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Dragonfly
Joined: 01 Feb 2007
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:14 am Post subject: Transitioning from Korea to home |
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I've been living and working in Korea for four years, and have found that the longer I stay here, the more difficult it is to go back home.
I was wondering if others could share their experiences on what they've done to successfully transition from Korea to a job and life back in their home countries? |
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skconqueror

Joined: 31 Jul 2005
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:34 am Post subject: |
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| Been in Korea for 3 yrs. I went home this summer for about 2 months. I had no problems.. and DIDN'T really want to come back to finish my contract. |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006 Location: Near Seoul
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:45 pm Post subject: |
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Only go back if there's something better to go into that you truly desire and will fullfil you is my advice.
I worked here 1.5 yrs and went back.
Going from having my own place to sharing; working double the hours per day compared to Korea; earning twice as much but paying huge tax and being able to save only half as much as I could in Korea - was TOUGH even though I had a decent junior management Civil Service position with great perks and five weeks paid vacation.
Guess what? I'm back.
You only realise how good you have it here (well if you're at one of the better haggies orpublic school) until you go back.
I'd only leave here (I am leaving next sept) personally to go into a job of my choice / do an MA / something else fulfilling.
Of course, you may have a wonderful life that you miss back home and hate your life here, in that case - just go regardless of money / working hrs etc.
But if you like it here okay despite the frustrations we have to put up with - going back to a 9-5 you don't care about is hard.
Planning is the key word I guess, although everyone's circumstances are different. |
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jlb
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:12 pm Post subject: |
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Advice: have a plan. If you just go home and live in your parent's basement aimlessly searching for a job and having no money, you're going to hate your life.
Know what area of work you want to get into and have a plan as to how you will achieve this. Cruise the 'net before you leave for possible options. |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:13 pm Post subject: |
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I tried this.
Missing Korea one warm summer evening, I went to the local Asian food market, purchased a bottle of soju, and proceeded to get roaring drunk. I borrowed a megaphone from my uncle's car (he is a part-time auctioneer) and proceeded to walk down the street, yelling:
SAGWA! SAGWA!
PA-NA-NA! PA-NA-NA!
POH-DOH! POH-DOH!
Unfortunately, I was picked up by the police for breaking the noise ordinance and was also slapped with public intox.
I was on a plane back to Korea within a week. |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006 Location: Near Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 4:09 pm Post subject: |
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| bassexpander wrote: |
I tried this.
Missing Korea one warm summer evening, I went to the local Asian food market, purchased a bottle of soju, and proceeded to get roaring drunk. I borrowed a megaphone from my uncle's car (he is a part-time auctioneer) and proceeded to walk down the street, yelling:
SAGWA! SAGWA!
PA-NA-NA! PA-NA-NA!
POH-DOH! POH-DOH!
Unfortunately, I was picked up by the police for breaking the noise ordinance and was also slapped with public intox.
I was on a plane back to Korea within a week. |
Ah man, thanks for that. That was f%cking hillarious. Funny image... My chest hurts from laughing now... but I'm still laughing....  |
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Dragonfly
Joined: 01 Feb 2007
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 4:23 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks all. Some good advice, but it seems that everyone comes back. What is it about this place? the lifestyle? or maybe that things stink back home? Maybe we just have a broader perspective from having lived abroad?
Does anyone worry about being 50yrs. old and teaching in Korea? |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
| bassexpander wrote: |
I tried this.
Missing Korea one warm summer evening, I went to the local Asian food market, purchased a bottle of soju, and proceeded to get roaring drunk. I borrowed a megaphone from my uncle's car (he is a part-time auctioneer) and proceeded to walk down the street, yelling:
SAGWA! SAGWA!
PA-NA-NA! PA-NA-NA!
POH-DOH! POH-DOH!
Unfortunately, I was picked up by the police for breaking the noise ordinance and was also slapped with public intox.
I was on a plane back to Korea within a week. |
Ah man, thanks for that. That was f%cking hillarious. Funny image... My chest hurts from laughing now... but I'm still laughing....  |
Well, it wasn't being drunk that got me in trouble.
Before I relieved myself, people just assumed I had damaged brain somehow in asia -- perhaps I had become mentally deranged after months in a sweaty asian prison, eating only rice and water.
It was when I dropped my pants at the side of the road, and pee'd on Mrs. Hodge's tulips that the neighbors became really upset, and the police were called.
Thank goodness I got out of there before I ddong-chimmed the paperboy. I'd be in jail for abuse. |
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