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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:59 pm    Post subject: Re: why??????????? Reply with quote

princess wrote:
There's a guy I am soooooooo into [...] Why would one who seems interested won't even ask for your number?

Hmm, yes indeed. Why won't one?
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blynch



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: UCLA

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 1:13 am    Post subject: Re: why??????????? Reply with quote

princess wrote:
If a guy seems interested in you, why won't he ask for your number and call you????? There's a guy I am soooooooo into at a place of business here in Korea, and the second time he saw me he reached out to hug me goodbye. Last week, we talked so much about our interests, travels, etc. He has yet to ask for my number though. Crying or Very sad Another guy who works there just got married, and he would send text messages to a girl I know, even though he was clealy not interested. He told her from the get-go he had a girlfriend and he just got married last Sunday. So why won't my love object ask for my number???????? We talked about how we are both available last week, too. He told me to message him on cyworld, but he didn't take my number. I didn't offer it either. Shouldn't a man have to ASK for our number? And be the first to call? I just don't understand guys, I guess. Why would one who is NOT interested send texts/exchange numbers, while one who seems interested won't even ask for your number?


my guesses are:

1. Princess is butt ugly
2. The guy is gay
3. Princess wants to deny the relationship since the guy just wanted sex
4. Princess is so dumb
5. Princess has nothing better to do.
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ED209



Joined: 17 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 1:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Would someone just please ask for her number and call her. Then you can find out if she has a dick and tell the rest of us.
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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

princess wrote:
tzechuk wrote:
Giving you a hug and a kiss goodbye doesn't mean anything, princess.

May be he is just seeing you as a naive, annoying *princess* that he is having fun with.
Well, guys usually don't behave that way with just any girl.



Plenty of guys and girls do.... Just because a guy kisses a girl or hugs here or even more means he wants more. You are at his establishment, so he has to talk to you, be social, but if he really wanted your number he would have had the courage to ask. I am sure he sees girls all the time.
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote




Will they exchange numbers?? The world waits in suspense.
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Adventurer wrote:
princess wrote:
tzechuk wrote:
Giving you a hug and a kiss goodbye doesn't mean anything, princess.

May be he is just seeing you as a naive, annoying *princess* that he is having fun with.
Well, guys usually don't behave that way with just any girl.



Plenty of guys and girls do.... Just because a guy kisses a girl or hugs here or even more means he wants more. You are at his establishment, so he has to talk to you, be social, but if he really wanted your number he would have had the courage to ask. I am sure he sees girls all the time.
I have to disagree on this. Just because I am at his establishment doesn't necessarily mean he has to do anything beyond cordial greetings. The two maried guys there barely even say hello to me when I go there. This one actually drank with me and was getting to know me. Maybe he is shy. I am too, because I didn't ask for his number either. I don't see him hug every girl bye either. He was very attentive last Saturday, complimenting me, getting to know me, etc. Like I said, why don't the other guys there do the same? They only do the necessary greetings. I also overheard another guy that works there telling him my name after I left on my 3rd visit to this place. The other guy there that I talk to told me straight away that he has a girlfriend, so I want to trust the one there that I like. He's so cute!!!!!!!!!!!! Razz Razz Razz Oh yeah, guess what? The second time I went there, he saw the pic of the ex I still had in my wallet, an dhe asked if we were together. After I told him, the guy is my ex, he stood up and gave me a hug bye, so maybe he really likes me. Oh...hehehe^^
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mysteriousdeltarays



Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nobody asks my number and I'm super cute. Frankly I think the guy asking the girl for her telephone number went out about the time girls decided they needed to wear giant shoulder pads (and that was a while ago.)

I don't think western women like guys anymore do they? I don't know. Maybe after I remove my eyelids and get my macho tats things will look up. Maybe a tat of a little tear under my left eye would be cool. Bic has a nice shade of blue.
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unknown9398



Joined: 03 Nov 2006
Location: Yeongcheon, S. Korea

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

princess wrote:
He's so cute!!!!!!!!!!!! Razz Razz Razz Oh yeah, guess what? The second time I went there, he saw the pic of the ex I still had in my wallet, an dhe asked if we were together. After I told him, the guy is my ex, he stood up and gave me a hug bye, so maybe he really likes me. Oh...hehehe^^


Ok, I'm convinced Princess is a troll. That is just too damn cutesy.
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 12:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

unknown9398 wrote:
princess wrote:
He's so cute!!!!!!!!!!!! Razz Razz Razz Oh yeah, guess what? The second time I went there, he saw the pic of the ex I still had in my wallet, an dhe asked if we were together. After I told him, the guy is my ex, he stood up and gave me a hug bye, so maybe he really likes me. Oh...hehehe^^


Ok, I'm convinced Princess is a troll. That is just too damn cutesy.


no, man. You are wrong!
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JMO



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 12:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is it really necessary to trot out the "she's a guy" thing every time she posts a thread. It's boring. If you like him, ask him for his number or check out his cyworld page. Problem solved.
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Scarlet13



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You seem to be asking the same question over and over again.

If you refuse to make any effort why should he? Either do something or move on.
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Nicco61



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: North Carolina, USA

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

princess wrote:
Oh yeah, guess what? The second time I went there, he saw the pic of the ex I still had in my wallet, an dhe asked if we were together. After I told him, the guy is my ex, he stood up and gave me a hug bye, so maybe he really likes me. Oh...hehehe^^


Why would you still be carrying around a picture of your ex??

If I was interested in a woman and she was carrying a picture of her ex I'd think she had a screw loose and that would be about it.
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ChuckECheese



Joined: 20 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Generally, I can tell right away whether she'll put out or not.

I don't think princess is putting out type.
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jinju



Joined: 22 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JMO wrote:
Is it really necessary to trot out the "she's a guy" thing every time she posts a thread. It's boring. If you like him, ask him for his number or check out his cyworld page. Problem solved.


yes, because SHE'S A GUY. I think hat has some relevence here.
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JMO



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="jinju"]
JMO wrote:
Is it really necessary to trot out the "she's a guy" thing every time she posts a thread. It's boring. If you like him, ask him for his number or check out his cyworld page. Problem solved.


yes, because SHE'S A GUY. I think hat has some relevence here.[/quote

Well people say it, but I've yet to see any convincing evidence.
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