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Where do you see yourself at 35?
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endofthewor1d



Joined: 01 Apr 2003
Location: the end of the wor1d.

PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No_hite_pls wrote:
I hope to have children by the age 33 and that there are no bumps in the
plan.


hahahhaahha...

if children are anything, they are bumps in the plan. wonderful bumps, mind you. but bumps all the same.
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...

PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 12:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

endofthewor1d wrote:
No_hite_pls wrote:
I hope to have children by the age 33 and that there are no bumps in the
plan.


hahahhaahha...

if children are anything, they are bumps in the plan. wonderful bumps, mind you. but bumps all the same.


Haha, very true! Prepare for the bump of your life!
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vox



Joined: 13 Feb 2005
Location: Jeollabukdo

PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In my photo album. I'm 38 now. Ha! Sorry I couldn't resist.

No when I was in my 20s I had completely unreal ideas of where I wanted to be. I was getting there too, but I was so unhappy on the way.
35 was time for a career change as the destination didn't even matter anymore. Typical 20something mindset. Luckily I traded in my Vic20 20something career idealism for a pentium5 30something career-and-happiness upgrade. And I've really enjoyed the change. Much happier, lots more love to go around.
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 8:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm 29 today (yup, happy birthday to me) and in 6 years' time I expect to have achieved qualified teacher status in the UK and worked in one or two other countries besides Korea. Not sure about marriage. I've always wanted at least one daughter, but I've resigned myself to the fact that it's unlikely. I'm not sure I'm capable of the selflessness that children require or indeed of a long-term relationship.
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oneofthesarahs



Joined: 05 Nov 2006
Location: Sacheon City

PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I keep coming back to this thread and starting to type an answer, but then I hit the backspace and revise, then backspace again and again until there is nothing left.

I'm 23. I have no idea what I want to be doing when I'm 35. I don't even know what I want to be doing half of the time NOW. I would like to have a novel written and published by the time I'm 35, I know that much. Other than that I don't really care where I'm living or what job I have or if I'm married with kids or not as long as I'm healthy and enjoying my life.
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Treefarmer



Joined: 29 May 2007

PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i aim to be off the booze by 30 Cool
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thatwhitegirl



Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 12:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Treefarmer wrote:
i aim to be off the booze by 30 Cool


Smile
Good for you. I think it's great when people stop drinking. I stopped almost 2 years ago...used to drink a LOT. Would have fit right in here!

You'll save a ton of money too, and after a while, not even miss it.... much. Wink
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 7:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

oneofthesarahs wrote:

I'm 23. I have no idea what I want to be doing when I'm 35. I don't even know what I want to be doing half of the time NOW. I would like to have a novel written and published by the time I'm 35, I know that much. Other than that I don't really care where I'm living or what job I have or if I'm married with kids or not as long as I'm healthy and enjoying my life.


I think thats a good approach.

I will be 35 in 4 months time! And I can remember being 23 like it was only a few weeks ago. It goes quick.

I too have the getting published plan. I achieved my aim of being a journalist first, then after leaving it I published lots of stuff in journals and magazines.
However it took me a while to finally get started on my long term goal of a great book. So I'm about 6 months into it and expecting another 2 years until its ready to publish. Then I have vague plans for more books after that..

Family and kids? Well it has some appeal but I'm too focussed on realising my own goals to put them all aside for a time-consuming, serious relationship. Efven though it would probably be good, of course.

Anyhow..what can I say? You can do anything, if you just ..do it.
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Xerxes



Joined: 10 Jan 2006
Location: Down a certain (rabbit) hole, apparently

PostPosted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, didn't know that you both were writing books and you seem surprisingly not neurotic or immature--the usual fare for young bohemian "writers."

I'm going to start a writer's pitfalls and solutions thread, and I'd like you to join in to discuss and help each other. I will try to keep out the riffraff and the psychotics, the usual fare for any of those "writing clubs."

Game?
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legalquestions



Joined: 25 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 4:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was senior partner of a law firm in the southern USA, looking for a way out of all the long hours, stress, and Rambo litigation tactics. Ah, the bad old days!
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Ginormousaurus



Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 6:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I aiming at being reasonably fluent in Korean, Mandarin, Japanese and one other language (possibly Vietnamese). I'm 25 now and can almost check Korean off the list, so I guess I'm on my way. I don't really have a reason for learning any of these languages other than that I want to live in Aisa for a while and get something out of it besides just money. I think I'd like to be married and start a family too.
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butlerian



Joined: 04 Sep 2006
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

35? Wow...good question. I'm 24 now, and a Law graduate. I guess I should return to the UK to pursue my career at some point, but I'm genuinely enjoying life and teaching in Asia too much at the moment to go back. Money would be better (at least in the long-term) in the UK, but that's not everything to me. I've really no idea at the moment, and I'm sticking to teaching and writing at the moment.
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Otherside



Joined: 06 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 10:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would like to have finished writing my novel (I need to start first Razz), get it published and hopefully achieve some success. Personally, I would like to meet a wonderful woman, get married and have kids. Travel. All by age 35.

I'm 24.
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