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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994
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| Seriously, stop having sex you old geezers. |
Hmmm. One more who can't take the competition. |
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Tiger Beer
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 6:59 am Post subject: |
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This isn't even news.
"Stella Got Her Groove Back?" ring a bell? For at least a generation, women have been going to the Carribbean to 'hook up' with whoever.
Same thing when I went to Ecuador, go to Atacames (the reggae part of Ecuador with African-Ecuadorians), you'll see countless white women absolutely everywhere with their little trophys.
It's commonplace and has been for a long time already.
There is a reason most white women want to go to Italy, France, Jamaica, Turkey or wherever else. Young strong men desire any woman who walks by.
There is also a reason that nearly every white woman who shows up in Korea and starts looking for guys, almost always hits the military bars on a regular basis. You don't see them in teacher bars, you go to Geckos or Pollys Kettle, and every white woman you were wondering where they went, you will suddenly find there! |
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Vicissitude
Joined: 27 Feb 2007
Location: Chef School
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 8:52 am Post subject: |
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I don't know what's more disgusting.
(1) Fat, flabby old men jirating with young, firm titty Asian girls.
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(2) Fat, flabby old women getting hammered by muscular young African men.
Either way old people just need to stop having sex immediately!
Leave the sideways tango to the young kids, ya herd! Seriously, stop having sex you old geezers. |
 Cute! Don't tell that to the likes of Demi Moore, Nichole Kidman, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Aniston, Pamela Anderson, Gwen Stephani, Mel Gibson... They just might as well tell the likes of Britney Spears to keep her skanky self to herself or Paris Hilton to stop being such an prima donna idiot. Trust me, your generation isn't worth... it's just a lost generation without a cool club. |
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Vicissitude
Joined: 27 Feb 2007
Location: Chef School
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:00 am Post subject: |
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| Tiger Beer wrote: |
This isn't even news.
"Stella Got Her Groove Back?" ring a bell? For at least a generation, women have been going to the Carribbean to 'hook up' with whoever.
Same thing when I went to Ecuador, go to Atacames (the reggae part of Ecuador with African-Ecuadorians), you'll see countless white women absolutely everywhere with their little trophys.
It's commonplace and has been for a long time already.
There is a reason most white women want to go to Italy, France, Jamaica, Turkey or wherever else. Young strong men desire any woman who walks by.
There is also a reason that nearly every white woman who shows up in Korea and starts looking for guys, almost always hits the military bars on a regular basis. You don't see them in teacher bars, you go to Geckos or Pollys Kettle, and every white woman you were wondering where they went, you will suddenly find there! |
I dated a few guys in the military there. I didn't find them in the bars. There are other ways... and yeah they can be smokin hot. If not, they can be very useful in more ways than one. |
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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Steve does have a point. Rationalizing prostitution is just an excuse. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. If it's wrong for males to fly to the third world to exploit the poor, it's wrong for western women to do the same thing.
And in fact in some countries, Canada for example, it is illegal for Canadian nationals to engage in sex tourism. But you never hear of a single case of a woman prosecuted for it. |
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djsmnc
Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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| endo wrote: |
I don't know what's more disgusting.
(1) Fat, flabby old men jirating with young, firm titty Asian girls.
or
(2) Fat, flabby old women getting hammered by muscular young African men.
Either way old people just need to stop having sex immediately!
Leave the sideways tango to the young kids, ya herd! Seriously, stop having sex you old geezers. |
It's the money goggles. |
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 3:19 pm Post subject: |
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| And this article you have about Kenya, hmmm, it's about a few women. You blow this whole story up to make it sound like millions of women are out paying to have sex with exotic males. Just because a few women do this, doesn't mean it's the norm. |
Actually, according to one university professor in Toronto, approximately 600,000 Canadian women fly to the Carribean every winter for sex tourism. That's just Canada alone, and that's a rather significant number. |
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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"Amidst the hand-gliders, speedboats and sunbathers on the beaches of the Caribbean, there are the buffed (and not so buffed) bodies of young men hoping to catch the eye of a single tourist woman looking for a good time. And if that is the case, they have come to the right place.
Indeed "BEACH BUMS" are on the increase. And some teenaged boys are leaving school to get involved. This is according to Barbadian-born Dr Joan Phillips, a post doctorate research fellow at the University of London.
