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What do you do when you can't sleep???
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oneofthesarahs



Joined: 05 Nov 2006
Location: Sacheon City

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

After being in Korea for a few months, I developed a severe case of insomnia. Probably because my sleep schedule was (and still is) screwed up. On the weekdays, I go to bed really late because I find it hard to go right to bed when I get home at 9 p.m. I still have all my energy from work, so I end up going to bed at 3 a.m. and getting up at 11 a.m. Yet on the weekends I tend to go to bed and wake up at a reasonable hour unless I've been drinking the night before. After a few months of that, my body apparently decided to never sleep. I'd be up until 5, 6 in the morning.

The best way to take care of insomnia is to get a regular sleeping schedule and force yourself to stick to it. Don't use your bed for anything other than sleeping (no reading/watching TV in bed), so your brain associates your bed with sleeping. It's also sometimes helpful to have some sort of ritual before you go to bed that you ALWAYS do, which tells your mind that it's time to sleep. Acupuncture has also helped me, but the effects "wear off" after a while, so I need a new session every so often.
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Jizzo T. Clown



Joined: 27 Mar 2006
Location: at my wit's end

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

djsmnc wrote:
I heard that shaking babies usually gets them to quiet down


Laughing Laughing Laughing

Buy an eye mask, It's done wonders for me (but I'm single and don't have any kids. Crying or Very sad )
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Cliffhanger



Joined: 07 Sep 2007
Location: Anyang

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just generally toss and turn, punch my pillow and yell out " WHY THE FUG CANT I FUGIN FALL ASLEEP?!? Twisted Evil Seriously.

Happens almost everynight.

I really hate not being able to sleep at night especially since I'm always tired and have no problem sleeping during the day. I swear I was born nocturnal.
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JongnoGuru



Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Big_Bird wrote:
My baby has been keeping me up later and later each night, and it's got so he doesn't sleep until 3 or 4, and I can't sleep until 5 or 6. It's horrible. Has anyone got any advise on how to turn ones sleeping around. At least if I could fall asleep when he does, that would be something of an improvement. Confused

Five or six in the a.m.?? And that's not because of some freaky work schedule, but entirely due to this baby? And you'd otherwise be sleeping normal-people hours? Hell's Bells!! leave the kid with his nanny. Or lay down the law re: bedtime. Or just spike his milk. I know late-night feedings are part of being a mother, but being kept on your toes till dawn sounds insane to me. Is that common?

atomic42 wrote:
Drink a beer and put on some deep lounge trax.

Yeah, I was thinking of recommending some aural sedative, too. In fact, I will: http://grace.fast-serv.com:9022/listen.pls (Winamp or iTunes required).

Qinella wrote:
Xerxes wrote:
On a side note, Quinella, you seemed to have mellowed with terse posts of late. I liked it when you, Gongroguru, and that one dude with the woodsie avatar (then later this old version of him) shooting your mouths off.

Wha happened?


don't remind me..

things have only been downhill since then

They sure have. (who's Gongnoguru?) As I remember it, though, the Triumvirate was Flots, Qin and Tibby. I just served the drinks and laughed on cue.
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Xerxes



Joined: 10 Jan 2006
Location: Down a certain (rabbit) hole, apparently

PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 7:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Can't say I really liked Tibby and was the reason I left this place for a half year leave (Otherwise my count would be higher). I found his humor to be somewhat moody as if the fella were bi-polar.

Flotsam was cool, and I'm sorry for misspelling your name, JongroGuru. It is a bit testy to spell. billybrobby always had me laughing quite a bit.

I just downed my jujubee extract and will lie down to bed. It's good for headaches too.
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 7:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Melatonin if I really can't sleep - I don't use it regularly because don't want to 'wear it out'.

