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Masta_Don
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Hyehwa-dong, Seoul
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| darkcity wrote: |
use your own peripheral vision to see if a hot girl walks in the room...purposefully don't bother looking at her. this will piss her off and make her feel unwanted, and in her own stupid attention seeking nature, she'll probably sit next to or near you to make sure you know she exists. at that point, you can start offering her free english lessons if she promises to wear that dress. (kidding)
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Wow, you must be a level 13 PUA.
| kreitler7 wrote: |
And another thing...
Obviously, when guys look at girls wearing a short skirt, we are thinking about sex. Am I right? We're thinking "Man I'd like to tap that!" Am I right?
I would guess that most girls know that guys are thinking that. But the girls say they don't want sex. But they are dressed like a hooker. In many cases, those girls dress the same way that someone who sells sex does.
So, what is it? Why do they do it? A TEASE? That's all it is. Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
Perhaps they just don't want sex with you. |
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kreitler7
Joined: 07 Jan 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Could be...but I didn't mean with me. Next time, ask one of those chicks why she's dressed like that. The answers are sometimes laughable. |
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endo
Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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| darkcity wrote: |
| girls are so messed up in the head. |
| kreitler7 wrote: |
| Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
Really, girls are f-ing messed up in the head!
They often create their own relaities to match how they believe things should be.
For example:
"Listen honey, you straight male "friend" is just playing that role so that he could potentially have the chance to sleep with you in the future."
"He he he, that silly, we're just good friends."
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kreitler7
Joined: 07 Jan 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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| endo wrote: |
| darkcity wrote: |
| girls are so messed up in the head. |
| kreitler7 wrote: |
| Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
Really, girls are f-ing messed up in the head!
They often create their own relaities to match how they believe things should be.
For example:
"Listen honey, you straight male "friend" is just playing that role so that he could potentially have the chance to sleep with you in the future."
"He he he, that silly, we're just good friends."
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So, guys can't be interested in spending time with girls (yes, I said it) unless they are just biding their time, waiting for a vulnerable or horny moment? No common interests? Conversation? Emotional connection?
Just because there's sexual interest doesn't mean the guy is playing a role. |
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Underwaterbob
Joined: 08 Jan 2005
Location: In Cognito
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:14 pm Post subject: |
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| I have female friends I quite like and have no desire to have sex with whatsoever. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="kermo"]
| endo wrote: |
| darkcity wrote: |
| girls are so messed up in the head. |
| kreitler7 wrote: |
| Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
Really, girls are f-ing messed up in the head!
They often create their own relaities to match how they believe things should be.
For example:
"Listen honey, you straight male "friend" is just playing that role so that he could potentially have the chance to sleep with you in the future."
"He he he, that silly, we're just good friends."
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So, guys can't be interested in spending time with girls (yes, I said it) unless they are just biding their time, waiting for a vulnerable or horny moment? No common interests? Conversation? Emotional connection?
Just because there's sexual interest doesn't mean the guy is playing a role.[/quote
Yes-think of that wideload barred entry from New Zealand for being too obese-tell her male friends they want some of that action!] |
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kreitler7
Joined: 07 Jan 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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No, women can be great to talk to. We're just talkin about girls that dress like this
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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| kreitler7 wrote: |
No, women can be great to talk to. We're just talkin about girls that dress like this
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Thak you for the clarification.
Both Jackie and I really appreciate it. |
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cj1976
Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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| I always check out the chicks in mini-skirts and those little shorts. Nothing wrong with that - just don't stare too long. For me, I avert my gaze when I start to feel a semi coming on. After all, there has to be limits. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:26 pm Post subject: |
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| kreitler7 wrote: |
| Sorry bud, that was meant for Kermo |
I speak for every single user on Dave's in saying that your effort was greatly appreciated. |
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therooster
Joined: 11 May 2007
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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PS: I personally never look. I'm too afraid for that.
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Maybe therein lies the reason . Power . |
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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| kermo wrote: |
| So, guys can't be interested in spending time with girls (yes, I said it) unless they are just biding their time, waiting for a vulnerable or horny moment? |
Yeah, that's pretty much it.
I didn't want to be the one to tell you this... |
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endo
Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:55 pm Post subject: |
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| kermo wrote: |
| endo wrote: |
| darkcity wrote: |
| girls are so messed up in the head. |
| kreitler7 wrote: |
| Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
Really, girls are f-ing messed up in the head!
They often create their own relaities to match how they believe things should be.
For example:
"Listen honey, you straight male "friend" is just playing that role so that he could potentially have the chance to sleep with you in the future."
"He he he, that silly, we're just good friends."
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So, guys can't be interested in spending time with girls (yes, I said it) unless they are just biding their time, waiting for a vulnerable or horny moment? No common interests? Conversation? Emotional connection?
Just because there's sexual interest doesn't mean the guy is playing a role. |
Oh don't get me wrong. We (me) don't only see women as sexual objects. At least most of the time.
I enjoy having conversations with smart and down to earth females.
But I think I failed to make a distinction between guys who know a girl in their group of friends, and guys who go out for coffee or whatever with a girl who they call a "friend".
You see unless he's gay or unless she's actually secretely interested in him, guys for the most part can never truely be friends with a women without sexual thoughts entering into the equation.
Does that make any sense?
Now let's say Kermo, that you and I started going out (alone) for drinks or a movie every weekend. Perhaps we would have a good time and really enjoy each others company.
But sooner or later one of us would develope sexual desires for one another. And that kind of puts a damper on the whole plutonic friendship thing.
Sure we could stay friends, but there would always be this deep seeded urge between us.
Then if eather of us entered into an outside relationship, feelings of jelousy would emerge and........
I know from experience. There were girls back home who I would go out with and stupidly played the friend game in the futile hope that one day she would jump me.
It never worked out. So I eventually put an end to those friendships.
Than as I developed more confidence about myself I started to do the exact same thing with other girls. I wasn't really that interested in them, but enjoyed their company. Later did I learn that they had the hots for me. |
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bluelake
Joined: 01 Dec 2005
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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And that kind of puts a damper on the whole plutonic friendship thing.
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