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Gay Foreigners Living In Korea
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Cognorati



Joined: 09 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:33 pm    Post subject: Gay Foreigners Living In Korea Reply with quote

I've been wondering what the scene is like over here (I'm assuming it's *extremely* closeted).

From what I've heard from gay foreigners, particularly males, there are a lot of of Korean men who are closeted and having sex with male and female partners -- I've also heard some shocking things about the male bathouses.

Do you date Koreans? What's the scene?
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you date Koreans? No way! happily, I'm not gay. Very Happy


What's the scene? Gay
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^ If you were gay would you date Koreans though?
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^Why, do you? Shocked
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Morton



Joined: 06 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know there's somewhere in Itaewon called Homo hill and i've met some gay lads in Itaewon but that's all i know.

Hope that helps.
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Cerriowen



Joined: 03 Jun 2006
Location: Pocheon

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've met a few gay Koreans. They are the most "straight" men I've met here. No pink hairbands with glitter, or sparkly hand-cream, or low-cut shirts. They are actually kind of butch.

And mostly they are in the closet.
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Scotticus



Joined: 18 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cerriowen wrote:

And mostly they are in the closet.


There are ones that AREN'T in the closet? All the K-Gays I know have to go on dates so their moms think they still have a shot at grandkids.
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 7:57 pm    Post subject: Re: Gay Foreigners Living In Korea Reply with quote

Cognorati wrote:
I've also heard some shocking things about the male bathouses.


Shocking? Where are you from? Gay guys aren't the most shockable people I know...
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endo



Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 8:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not gay, but fron what I've heard and seen from friends is that gay male westerners are even luckier with the locals than straight western males.
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samd



Joined: 03 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="endo"]I'm not gay, but...quote]

Laughing
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endo



Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home

PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="samd"]
endo wrote:
I'm not gay, but...quote]

Laughing


I wish I was gay. Thoses dudes can score within minutes of entering a club.

Us straight guys have to work and work at it. Laughing
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kimcheechochy



Joined: 22 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreans will say "there are no gay people in Korea". But there are of course.

In Itaewon there are a couple of gay bars up on da hill, right next to each other. Sorry, can't remember the name now, but when I was there, it was mostly foreigners inside. I think it is best to keep your gayness on the down low in Korea. They are way too conservative for that.

HOWEVER, a lot of my Korean girl-friends have all told me that they would LOVE to have a gay friend. Maybe they are watching too much Will and Grace or something, but I have heard that SO many times.
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