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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 4:15 pm    Post subject: Assuming the exact opposite Reply with quote

-Now, many of the posters have indicated that korean women are traditional, difficult(as in NOT 'easy) and religous, being provincial in their outlook and required the patience of a martyr to date/marry.
-Now assuming that all these were a PLUS to you, where would you meet such women, as obviously they are the polar opposite of the itaewon bar girl? However there is the cavet that they must ALSO be open to the idea of bing seen with an enormous white guy. Do they exist?
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:02 pm    Post subject: Re: Assuming the exact opposite Reply with quote

nicholas_chiasson wrote:
where would you meet such women, as obviously they are the polar opposite of the itaewon bar girl?

Not in Itaewon, obviously.

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However there is the cavet that they must ALSO be open to the idea of bing seen with an enormous white guy.

Now you said opposite, didn't you? That's not opposite.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've met very nice Korean women while waiting at a bus stop, while attending church services, in museums, in libraries, in stores, at parks, and at community events.

I haven't met any at bars or clubs because I don't go to those places and I don't know where you would go to find a girl who's "easy" as I'm not interested in that kind of girl.
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can meet them teaching adults.

I know I'll catch flack for that, but seriously.... it happens more than not. You want to get married? Go teach at a hagwon for adults, like YBM. Uni students are too young to waste time with, unless you hook up with a non-traditional student who is 26 or 28+.

You can also meet them at church, but of course, that won't guarantee you'll meet a nice person. Churches can also be full of very conservative types who have parents that wouldn't allow a foreigner in the family.

The best way to meet people in this country is by making friends of the opposite sex - they coworkers or whatever - establishing that you are just FRIENDS with that person (unless they are attractive to you), and then getting them to introduce you to their friends. I don't advise people to date co-workers. Been there, done that, lived in hell after.

You can use www.ublove.com to meet people, but i'll warn you that many of them are players.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The best way is by speaking Korean.
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Ginormousaurus



Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RACETRAITOR wrote:
The best way is by speaking Korean.


You'll find the dating pool is endless. Unfortunately, I only seem to meet nice girls. Sometimes a guy just wants them bad. Laughing
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

-I agree about learning Korean...but learning a language to meet women you might end up not wanting to meet....seems like a poor motivator(Not meaning poor reason; meaning I won't be motivated) Honestly I'd rather learn Korean so as to eat better.
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