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chi-chi
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
| Yea, it's kinda embarrassing if you have to pay money to meet people just for sex. |
When you put it like THAT...that's almost like meeting a hooker except the hooker has a middleman!
(I'm not calling the women hookers but it's almost like going to a hooker except you PAY the SITE not the woman...I'll never think of those things the same way now that you put it like that...ew.)
Or if the woman doesn't sleep with you, I guess it would be the same thing as paying to go to a room salon I guess. Huh.
Pardon the pun, but it's all "weird science" to me.... :  |
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gyopogirlfromtexas
Joined: 21 Apr 2007
Location: Austin,Texas
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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Yea. I guess only some guys pay for that kind of stuff. I have never even looked at those "adult" sites. I would assume that they are not the type of people you'd want to meet, even if you are looking for that kind of a relationship.
Because a decent looking guy should have no problem going to a bar to find a girl for the night. Why would you want to be intimate with some total stranger. Who knows where they've been. Not to mention herpes, and other diseases, like hpv which you can get just by "contact." I get mad when people say "that's why there's a condom" all the time. A condom doesn't prevent everything. You will still get hpv and herpes if that person has it. Sometimes there are no signs of those diseases.
Anyways, this one time, I was so sad coming out of a 3 year relationship. Maybe some of you guys know that crying yourself to sleep for months feeling. Not even wanting to see anyone, because no one "compares to that one person. So I started to browse Yahoo Personals out of boredom. I've read one ad where a girl openly said she is just looking for a good time. That she needs to sleep with a lot of cute random guys to get her ex bf out of her head. I was thinking, wow she must have been head over hills in love with him.
Put really provocative pictures and listed her real email. She was very pretty and had a nice body too. I can somewhat see the desperation maybe in those rare "I'm so heartbroken cases," where you can find good looking people openly advertising themselves for that. I know what it feels like to be obsessed with a guy, and wanting to see a bunch of guys who are cuter or better than your ex in some way. Sometimes, you finally meet that guy that will make you forget your ex and you realize there are better guys out there.
Anyways, I've met a lot of good people from hot or not. I usually ask for their myspace and chat with them for awhile before ever meeting up. There were many occasions where I was not interested anymore after reading their myspace. Sometimes, I'm more interested reading their myspace. You really find out if you have anything in common through myspace and chatting. I've met some amazing people on there. Had so much in common, that I felt that they were my long lost siblings. Plus, it's always interesting to have a goodlooking international penpal; like in Italy or some exotic country. I've also met some really cute, funny and smart chat friends. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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| ahh the desperation of the singles crowd. You can practically smell it. |
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Ozabout7or8
Joined: 04 May 2007
Location: NZ
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| Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 11:21 pm Post subject: |
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
| Because a decent looking guy should have no problem going to a bar to find a girl for the night. Why would you want to be intimate with some total stranger. Who knows where they've been. Not to mention herpes, and other diseases, like hpv which you can get just by "contact." I get mad when people say "that's why there's a condom" all the time. A condom doesn't prevent everything. You will still get hpv and herpes if that person has it. Sometimes there are no signs of those diseases. |
What about the disease called...
pregnancy 
It makes me sick you didn't mention it. |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 1:55 am Post subject: |
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| in_seoul_2003 wrote: |
Walk into any room, any where in the world, point to a guy (or even a girl) and wave him over to you and I guarantee by the time he reaches you he will be all yours and likely drooling.
THIS is sexist crap, reverse sexist crap. The naturally lascivious male who, incapable of controlling himself, is animated by nothing but lust. Besides I'm certain she knows this is not true.
I hate the blatantly sexist crap that gets written on this board all the time
Well, for someone who hates it you sure do dish it. Your entire post is laced with sexism from top to bottom and affecting both sexes equally.
but, msgyopogirlfromtexas, you are a remarkably sexy woman
She didn't say anything about sex, sexy or wanting to lure any man. Is it not sexist to hail a woman based upon her appearances?
That said, based on how attractive you are and the general inabilitty of men to control themselves or behave rationally or civilly around beautiful women
Enough with the 'naturally lascivious male'. We have feelings to.
For the record, I'm not sure if this reads as the honest response I intended
Well, everything is honest depending on who and how it is read.
Based on what I have read I honestly deem you to be an honestly "lame/horny boy."
If the latter, my sincere apologies.
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The sooner the modern man realizes that it's perfectly okay to let a woman know that you're attracted to her, the better but of course that needs to be done rationally and civilly. In my experience with hanging out with different men, I'd say it's the men that pretend that they're not horny (and are actually "just good guys looking for friendship") that repeatedly fail with women. We're all horny, we were born that way and women know it, especially physically attractive women who have spent most of their lives dealing with men approaching them in different ways.
Anyway, I personally hate men arguing over what is sexist and what isn't. Leave that for women huh?
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Is it not sexist to hail a woman based upon her appearances?
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Not initially no, women find men physically attractive too - it NEVER offends me when a woman finds me attractive. If you're still doing it after six months of dating her then you got problems, but it is really okay to find a woman physically attractive, and to let her know about it.
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Ozabout7or8
Joined: 04 May 2007
Location: NZ
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 2:02 am Post subject: |
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| Butterfly wrote: |
| The sooner the modern man realizes that it's perfectly okay to let a woman know that you're attracted to her, the better but of course that needs to be done rationally and civilly. |
Here here Butterfly. I totally agree with your post. There is nothing wrong with people comenting on other peoples photos or appearance especially if it is a man to a woman. This is as long as the woman herself doesn't take offence.
