether from illnes or nastiness or just a desperate isolation, nothing could cure that.
For my exgirl some 20 years ago.
For my cousin ten years past.
For my friend in youthful desperation.
For my pal, the genius, never quite good enough for his mom.
For that old guy and all of his money.
These I have known.
Their agony, is not known to us.
cbc |
Good post. |
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