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Middle schoolers- arrgghhh!
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2003 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OK, some real advice, instead of just laughing at your plight. Find out who the class clown is and joke the crap out of them(don't make them cry though, both of you should have fun). This is guaranteed to loosen everyone else up. Also, never ever ever let any sarcastic or snide tones slip. Middle schoolers are awesome at picking up these vibes.
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2003 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I actually forgot that I have another middle school class that is heaps of fun to be around. But they are a bit weird, so we connect on some level I'm not sure why though.

CLG
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2003 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok, thanks guys- some nice ideas here...
regarding the numbers, i had a class of 16 last year, my current comatose selection is only 7. Specs, fatboy, fonzie, ghost, she- genius, aloof princess, and crazy gal.
think i may try the acting/miming idea, newspaper articles. i'm a bit too nice to turn fatboy into the butt of humour though. Laughing Laughing
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Austin



Joined: 23 May 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2003 11:04 pm    Post subject: No... Reply with quote

Belittling others is misguided advice. Why resort to such a method, when there are so many other positive ways to win kids over?

I will be sending you a PM on some ideas, as soon as I get the time.
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2003 11:17 pm    Post subject: Re: No... Reply with quote

Austin wrote:
Belittling others is misguided advice.


When did I say that I was belittling anyone? Hakwon middle school classes and real middle school classes are totally different ballgames. I'm talking about finding a student and breaking the ice especially with them, you smile, that student smiles, you crack a few light jokes about each other, the other students see you're a friendly teacher and they drop their traditional study roles with you, which is required in order to effectively learn the spoken side of a foreign language.

I don't call you ridiculous on the board, contrary to whatever opinion I might hold, so I'd prefer it that you kept your opinions of my advice to yourself, especially when you don't understand the idea completely.

rapier-On that note, focus on fonzie. Call him a pimp/stud/gigolo/whatever feels appropriate to you as a teacher. Play him out with the ladies. It just might drop all of these barriers that the kids naturally put up as part of their school curriculum. You get the idea. It doesn't have to be ridicule...
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2003 12:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, I think fonzies fair game- only he is the only student that speaks well with a good grasp of English so I don't want to p**s him off.
I devised a new idea today- I cut out a few articles from the Korea herald and glued them onto a B4 sheet, arranged like a real newspaper. Seemed like a good idea- I have a couple of photos to liven it up, the astrological forecasts (they can read their own, talk about it and write one for their neighbour). Also dtuck on the TV schedule, they can answer q's about what programmes are on and when, etc.....
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ratslash



Joined: 08 May 2003

PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2003 3:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shoot 'em! shoot 'em all!

i didn't even read your post. just read the words "middle school" and that was what came into my head! Very Happy
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Austin



Joined: 23 May 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2003 5:56 pm    Post subject: interpretation Reply with quote

Zzyfer,

It was not clear what you meant, but I stand by what I said about belittling your students. You said "joke the crap out...but don't make them cry..." You obviously meant something different, but by the response of the OP, it is clear that he took it as meaning something different as well.

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I don't call you ridiculous on the board, contrary to whatever opinion I might hold, so I'd prefer it that you kept your opinions of my advice to yourself, especially when you don't understand the idea completely.


I did not call your advice ridiculous. I merely stated that belittling others is misguided. Obviously, the shoe did not fit, so do not wear it. I am sure we all prefer many things, but I do not know that others are really going to care.

Your advice could have been understood to mean many things, so I appreciate you clarifying what you meant.

We were both offering different points of view, so why not let the poster decide, instead of asking for one to be silent.
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Zyzyfer



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2003 7:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Point taken.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 25, 2003 3:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't stand Middle Schoolers. They are so either tired and don't say anything or tired and don't shut up speaking Korean. AHHH!!!
Well not all of them but about 75%. The 1st. year ,iddle schoolers are Ok but 2nd. and 3rd. are problems.
I got very angry at one the other day, sent him out to the WonJangNim and was told the next day by students in his class that i should be very careful when walking at night. I nearly pissed my pants laughing which has made him even more angry. he is a gangstar wanna be, I'm loving the midle schoolers. Confused
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Oct 25, 2003 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you can come up with enough jeopary-style questions it might help. Or Monopoly? "Go fish" is good with all ages because all they need to say is "Do you have a jack?" And Crazy Card is not bad for fun too. And if you have lots of flash cards, like the Let's Go cards, you can play "hint game"... just describe the card and they guess what it is. Some may even want to be the hint-giver. And if you can talk about computer games, most boys will be interested. I had one boy about 15 yrs old before who didn't like speaking more than minimal one or two word replies until I asked him about "Starcraft" or whatever game he liked. He liked talking about that, how to play etc... Another simple idea that was good sometimes was simply asking a question to one student, hopefully getting a response, then see if that student can ask the next student the same question. They often screw it up, misuse the grammar or whatever, but to get it right they have to listen. And the 20 questions game is good sometimes too, with only "yes or"no" questions allowed. "Is it ...., Does it....? " And if you got internet and and a printer availabe go to www.puzzlemaker.com and make some word searches and crosswords.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 2:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Someone suggested "celebrity chatshow- it was on another thread I think. Thankyou whoever did. I tried it today- very good results. I adapted it into a straight "who am I?" 20 questions-type game, they had to answer questions from their classmates without giving away their identity.
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The Lemon



Joined: 11 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Posting for "FUBAR":
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Teaching middle school students can be tough. During each school vacation, my previous Director thought that that it would be a great idea to have these jam packed middle school classes. Problem was, they were all different age groups. Factor in the gender issue, and you get a class that feels very unconfortable with each other.

If you want them to get talking, arrange them to do some group work or partner work. Maybe even give them teams, team names, whatever... Most them know how to speak English, but speaking it in front of a group of strangers is very unsettling for them. Just imagine if somebody asked you to speak Korean in front of a total group of strangers. When the students group together, let them basically decide the group.(With some proper nudging on your part) Don't force boys and girls together or break up friends. Trust me on that. You won't succeed at all if you get them out of their confort zone.

You can try using worksheets, from www.bogglesworld.com . It has been a life saver for me. However, you may need to bring in a Korean/English and English/Korean dictionary since some of the words are not easy to explain. I found, that, alot of the time they wanted to talk, however they just didn't how to put it in English.

Just curious, but what text book are you using to teach them?
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waggo



Joined: 18 May 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think middle schoolers are a wonderful challenge to a teacher...they CAN be the ultimate difficult class.
They are tired,bored,uninterested ,of mixed ability and most of all reluctant to speak or to contribute because they might look stupid.
Also they smell funny.

Youre not going to break them into a free speaking English class in one lesson. You have to take it one small step at a time.Try and improve one small thing about every lesson that you teach them.

Do not, as I have done, perform for them and try to be their friend,they can see desperation a mile away and just sigh,groan and look at the clock.
So far , their English speaking lives have consisted of putting their head down into books for hundreds of hours.They have had no chance to really enjoy the language by using their productive skills..speaking and writing...the fun bits!

Get them writing letters...get them writing letters and lying!(Its a national trait after all!)
One of my students has just had a letter back from the White House after she wrote to Laura Bush! She delighted in writing to her how much she loved her elegant dresses and how handsome her husband was....and she got a reply!!!

My coup de grace was a couple of months ago when a student got a HAND WRITTEN LETTER complete with photos and autographs from Robin Williams (God Bless Him!)...I couldnt believe it myself.

Everybody's address is on the internet somewhere.

Except wrestlers.Steer them away from wrestlers.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 8:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Another great idea Waggo. I'm just a little worried about students spending all leson writing rather than talking.
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