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Rumple

Joined: 19 Sep 2007
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 9:03 am Post subject: Open Letter to Dave |
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Dave, your forum is used by thousands of ESL teachers all over the world.
...but there are thousands more who don't use it, because basic standards of decency aren't enforced by the moderators. I know TONS of people who say "I think Dave's ESL Cafe is cool, but I'd never post an opinion there, because people are really mean." And I think that's a shame.
Wikipedia is a great example of a large community that argues and debates many issues with a minuscule amount of acrimony or rancor. They have a blanket "No personal attacks" rule that takes care of most of that.
There is simply no reason why a forum like this needs to allow personal attacks. Setting up a "no personal attacks" rule would require a lot of housecleaning up front as the users adjusted to the new rule, but then you'd finally have a situation where everyone felt comfortable posting here. How many times have people posted questions and gotten 30 replies not answering it, but telling them what a tool they are for asking, or not knowing already? That's BS, and YOU and YOUR moderators are allowing it to happen. It is so bad that now people post "I have a question, and spare me your judgements," because they already know it is coming.
I do not think that this is the kind of environment you aim to have on your forum. I think you've got something special here, and it could be even better if there was a policy change in this area.
I'm not laying this at the feet of the moderators, nor implying that they aren't doing their jobs. They certainly are, within the parameters you have set. YOU need to change the parameters, because you have a culture of intolerance and bad faith here.
Newcomers are both needed by and are of value to the community. By empowering newcomers, we improve the diversity of knowledge, opinions and ideals on Dave's ESL Cafe, enhance its value and preserve its integrity as a resource
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If you do determine, or sincerely believe, a newcomer has made a mistake...try to correct the mistake yourself. Do not slam the newcomer...If you really feel that you must say anything at all to a newcomer about a mistake, please do so in a constructive way. Begin by introducing yourself with a greeting on the user's talk page to let them know that they are welcome here, and present your corrections calmly and as the contributor's peer, perhaps also pointing out things they've done that you like. If you cannot do that, then it may well be better to say nothing. |
I think the above promotes a welcoming culture, which is especially important in an environment where a large proportion of your users are coming here because they are new to a foreign work environment.
I expect that the trolls and flamers will have a lot to say about this, and they will all illustrate my point. Dave's ESL Cafe is a giant flamewar with bits of good information sprinkled throughout. People shouldn't need to feel "brave" to get involved here.
The choice is yours, Dave, and doing nothing is a choice to support the status quo. I hope you can make this fantastic community you have built into something that everyone feels comfortable contributing to. A "No personal attacks" rule will go a long way toward realizing this ideal. |
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lastat06513
Joined: 18 Mar 2003 Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 2:50 pm Post subject: |
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Unfortunately, this is the power of having a forum site originating from the US- which is to give people the power to anonymously bash people who want to get or to give useful information.
Trust me, this is not the only site with the same problem; The china daily website has the same problems too and so did the Korean Herald forum site until they cracked down on it. |
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Rteacher

Joined: 23 May 2005 Location: Western MA, USA
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 2:57 pm Post subject: |
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Hmm, ... has "Bramble" changed her avatar name again?  |
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Bramble

Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Location: National treasures need homes
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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Rteacher wrote: |
Hmm, ... has "Bramble" changed her avatar name again?  |
Nope. I guess I'm not the only one who'd like to see Dave's become a moderated forum. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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I'm of in two minds about this.
Yes, some stuff goes unchecked particularly certain anti-Semite garbage and conspiracy theory nonsense.
However there seems to be a feeling among many if not most posters that Dave's is actually OVER-moderated (look at all the posts complaining that a certain word is "beeped" out) Were the mods to really crack down...there wouldn't be that many posters left...they'd all head over to other greener fields and ultimately the people that post jobs here would notice and start using other boards for their ads.
Either that or people would just create a sock and go back to re-ignite the flame war on the thread(s) in question. And so it goes...
BTW OP are you talking about the ENTIRE ESLcafe or just the Korean forums...? |
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Young FRANKenstein

