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SuperFly
Joined: 09 Jul 2003
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 Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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I think it's wonderful that this thread might have created opportunities for people to become friends!  Woot!! |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:48 pm Post subject: |
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| SuperFly wrote: |
| I think it's wonderful that this thread might have created opportunities for people to become friends! Woot!! |
Are you talking about me and Kimchi Story? We've been delicately avoiding the subject of our ravenous mutual attraction for ages now. Don't hold your breath for the sequel though. |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:54 pm Post subject: |
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| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
So you would turn down on a massage? I wouldn't. Your payment is getting the massage. If a woman is excellent at giving a massage, I would like that. Now, of course, this cuddling and massaging could be lead beyond that if the two people aren't careful. For some people cuddling and massaging is just the first step before going to the bedroom... LOL If she massaged a cat, she would have scars all over the place:) |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 1:42 am Post subject: |
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| twg wrote: |
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| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
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kimchi story
Joined: 23 Nov 2006
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 3:53 am Post subject: |
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| kermo wrote: |
| Are you talking about me and Kimchi Story? We've been delicately avoiding the subject of our ravenous mutual attraction for ages now. Don't hold your breath for the sequel though. |
That is the sweetest thing ever. You have a way with words, Kermo. As for sequels - I'm just hoping that if I'm nursing a broken heart in Paris in the future it's you at the table next to me at the Cafe Shakespeare.
No one ever really goes away... |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:06 am Post subject: |
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
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| But what I'm trying to say is, women crave the passionate and emotional sex like in the romance novels, but most guys are more concerned with just getting off. |
Men want this too ultimately. |
Romance, schmomance. Tie me up. |
There is an Antonio Banderas movie called Tie me up, Tie me down. (atame)I always tried to get it but can't find it. It's about him kidnapping a pornstar whom he's obsessed with. I think I'll try to buy it on ebay since the "tie me up" part reminded me about how I've been looking for that movie forever. |
Definately not one of his best films.
And don't be expecting any naughty scenes.
Still, it has all of his passionate flair, style, wit and beats watching 99% of all the other films that have ever been made by anyone else.
Volver was f*cking cool, if you've not seen it yet.
Ah he's the f*cking man is Almoldovar, a real original. |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:08 am Post subject: |
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| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
We're wired differently.
Sure, cuddling and touching and footsie can be delicious and fun but unless it leads to anything else, it's just plain frustrating. It's not called 'blue balls' for nothing. It actually hurts...! |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:09 am Post subject: |
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| twg wrote: |
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| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
Big up.
That's what gay male friends are for. |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:39 am Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
We're wired differently.
Sure, cuddling and touching and footsie can be delicious and fun but unless it leads to anything else, it's just plain frustrating. It's not called 'blue balls' for nothing. It actually hurts...! |
Not as differently as you'd think. Women get an equivalent feeling when we're turned on beyond a certain point and not satisfied, it's just that we don't whine and pout about it. |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:45 am Post subject: |
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| peppermint wrote: |
| venus wrote: |
We're wired differently.
Sure, cuddling and touching and footsie can be delicious and fun but unless it leads to anything else, it's just plain frustrating. It's not called 'blue balls' for nothing. It actually hurts...! |
Not as differently as you'd think. Women get an equivalent feeling when we're turned on beyond a certain point and not satisfied, it's just that we don't whine and pout about it. |
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:50 am Post subject: |
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| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
Then we're getting back into intimate relations, which is not what is wanted from a "Cuddle buddy" nor FWB.
A "cuddle buddy" is basically a free massage. Orgasm is unrelated. I won't lay my hands upon anyone I'm not involved with on a physical level.
And while I'm on it: Casual hugging can take a hike as well.
I don't care about the fake friendship hugs someone learned from raving as a teenager, if we're not lovers or saying our final goodbyes, keep your hands off.
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| So you would turn down on a massage? |
From someone I'm not involved with or planning to get involved with? Yup.
As I suggested earlier, the tingle of blue balls is not something I'm interested in. |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:59 am Post subject: |
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| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
There are many ways to "skin a cat" so to speak and many ways to please a man without necessarily going into all kinds of details.
I mean, come on, a man enjoys the soft touch of a woman, the right stroke of the hand, sometimes a certain gentle embrace with him breathing in her hair, her foot touching his, his nose against hers with barely a hint of touch each other's nose, and then there's the scent of a nice smelling woman...
Thank God we have so many different senses... |
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SuperFly
Joined: 09 Jul 2003
Location: In the doghouse
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 2:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Adventurer wrote: |
| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
There are many ways to "skin a cat" so to speak and many ways to please a man without necessarily going into all kinds of details.
I mean, come on, a man enjoys the soft touch of a woman, the right stroke of the hand, sometimes a certain gentle embrace with him breathing in her hair, her foot touching his, his nose against hers with barely a hint of touch each other's nose, and then there's the scent of a nice smelling woman...
Thank God we have so many different senses... |
So now it's a graphic novel? (this thread) |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 3:42 pm Post subject: |
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| Adventurer wrote: |
| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
There are many ways to "skin a cat" so to speak and many ways to please a man without necessarily going into all kinds of details.
I mean, come on, a man enjoys the soft touch of a woman, the right stroke of the hand, sometimes a certain gentle embrace with him breathing in her hair, her foot touching his, his nose against hers with barely a hint of touch each other's nose, and then there's the scent of a nice smelling woman...
Thank God we have so many different senses... |
Scent of a woman. Pacino at his best. |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:14 pm Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| peppermint wrote: |
| twg wrote: |
| Adventurer wrote: |
| I would have no problem with that if a woman says she just wants someone to give her lots of affection, rubs, not necessarily sex. |
Some woman wants that, she can get herself a damned cat. I'm not going though all that work without some payment. |
hmm, one more reason to feel sorry for men. If the only sort of physical pleasure you can imagine getting from a woman is the orgasm sort, then you're really missing out. Orgasms are great, no doubt, but with the right guy (not talking FWB anymore here) his foot touching mine under the table at dinner is enough to give me the warm fuzzies. |
There are many ways to "skin a cat" so to speak and many ways to please a man without necessarily going into all kinds of details.
I mean, come on, a man enjoys the soft touch of a woman, the right stroke of the hand, sometimes a certain gentle embrace with him breathing in her hair, her foot touching his, his nose against hers with barely a hint of touch each other's nose, and then there's the scent of a nice smelling woman...
Thank God we have so many different senses... |
Scent of a woman. Pacino at his best. |
You're very perceptive, you are, that's what I was thinking about - Al Pacino's "Scent of a Woman". It is like feeling the sensuality out there, it is not just pure physicality, but also your senses... |
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