Or I just play online games for awhile.
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ChopChaeJoe



Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Read philosopht, preferably something european - heidegger, hegel always work for me. I'm asleep before two pages.
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safeblad



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 9:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The problem is when sleep becomes an issue. The cure for insomnia is to stop sleep becoming an issue in your mind... which is pretty damn hard when you have insomnia!

You know how some people can fall asleep anywhere? I cant.... I'm crap at sleeping. I often wonder if i would be able to fall asleep on buses, trains, planes etc if I didn't tell myself that I couldn't. I need to get hypnosis for that shit.

Sunday nights are difficult after weekend late nights and lie-ins. I find that I sleep much better if its not an issue in my head and tell myself... 'whatever happens, im going to be tired anyway' that sort of thing...Smile

If you seriously cant sleep though get up and do something. If you lie awake in bed you are training yourself to stay awake.

Things like drinking warm milk are good but only if sleep isnt a massive issue in your brain. I hear that warm milk contains chemicals which make you drowsy but I wonder if the process of doing something doesnt also help.

Did you ever notice how when you really cant sleep you eventually get to sleep at some ridiculous hour in the morning when you stop giving a fuck?

Its all in the mind...though i hear melatonin is also good Wink

this doesnt work when you have a screaming baby either Wink
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beachbumNC



Joined: 30 May 2007
Location: Gumi

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 10:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KOREAN_MAN wrote:
Drink milk. Seriously, it helps you fall asleep.


yes, a glass of milk or a dairy snack of some sort (maybe crackers with cheese or a cup of yogurt) helps the body wind down for sleep. try it out!
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yawarakaijin



Joined: 08 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 6:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rubbing one off usually puts me right. Wink
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diver



Joined: 16 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 6:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yawarakaijin wrote:
Rubbing one off usually puts me right. Wink


Can't believe it took almost two full pages for this one to come out. Smile

Dinner glass. Half scotch. Half Nyquill.
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have this sleep issue too where I prefer to sleep from 3 am to 11 am, but can't except on days like today, so I get really exhausted by Thursday. Despite becoming really exhausted, I still stay up late. I think it's anxiety over being homesick or just a yearning to move on in life. This is where you constantly need more of something in your life, be it money, travel, love, friends, or stepping up on the career ladder to a more rewarding position. These are the things I can't take my attention off of each night. I do understand that getting exercise and a sense of having accomplished enough is very important in falling asleep on any given night.

I only sleep well and regularly when I am satisfied with my lifestyle, career, and financial situation and that is not very often to be honest. I miss being a kid as you are happier and sleep well when you don't know much about anything or have all these responsibilities. Not knowing too much is why the old folks say people were happier years ago and could sleep well. Going to college with high expectations for a high flying career has led me down a path of insomnia over financial, economic, and job market reality reasons. Nothing adds up significantly enough these days, except costs.

Anyone know how to get an adequate supply of Lunesta or Ambien? I went to the doctor here a few times and got only a 3 day supply of something very much like American over the counter sleep aid which was too weak and in too limited supply. I tried to go while in the states recently, but would had to wait 2 more weeks for the doctor appointment by which time I am already back in Korea.
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yawarakaijin



Joined: 08 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 8:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

diver wrote:
yawarakaijin wrote:
Rubbing one off usually puts me right. Wink


Can't believe it took almost two full pages for this one to come out. Smile

Dinner glass. Half scotch. Half Nyquill.



I was pleasantly suprised myself. Doubt it? Give it a go. Wink
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The Bobster



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 11:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Chocolate. Raises the blood sugar level for a short time, then it drops sharply. Then you are mellow, and sleep happens.
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 7:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sojourner1 wrote:
I have this sleep issue too where I prefer to sleep from 3 am to 11 am, but can't except on days like today, so I get really exhausted by Thursday.


I'm exhausted in the afternoon and want to nap, but even if I force myself to stay up, I still can't fall asleep at night.

So far the best cure has been to drink myself to sleep. Current bottle beside my bed is strawberry cream tequila.
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