Joined: 02 Oct 2006 Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 7:02 pm Post subject: |
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TheUrbanMyth wrote: |
However there seems to be a feeling among many if not most posters that Dave's is actually OVER-moderated |
I just have problems with disappearing threads. If the thread starts out okay but deteriorates, just delete the offending posts or lop off the last few posts off the end of the thread and let it continue they way it started. The entire thread doesn't have to disappear. |
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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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People make hundreds of posts here every day in real time. The mods can't be everywhere--unless everyone wants to go back to the old format of submitting a post, having it vetted by mods, then posted on the boards later.
If you think there's something objectionable, please hit the post report button! |
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ddeubel

Joined: 20 Jul 2005
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:04 pm Post subject: |
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People make hundreds of posts here every day in real time. The mods can't be everywhere--unless everyone wants to go back to the old format of submitting a post, having it vetted by mods, then posted on the boards later.
If you think there's something objectionable, please hit the post report button! |
I disagree. This isn't E. Germany 1974.
The better thing to do is
a) politely state your opinion and why it is inappropriate. Do not catcall or any of that
b) then refrain from fertilizing the discussion. Don't post there again.
This forum should be free for all to say what they want within the boundaries of no personal profanity or hate. That's all.
If it doesn't live up to your standards OP, just note that it is a reflection more of the world enlarge than any distinctive characteristic of this forum.
DD |
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twg

Joined: 02 Nov 2006 Location: Getting some fresh air...
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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canuckistan wrote: |
If you think there's something objectionable, please hit the post report button! |
But complaining that the mods aren't doing their job is so much easier!
Oh, wait... no it isn't. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:52 pm Post subject: Re: Open Letter to Dave |
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Rumple wrote: |
I know TONS of people who say "I think Dave's ESL Cafe is cool, but I'd never post an opinion there, because people are really mean." And I think that's a shame.
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I stopped taking this complaint seriously when I got to this line. Seriously everyone I know who is aware of this site but doesn't post on it (and some that do) think it is a group of losers who complain about Korea and make a lot of racist comments. |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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ESL Cafe's Official Freak Magnet |
Are you one? |
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dogshed

Joined: 28 Apr 2006
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 9:06 pm Post subject: |
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Young FRANKenstein wrote: |
TheUrbanMyth wrote: |
However there seems to be a feeling among many if not most posters that Dave's is actually OVER-moderated |
I just have problems with disappearing threads. If the thread starts out okay but deteriorates, just delete the offending posts or lop off the last few posts off the end of the thread and let it continue they way it started. The entire thread doesn't have to disappear. |
A big meto for this one. Maybe some people thought my debang girl post
was lame, but it didn't violate any policies that I know of. I didn't ask people
to post their sex stories on it. |
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Bramble

Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Location: National treasures need homes
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:55 pm Post subject: |
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canuckistan wrote: |
People make hundreds of posts here every day in real time. The mods can't be everywhere--unless everyone wants to go back to the old format of submitting a post, having it vetted by mods, then posted on the boards later.
If you think there's something objectionable, please hit the post report button! |
I don't understand why that's the only possible alternative to the status quo. The OP made a valid point about the culture that has developed on the boards, and I think he or she speaks for many of us. No one expects the mods to read every post or follow every discussion, but they could be a little more "hands-on" when the situation calls for it. They could also be more public about the decisions they make and the reasons for them. Sometimes I fully support the mods' decisions, and sometimes I don't. Why are they so resistant to any kind of criticism or public questioning? |
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Treefarmer

Joined: 29 May 2007
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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a good idea would maybe to be have a couple of the forums moderated, i can't see the harm in having the teaching discussion forum with a no flaming rule for example. but keep the offtopic forum pretty much unmoderated. that way people have the option to use the site for useful discussion or just general chat/drunken abuse
i also know that there is an ignore function can be installed onto this type of bb, if the admins added that, people could ignore those who they see as unpleasant |
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mole

Joined: 06 Feb 2003 Location: Act III
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Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:27 pm Post subject: |
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BaH! Why change anything? I was miffed in '97 when I got here seeing how hostile people can be.
I just was desperate for advice from veterans. I'ts a dog eat dog world, especially on an internet board like this.
And in Korea, in general. Eat or be eaten.
I think the change to PhPbbHH, or whatever it is now, was good. I certainly changed my name and attiude.
Of course age and my vast wisdom (LOL) have played a part. And I owe some of that wisdom to the Dave's folks.
Anyone else a Meerkat Manor fan? |
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