"Fourteen to 15-year-old boys are leaving school to go on the beach to get to the big money. The big money is having sex with tourists. They tell you that school was not doing anything for them. They usually start during summer and then don't go back to school," she said.
http://www.caribvoice.org/Travel&Tourism/sextourism.html |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 5:28 pm Post subject: |
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"Amidst the hand-gliders, speedboats and sunbathers on the beaches of the Caribbean, there are the buffed (and not so buffed) bodies of young men hoping to catch the eye of a single tourist woman looking for a good time. And if that is the case, they have come to the right place.
Indeed "BEACH BUMS" are on the increase. And some teenaged boys are leaving school to get involved. This is according to Barbadian-born Dr Joan Phillips, a post doctorate research fellow at the University of London.
"Fourteen to 15-year-old boys are leaving school to go on the beach to get to the big money. The big money is having sex with tourists. They tell you that school was not doing anything for them. They usually start during summer and then don't go back to school," she said.
http://www.caribvoice.org/Travel&Tourism/sextourism.html |
Any room for a white 42 year old 93 kilo English teacher to make a quick buck banging a granny |
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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Manner of Speaking
Joined: 09 Jan 2003
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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Big Bird:
Yeah, I know only too well. One of my best friends, who's ex-Navy now, self-taught in Mandarin Chinese, and freelancing for NPR (National Pubic Radio-US) in China, described as much to me about Subic Bay. It's rather sad all around. And, indeed, most of these sad sacks have this overly inflated image of themselves, as if money weren't the main draw. |
That's the bit that makes me go 'urgh...'
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| But to be fair, sometimes a Western guy who wasn't decades older did hook up with a Filipina seeking a relationship that was genuinely romantic. |
I'm sure there are some genuine relationships too. But even a young guy should be careful that his nationality and relative wealth aren't his main appeal.
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| What irks me about radical feminists (I consider myself a feminist with a lowercase 'f') is that so few have bothered to interrogate these East-West bondings from an objective stance, giving these couples the benefit of the doubt. And of course the predation of these old farts doesn't exactly help the situation. I won't hold my breath waiting for the rf's to condemn the similar practices from their own gender. Where does mutual consent end and exploitation begin in these settings is anybody's guess, I suppose. |
It isn't quite the same. The sexual act is still a different experience depending on whether you are the powerful one who penetrates, or if you are the weaker and more vulnerable one who is penetrated. For the latter it's a very invasive and more personal thing. So while in some ways it is similar, in other ways it is not. I'd rather be a male prostitute than a female prostitute, even if I didn't fancy the women I was banging. That's not to say there are also some harmful aspects to being a male prostitute, but you'd still have more control over yourself during your 'work.'
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| If I might ask publicly, is your husband East Asian? If so, have you encountered this prejudice yourselves? |
No. I've never been attracted to Asian men. I've met so many that I've liked as people, but none that 'rang my bell.' There's a couple of hot Chinese film stars I wouldn't mind having for dinner though...
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| Nothing wrong with mutual exoticism in my book. After all, isn't that what's really happening when a man or woman are attracted to one another because of blue eyes or long flowing hair? Fetishism is far more widespread than many "normal" couples imagine, I'd say. It's only problematic in my view when it is primarily what compels the couple to stay together, don't you think? |
For a couple of years in my late teens I had a fetish for long locks and denim and leather. Guys were only allowed to date me if they met that criteria. I think that's the closest I've had to physical fetish. But yeah, I know what you mean. Having a thing for 'tall dark strangers' is not that much different from having a thing for 'Asian babes.' Myself I have no physical type that I prefer. I like what a man says and w hat he does, not so bothered by the form he takes. Though I might baulk somewhat if he looks like this:
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Funkdafied
Joined: 04 Nov 2007
Location: In Da House
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Outside of underage sex and coersion I have no problem with anyone of any age, gender, ethnicity, etc hooking up with anyone else for mutual benefit of any kind. So much pompous, pious, judgemental moralising in this thread... |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Outside of underage sex and coersion I have no problem with anyone of any age, gender, ethnicity, etc hooking up with anyone else for mutual benefit of any kind. So much pompous, pious, judgemental moralising in this thread... |
I personally like the Christian option of being able to enjoy a sin filled vacation in Pattaya. Knowing full well that eventially you can repent and never have to suffer for the sins you commited. It doesn't get much better than that. |
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Faunaki
Joined: 15 Jun 2007
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| Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 12:58 am Post subject: |
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Steve does have a point. Rationalizing prostitution is just an excuse. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. If it's wrong for males to fly to the third world to exploit the poor, it's wrong for western women to do the same thing.
And in fact in some countries, Canada for example, it is illegal for Canadian nationals to engage in sex tourism. But you never hear of a single case of a woman prosecuted for it. |
Because women don't have sex with children. That's why.
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