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| Be honest...who are you thinking about? |
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| A Celebrity |
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12% |
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| Random Acquaintance |
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| Nobody Specific...Generic Human Being |
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| Porn Star |
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| Other, please explain |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Re: fantasizing about a significant other...
I was in a serious relationship from 2000-2004, and even when things weren't going well, I always thought about him... or nothing in particular. I thought about us in a possibly happy future, with fitter bodies, a healthier love. It was like a rule I had made for myself to stay focused on being faithful to the relationship 24/7.
Since then (and up until last month) I haven't had a very settled relationship, and I've let my imagination run wild. There have been pockets when I think about someone who is close to me, and important to me, but more often I just try to get creative.
Now that I'm back in the monogamous groove, I hope I will be inspired to settle down a bit mentally too. |
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storysinger81
Joined: 25 Mar 2007
Location: Daegu
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| Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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For me, I think its about restlessness--always "wanting" what I can't have. Now that I'm single and could (theoretically at least) go out and have wild orgy parties, I fantasize about the same man kissing me and holding me and then doing all sorts of other fun things every night. But when I don't have that, I think about all the things I could do if I weren't committed anymore.
I'm beginning to think "restlessness" (or its more positive sister, adventurousness) is a core part of my personality. It certainly was a big contributing factor to me landing in Korea.
Just before I left, I was theorizing about this to a friend who laughed in my face and said, "Good luck with marriage one day." 
I think maybe I just haven't met the right guy yet who could be restless with me... Marriage could be a domestic adventure. In the WAY WAY WAY distant future. |
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Alias
Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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This is the ultimate fantacy scene right here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nL-76r_pQII
Salam Hayek's 'snake dance' in 'From Dusk til Dawn'.
God I cannot tell you how many times I spanked it to her. This scene was the genisis of my carpal tunnel infatuation with the lovely latina actress.
In the meantime I have a few minuties to kill before heading off to work.....  |
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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| Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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That's interesting. I've always been very faithful in my fantasies. It's always the same guy for a certain period, whether that period lasts for weeks, months or years. There's never any going back and forth. It used to be celebrities until my mid-teens, and since then it's only ever been men I know. And I could count them (the real life men I've fantasised about) on my fingers and possibly have some fingers left. Maybe I'm just very boring. |
Boring... or picky. Sometimes I think I am too picky, but I don't know how I could force attraction for someone who didn't instantly make the cut. |
Picky, yes. I don't seem to feel attracted to many men. You can put me in a room with some very hot looking men, and I feel nothing at all. At least it's been that way since my late teens anyhow. But every once in a while I come across someone who ignites a raging fire in me - and then they become the sole focus of my filthy little mind.  |
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oneofthesarahs
Joined: 05 Nov 2006
Location: Sacheon City
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| Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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If we're going with movies, Y Tu Mama Tambien makes me feel like a deviant.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y18BvvyJJ-0 [Particularly starting at 7 minutes in. Not safe for work or the prudish] |
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The Bobster
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 5:43 am Post subject: |
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| Salma Hayek has been mentioned by at least a couple of other guys, and Jessica Alba, too. Hands off, you guys. I tagged them a long time ago, and I'm a jealous man thinking about other people fantasizing about them the way I do. I'm serious about this. Stop it now, or next time we meet there will be fisticuffs, and no Marquis of Queenbury Rules. |
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Ilsanman
Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:00 am Post subject: |
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| I am thinking about Sarah. She's dreamy. |
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john110375
Joined: 30 Jul 2007
Location: seoul
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:59 am Post subject: |
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I second that .. Sarah's hot..  |
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john110375
Joined: 30 Jul 2007
Location: seoul
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 7:01 am Post subject: |
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| I second that .. Sarah's hot.. |
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Thunndarr
Joined: 30 Sep 2003
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 7:18 am Post subject: |
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| Hmmmm....Who do I think is hot? Really hot? Well, if I were to be honest I would guess I would have to say the Queen of England. Yes. Oh. God. Yes. You nasty old *beep* you! Hot, hot, hot! Power, beauty, power, and a body that simply will not quit no matter how hard you try. Yeah. Queeny baby. Boo. Ya. Kasha! |
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Keepongoing
Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 4:49 pm Post subject: huh |
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| The female cast of KYLE XY |
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