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Fight at the Railway station.
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milkweedma



Joined: 15 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:20 pm    Post subject: Fight at the Railway station. Reply with quote

Last night went for dinner at Lotteria at a nearby town and missed my train home cos I got talking with the first foreigner I have seen for about three weeks.
So, i thought i would simply catch the next train with my pre purchased ticket except the N.A.Z.I Korean turnstile attendent wouldnt let me go through to the platform because the ticket was for the previous train. An argument ensued that became very heated and i stormed past him onto the platform. If i hadnt done this i would have been stuck in that town cos i had not enough money left to buy another ticket.
Anyway, im on the platform, the train arrives, the doors open and i try to board the train but this guy grabs strongly me and slaps his own cheek twice to initiate me to hit him which i refused. Two older train guards come over and sort it out and let me get on the train. This train isnt stopping at my town (I didnt know this cos usually they do) so im dropped off 4ks away from my home town and do the 40 min walk thing.
Moral of the story perhaps is do everything the Korean way and dont assume they will be flexible or open minded or fair. They cant think outside the square but i already knew that.
How would you guys handle this situation?
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear about your bad experience.

My experiences with Korean subway workers have always been positive. A couple of times I took the train in the wrong direction and the subway workers took pity on the poor confused foreigner and allowed me to change sides without paying again.

To give them credit, usually Koreans will cut foreigners some slack. Are you a gyopo?
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milkweedma



Joined: 15 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nope im a white kiwi. it wasnt the subway either it was Korail out in the sticks.
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nautilus



Joined: 26 Nov 2005
Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i thought you said it was fight?

just a guy slapping himself? Rolling Eyes


This thread is almost as bad as the "Last night I almost thought about nearly killing a Korean guy" thread.
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

milkweedma wrote:
nope im a white kiwi. it wasnt the subway either it was Korail out in the sticks.


Doesn't matter. In general, Koreans will take pity on the poor confused foreigner and cut us some slack. And many foreigners take advantage of this to their own benefit.

That's one reason why we are also not well liked.
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cbclark4



Joined: 20 Aug 2006
Location: Masan

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like the guy was doing his job. You should have returned to the ticket counter for a refund and a new ticket to your correct destination.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I understand your frustration but you were really in the wrong, not the ticket attendant. He is just doing his job as your seat would have been numbered and you might have been taking someone elses seat...

In that situation you should have just went to the ticket office and explained the situation and they would have made you a new ticket for the next train at no(or minimal) cost....

You are putting this down to koreans being too rigid and being racist but you would not have been let on any train in the west either.
It is just because of you that you were late...I am no apologist but I am a realist.
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milkweedma



Joined: 15 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i tried the refund or new ticket idea too but the ticket attendant refused. i suspect she told this guy about me and he was waiting for me because i was the only person he asked to see their tickets. He could of cut me some slack but i wasnt a pretty woman which usually works for them
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milkweedma



Joined: 15 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

and the train was 98% empty, so that wasnt an issue either.
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you are a little disorganized, missing your train and not having any extra money on you. Think ahead a little next time.
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atomic42



Joined: 06 Jul 2007
Location: Gimhae

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You would have been arrested and possibly investigated for links to terrorism anywhere in Europe, US, etc. Consider yourself lucky.
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unknown9398



Joined: 03 Nov 2006
Location: Yeongcheon, S. Korea

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe the turnstile attendant didn't want to let you on the train because he knew that it wouldn't stop at the station where you wanted to go.
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ruffie



Joined: 11 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 10:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Obviously you haven't learned the essentiall method to getting the best result from these situations. Just put on a sad, puppy dog face and throw your hands up in despair. Koreans will always take pity on you then, and help you out. They think you are a retarded, subhuman gorilla anyway, and noone likes to see an animal in pain, even Koreans (unless it's a dog or cat). It helps if you're short, cute and have big eyes. This might be hard for a big strapping dude to pull off. Try practicing in front of a mirror.
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koon_taung_daeng



Joined: 28 Jan 2007
Location: south korea

PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 12:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

what a horrible gay thread.you didint even fight.. dont waste our time
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atomic42



Joined: 06 Jul 2007
Location: Gimhae

PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 12:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gay?
What's gay about it?
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