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Newbie

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:02 pm Post subject: Married: Do you have a father-in-law? |
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Of the 8 foreign men I know who are married to Korean women, only 2 have a father-in-law.
Just coincidence, or is there something about not having a father that allows Korean women to be more open? |
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Pak Yu Man

Joined: 02 Jun 2005 Location: The Ida galaxy
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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Usually it's the dad who objects to a pure Korean girl mixing her genes with a dirty round-eye.
My father-in-law wasn't too happy with my wife's choice. He also knew it was 'her way or the highway'. |
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blynch

Joined: 25 Oct 2006 Location: UCLA
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Pak Yu Man wrote: |
Usually it's the dad who objects to a pure Korean girl mixing her genes with a dirty round-eye.
My father-in-law wasn't too happy with my wife's choice. He also knew it was 'her way or the highway'. |
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steroidmaximus

Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: GangWon-Do
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:41 pm Post subject: |
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My father in law thinks I'm awesome: I have an MA, work hard to support the family, and generously give gifts during holidays and what not. Plus, some of the usual crap that occurs between families of the marrieds is totally non-existent, seeing as my folks are far, far away.
But I too know many round-eyes married to Koreans with no father in law. |
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HapKi

Joined: 10 Dec 2004 Location: TALL BUILDING-SEOUL
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 2:41 am Post subject: |
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| I've often wondered about this myself, and can't get a straight answer from my wife either. In most cases I know of, one of the two parents has been out of the picture (My wife's Mom died when she was in middle school. She has 3 older brothers.). A good friend has been married (and divorced) twice. In the first one the parents were divorced, the other the gal was on her own. |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 2:56 am Post subject: |
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| I have a Korean husband. No father in law. He drowned some 10 years before I knew my husband. |
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pest2

Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Location: Vancouver, Canada
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:11 am Post subject: |
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| im not married yet, but my soon to be wife is chinese-australian. Her mom keeps asking why i didnt save more money and wash my face more often. |
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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:17 am Post subject: |
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My Father in Law was captured by the North Koreans. When he escaped and hightailed on foot his companion running alongside was shot and killed. He kept running making his way to KyongSangNamDo.
He's a good 76-odd, still gets around under his own steam. He hates Japanese, Americans, and North Koreans equally. Lately he is starting to hate Koreans now for their overt materialism.
He used to be one of the most straight faced men. Alas, now he's a codgy old bugger who likes to hit the soju. I like him a lot.
I took him to NZ where he caught a duck by the legs in a public park and suggested barbeque. |
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Homer Guest
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:35 am Post subject: |
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I have a father-in-law...he is a good guy too.
It took a little while ( a few weeks) but we soon got along great. He is now retired which means he spends heaps of time with my son.
The guy is a gold mine of stories as well. |
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Beej
Joined: 05 Mar 2005 Location: Eungam Loop
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 4:41 am Post subject: |
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| Dont you know that in the Korean marriage market women with dead fathers are looked down on and are not desirable to the families of potential husbands. Hence many Korean women with no fathers seek out foreign marriage partners who have no such notions. |
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LiquidSunshine
Joined: 31 Mar 2003
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 7:12 am Post subject: |
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| Cheonmunka wrote: |
He's a good 76-odd, still gets around under his own steam. He hates Japanese, Americans, and North Koreans equally. Lately he is starting to hate Koreans now for their overt materialism.
He used to be one of the most straight faced men. Alas, now he's a codgy old bugger who likes to hit the soju. I like him a lot.
I took him to NZ where he caught a duck by the legs in a public park and suggested barbeque. |
HAHAHAHA that's bloody hilarious. i love it!!! |
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Guri Guy

Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Location: Bamboo Island
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 7:19 am Post subject: |
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| The 4 people I know that are married to Koreans all don't have father in laws. Their mother in laws are pretty cool though. |
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europe2seoul
Joined: 12 Sep 2005 Location: Seoul, Korea
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 8:08 am Post subject: |
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| HapKi wrote: |
| A good friend has been married (and divorced) twice. |
I guess he chooses them carefully
I know a guy who married a girl in Middle East from a well off family just so he could sleep with her. Next they he left the country never to return back. |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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| My Father in law died last year this past Sunday. |
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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:09 pm Post subject: |
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| How was attending the funeral? |
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