We are all human and single people in their twenties and thirties who tell me they are not horny at least alot of the time are in my opinion the strange ones and could be 'bottling' something up which can be worse. |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 2:27 am Post subject: |
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| Ozabout7or8 wrote: |
| Butterfly wrote: |
| The sooner the modern man realizes that it's perfectly okay to let a woman know that you're attracted to her, the better but of course that needs to be done rationally and civilly. |
Here here Butterfly. I totally agree with your post. There is nothing wrong with people comenting on other peoples photos or appearance especially if it is a man to a woman. This is as long as the woman herself doesn't take offence. |
Right. It's always on, generally I think if she takes offence, you didn't do it right. If she's not available or not into you, most women will let you know politely (this is perhaps not true in Korea~!).
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| We are all human and single people in their twenties and thirties who tell me they are not horny at least alot of the time are in my opinion the strange ones and could be 'bottling' something up which can be worse. |
Indeed. It's creepy. Those guys who come out with that crap must be extraordinary masterbators and potentially much more dangerous than the ones that walk and talk the way they feel. |
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in_seoul_2003
Joined: 24 Nov 2003
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 2:54 am Post subject: |
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chi-chi
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 3:49 am Post subject: |
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
So I started to browse Yahoo Personals out of boredom. I've read one ad where a girl openly said she is just looking for a good time. That she needs to sleep with a lot of cute random guys to get her ex bf out of her head. I was thinking, wow she must have been head over hills in love with him.
Put really provocative pictures and listed her real email. She was very pretty and had a nice body too. I can somewhat see the desperation maybe in those rare "I'm so heartbroken cases," where you can find good looking people openly advertising themselves for that. I know what it feels like to be obsessed with a guy, and wanting to see a bunch of guys who are cuter or better than your ex in some way. Sometimes, you finally meet that guy that will make you forget your ex and you realize there are better guys out there.
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Sometimes people lie online just to screw with their ex. It happens. Especially if he/she (depending on your gender) makes you cry every night for three months. People start to talk about crazy stuff online that they would never do in real life.
I mean, maybe that one girl would have, I don't know. But there are many more who would just be trying to "leave something" to make their ex jealous. (I mention this since you're talking about breakups-I took those preceding two sentences out of the quote. Oops.) |
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chi-chi
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 4:03 am Post subject: |
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
I don't know maybe the people who get mad come from some sexually or socially repressed society. But here in TX, people compliment each other quite frequently. People in TX are generally nicer than people from other states, because of the southern hospitality. I go to some towns where I don't even know anyone personally, and they always wave hello to me. I wave back. Girls compliment each other a lot too. You see females get complimented on their appearances, article of clothing, jewelry, purse, or whatever, and the girl usually compliment them back. It's sometimes a way to "break the ice." A conversation starter. I am not afraid to admit another girl's attractiveness. Just because I realize that she is attractive, in my opinion, and let someone know, does not make me a lesbian.
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It sounds like I need to move to TX. In GA ppl tend to be overly suspicious of those who compliment their own gender. You hear compliments, but sometimes if people don't have a boyfriend (or girlfriend, depending on their gender), sometimes they can get suspicious looks. (I've seen it and had it happen to me too haha.) I think it has to do with our proximity to FL and (so I heard) their high gay and lesbian population there. (I'm not gay bashing I'm just saying I think it makes ppl in GA overly suspicious of it.)
But seriously, people in GA tend to be overly suspicious if you're too nice to them AT ALL....At least where I live and thereabouts... |
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djsmnc
Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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| Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 7:14 am Post subject: |
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| We are all human and single people in their twenties and thirties who tell me they are not horny at least alot of the time are in my opinion the strange ones and could be 'bottling' something up which can be worse. |
Indeed. It's creepy. Those guys who come out with that crap must be extraordinary masterbators and potentially much more dangerous than the ones that walk and talk the way they feel. |
Oh come on now,
1. It's masturbators, not masterbators
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2. I myself am an extraordinary one with no intentions of harming anyone. I also walk and talk the way I feel and have a steady girlfriend. Just because I have a, shall I say, rigorous affair with my hand doesn't mean I am a secretive and potentially dangerous person. I suppose you could say I'm explosive, but...well, maybe that's too much information... |
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mateomiguel
Joined: 16 May 2005
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| Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 10:44 pm Post subject: |
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hahaha, gyopogirlfromtexas, you're such a contrast to this board. All of your posts are long, well-written and positive about life. Other people's posts all seem to be short, snarky, irrelevant jibes at other posters. I mean, they got from the topic of meeting people in Korea online all the way to lesbianism just on the first page, and most of it is entirely irrelevant!
I'd recommend koreanfriendfinder.com, although I've never used it. It seems like you can meet people who just want to be friends and there is probably a minimum of *beep* pics. There's also koreancupid.com but I think that's exclusively for korean/foreigner hookups.
Or, you know, you could always go to the book store and hang out near the books you like. That's always a good way to meet interesting people. |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 7:39 am Post subject: |
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| mateomiguel wrote: |
| hahaha, gyopogirlfromtexas, you're such a contrast to this board. All of your posts are long, well-written and positive about life. Other people's posts all seem to be short, snarky, irrelevant jibes at other posters. |
And this one isn't?  |
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mateomiguel
Joined: 16 May 2005
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Butterfly wrote: |
| And this one isn't? |
ooh, iceburn  . |
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Jizzo T. Clown
Joined: 27 Mar 2006
Location: at my wit's end
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| Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| dogshed wrote: |
Myspace is too busy. It gives stupid people to much freedom to make
a crappy looking website.
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Nah, you're thinking of facebook. Myspace is an older crowd, but every website has stupid people (most of whom know when to use too/to/two).  |
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