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A Terrible Thing Happened To Me
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justaskdan



Joined: 28 Apr 2003
Location: Me in Pohang - Oct 20th

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 9:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you will think twice next time you are drunk in public. Girls usually like a little eye contact before you touch them.

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magpie



Joined: 01 Apr 2003
Location: Beijing

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 9:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let me see...drunk man comes up behind three women on a darkened Hongdae street and swings his arm around them. Then, drunk man becomes physically disabled by a swing of an arm. Mmmm, me thinks you shouldn't have had that last beer.
Cheers.
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Pyongshin Sangja



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
Location: I love baby!

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 10:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gee, but how many of the above girls went home with complete strangers that night? Still not something I would do, but....
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 10:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pyongshin Sangja wrote:
Gee, but how many of the above girls went home with complete strangers that night? Still not something I would do, but....


What exactly do you mean by the "above girls" ?

I think you are missing the point here. If a girl chooses to go home with a complete stranger, that's just it, it's her choice. Both parties were willing partipants, unlike what the OP described. He hit on a group of girls in a very creepy way.

Most guys would shake it off, learn that that doesn't work and go try something else, but the OP came whining here for sympathy and that is where he truly crossed the line.
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Pyongshin Sangja



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
Location: I love baby!

PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2003 10:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I admit, it's creepy. But, I've seen it work. Not a chance I am willing to take, but..
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shevek



Joined: 29 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 1:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Saying "ladies, ladies, ladies" sounds so creepy and scummy to me. And I would imagine your armpits stank so subjecting those women to that plus your unasked for touch was not nice of you. I'm sure I would have done something similar if I had been one of them. I might have felt a little bad after, especially if you fell to the ground and didn't get up, but I wouldn't go back to try and help or anything.
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Gwangjuboy



Joined: 08 Jul 2003
Location: England

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shevek wrote:
Saying "ladies, ladies, ladies" sounds so creepy and scummy to me. And I would imagine your armpits stank so subjecting those women to that plus your unasked for touch was not nice of you


Maybe you can give us some advice regarding chat-up lines then. Plus, what is the reference to sweaty armpits for? I find your imagination creepy, if anything.
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jaderedux



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Lurking outside Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 2:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry boys but if some jacka$$ came up behind me at night...swung his arm around me.....I would punch him as hard as possible and possibly give him taste of pepper spray.

You DON'T accost strange women in the street. If this is your idea of a come on you must have been living in a cave somewhere. 90% of women do not like to be man handled on a public sidewalk.

PS....if a woman goes home alone with a man she doesn't know well that is one thing that is her decision to make....albeit stupid one...but still hers to make same as him.

However, if you put your hands on someone without at least some perceived encouragement then if you get your butt whupped, well you deserve it! If you walk up to a perfect stranger and start pawing them and you get your "nuts" handed to you .....that is your problem for being an idiot. However, this is only my opinion...perhaps that is what alot of women want , a drunk guy accosting them on the street....ya never know.

Okay lay into me now about how I am mean old feminazi.....

Jade.....in full fighting karate stance
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 2:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

indiercj wrote:
Man. I love this forum!

ME TOO. Great thread.

Korean girls hate being touched too.. well, by guys.. other girls can hang all over them.. but a guy touching them freaks them out.. particularly by a guy they don't know at all.

Korean girls in particular are not 'touchy' types with any guys.. I'd wait until they make that move.. but anything before and you'll have one squirming and extremely uncomfortable woman at the end of your finger tips..

I think the correct way to go about is to ask in as polite and sincere and as lost as possible.. 'where is a good bar around here?' and give that puppy dog look.. if they ignore you.. move on..
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 2:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Girls used to come up to me a lot in bars/ nightclubs all the time to ask for a light or a smoke. I always told them to get lost and find their own. Guys don't like being approached by strange needy women either, but I never punched one in the face!!!!
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Zed



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Shakedown Street

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 3:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
Girls used to come up to me a lot in bars/ nightclubs all the time to ask for a light or a smoke. I always told them to get lost and find their own. Guys don't like being approached by strange needy women either, but I never punched one in the face!!!!

Now you're just teasing Coffee Cup. Wink
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gypsyfish



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 3:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Please don't let buddy be from the USA ... please don't let buddy be from the USA. Embarassed
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gypsyfish wrote:
Please don't let buddy be from the USA ... please don't let buddy be from the USA. Embarassed

He's not.. whew!!
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camel96
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 4:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gwangjuboy wrote:
shevek wrote:
Saying "ladies, ladies, ladies" sounds so creepy and scummy to me. And I would imagine your armpits stank so subjecting those women to that plus your unasked for touch was not nice of you


Maybe you can give us some advice regarding chat-up lines then.


Yeah you've got me curious about what works also shevek... Laughing

Or are pick up lines overridden by all round charm and um...handsomeness... Razz
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Kalhoun



Joined: 30 May 2003
Location: Land of the midnight noise!

PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 4:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
Girls used to come up to me a lot in bars/ nightclubs all the time to ask for a light or a smoke. I always told them to get lost and find their own. Guys don't like being approached by strange needy women either, but I never punched one in the face!!!!


Bloody militant non-smokers! Twisted Evil

Here's a good site for the OP:

http://www.pickupgirls.com/

How To Pick Up Girls!
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