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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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 Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:08 pm Post subject: Why feminists are better in bed |
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Feminism and romantic love make very happy bedfellows
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Despite the forces ranged against the f-word, those who embrace it have stronger relationships - and are better in bed.
The news, for the terminally declining population of women who identify as feminists, is good. According to a study by researchers at Rutgers University, New Jersey, the classic New Yorker cartoon of two women discussing relationships in a coffee shop - "sex brought us together but gender drove us apart" - is plain wrong. Feminists are happier in love and better in bed.
I'm extrapolating a wee bit optimistically, but it's cheering to come across a study about the f-word that doesn't conclude 99% of respondents think the women's movement was about unshaved armpits. What the Rutgers researchers actually found was that, in a survey of college students and older adults, all in heterosexual relationships, men paired with feminist partners reported greater relationship stability and sexual satisfaction. In addition, there was consistent evidence that male feminist partners were healthier for women's relationships, while there was scant evidence that women's feminism created conflict in liaisons.
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Tiger Beer
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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I'd strongly disagree.
They are headcases when it comes to sex. The male *beep* is a symbol of repression against women. As you can imagine, every kind of headcase issue you can have, comes out when it comes to sex. |
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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| on November 15, 2007 2:12 AM, on the Guardian website, a blogger named misharialadwani wrote: |
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| ...What the Rutgers researchers actually found was that, in a survey of college students and older adults, all in heterosexual relationships, men paired with feminist partners reported greater relationship stability and sexual satisfaction." |
The trouble with citing surveys like this is that we are told nothing about the actual survey. Where enough people surveyed for the findings to be statistically significant? What exactly were the questions asked?I'm not querying this survey from an anti-feminist standpoint. I'm simply very suspicious of surveys in general unless I have a great deal more information about the metrics and the questions. |
Where's the actual study?  |
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some waygug-in
Joined: 25 Jan 2003
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:35 pm Post subject: |
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Here's a quick description of the study:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm
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t is generally perceived that feminism and romance are in direct conflict. Rudman and Phelan�s work challenges this perception. They carried out both a laboratory survey of 242 American undergraduates and an online survey including 289 older adults, more likely to have had longer relationships and greater life experience. They looked at men�s and women�s perception of their own feminism and its link to relationship health, measured by a combination of overall relationship quality, agreement about gender equality, relationship stability and sexual satisfaction.
They found that having a feminist partner was linked to healthier heterosexual relationships for women. Men with feminist partners also reported both more stable relationships and greater sexual satisfaction. According to these results, feminism does not predict poor romantic relationships, in fact quite the opposite.
The authors also tested the validity of feminist stereotypical beliefs amongst their two samples, based on the hypothesis that if feminist stereotypes are accurate, then feminist women should be more likely to report themselves as being single, lesbian, or sexually unattractive, compared with non-feminist women.
Rudman and Phelan found no support for this hypothesis amongst their study participants. In fact, feminist women were more likely to be in a heterosexual romantic relationship than non-feminist women. The authors conclude that feminist stereotypes appear to be inaccurate, and therefore their unfavorable implications for relationships are also likely to be unfounded. |
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Manner of Speaking wrote: |
| on November 15, 2007 2:12 AM, on the Guardian website, a blogger named misharialadwani wrote: |
| the Guardian wrote: |
| ...What the Rutgers researchers actually found was that, in a survey of college students and older adults, all in heterosexual relationships, men paired with feminist partners reported greater relationship stability and sexual satisfaction." |
The trouble with citing surveys like this is that we are told nothing about the actual survey. Where enough people surveyed for the findings to be statistically significant? What exactly were the questions asked?I'm not querying this survey from an anti-feminist standpoint. I'm simply very suspicious of surveys in general unless I have a great deal more information about the metrics and the questions. |
Where's the actual study? |
Rudman LA & Phelan JE (2007). The interpersonal power of feminism: is feminism good for romantic relationships? Sex Roles (DOI 10.1007/s11199-007-9319-9) |
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Rteacher
Joined: 23 May 2005
Location: Western MA, USA
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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The people who think that they are the most happy in this world are probably the most illusioned.
A number of years ago (back in the 70s) a feminist author on an Irish TV talk show was plugging her new book, "G.I.B (aka 'Good in Bed')".
A Hare Krishna wiseguy on the same show cracked that it should be subtitled "Garbage in Book" ...
(His own wife later publicly accused him of neglecting and abandoning her, though ...)
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Tiger Beer
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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I was seriously involved with a feminist for a few years right after university. The main source of 'relationship stability' was because she'd be so sick of all men in general, so I never had to worry one bit that she'd be interested in a friend of mine or meet some guy anywhere really. No one would want to put up with most of her political gender issues that she'd work herself up into a frenzy about.
Don't get me wrong, she had some good points which is why I was involved with her so long, but her feminist-based rants labeled her quickly as a headcase for most other people to even want to deal with.
Typical stuff like getting irate if someone held a door open for her, but then getting irate the next time if someone didn't. Basically it comes to the fact if you are a guy in front of her, you are going to hear it one way or the other.
Then there was the thing that all white men are spawns of the devil and should have no interest whatsoever in women. But if you are gay, then open discussions on sex is refreshing and strongly encouraged. If you are black, then it's also refreshing and exciting and slightly dangerous which is also exciting. If you are white male, then you are repressing everyone and shouldn't be allowed to be interested in women. In other words, feminists are a bundle of serious contradictions.
The most exciting part if when you meet a sexually-charged hetero Latino guy who goes overly aggressive on the woman with hardcore passes and watching the feminist go between fits or rage against the gender but equally messed up that he's not white and therefore victimized and watching her head spin on how to handle the situation. |
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:54 pm Post subject: |
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| It strikes me that she had a more problems than "men" |
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