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Have you ever using someone for your own purpose ?
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:39 pm    Post subject: Have you ever using someone for your own purpose ? Reply with quote

I never did and will never, however one of my friends think I am using a guy I am dating now.

I am dating with an American surgeon, average looking but intellectual looking, wealthy but stingy, short but clean/well dressed.
We have nothing in common. He is from very wealthy family ( both parent were successful lawyers ). I am from middle class ( both my parent were teachers ). We are so many way so different. He has high ambition for money and talk all the time about money matters, money is important to me but I rarely talk about money with people I know.

I am not fall in love with him one way or other, but I enjoy having dinner with him and enjoy conversation.

He spent some money for me, but nothing big nothing special and I never asked him anything. I never took him to dinner, it's always he who take me to dinner and he pay ( I never tried to pay bill myself ). I never spent any money for him because I just didn't feel that's necessary.

Several times I seriouly considered ending this relationship, but it's still keep going. Why ??? maybe because I feel lonely, maybe because I am boring.

Do you think I am usingng him ?
He loves this relationship.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:44 pm    Post subject: Re: Have you ever using someone for your own purpose ? Reply with quote

MissSeoul wrote:
maybe because I am boring.


Bingo!

You've been on this site for well over a year now. Doesn't this act get old?

Also, if you are going to troll, you need to go over the top. He's not just a surgeon, but an experimental brain surgeon. He's not just rich and not good looking, but rich, not good looking, and violent. You're not just using him, but also sleeping with his best friend, his brother, and his boss. If you want, I can rewrite your post for you so it won't be as boring.
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
Location: How totally stupid that Korean doesn't show in this area.

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:48 pm    Post subject: Re: Have you ever using someone for your own purpose ? Reply with quote

MissSeoul wrote:
Do you think I am usingng him ?
He loves this relationship.


You're a *beep*. A kept woman. A less intellectual version of a gisaeng.

So what?
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:49 pm    Post subject: Re: Have you ever using someone for your own purpose ? Reply with quote

RACETRAITOR wrote:
MissSeoul wrote:
maybe because I am boring.


Bingo!

You've been on this site for well over a year now. Doesn't this act get old?

Also, if you are going to troll, you need to go over the top. He's not just a surgeon, but an experimental brain surgeon. He's not just rich and not good looking, but rich, not good looking, and violent. You're not just using him, but also sleeping with his best friend, his brother, and his boss. If you want, I can rewrite your post for you so it won't be as boring.



Please be nice to me, I am so down today ( New Year Day ) I don't know why, maybe homesick Crying or Very sad
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bjonothan



Joined: 29 Apr 2003
Location: All over the place

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would be more worried about the fact that you are a retard and have nothing better to do than come on here and annoy the shite out of us.

If this story is true, you are a typical Korean girl that obviously cares about no-one other than yourself and what kind of deal you will get out of it. Either way, if I were you, I would just jump off the nearest bridge and do everyone a favour.

I think most people would agree that whoever you are, we couldn't give a shite about your problems and you should not come back on here again.
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mistermasan



Joined: 20 Sep 2007
Location: 10+ yrs on Dave's ESL cafe

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

who cares? you are getting what you want. he is getting what he wants. mutual benefits. he'll dump you soon enough and then you'll have something to talk about.
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bjonothan wrote:
I would be more worried about the fact that you are a retard and have nothing better to do than come on here and annoy the *beep* out of us.

If this story is true, you are a typical Korean girl that obviously cares about no-one other than yourself and what kind of deal you will get out of it. Either way, if I were you, I would just jump off the nearest bridge and do everyone a favour.

I think most people would agree that whoever you are, we couldn't give a *beep* about your problems and you should not come back on here again.



I am going back to korea late this year.
Like some of you in korea I feel like I am going to be suffocate in America.
I like America, but still....


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bjonothan



Joined: 29 Apr 2003
Location: All over the place

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 5:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ha ha, it sounds like you are a much loved member of this forum Miss Seoul. Maybe you could win an award for the most hated poster of the year or something.

I actively read the forums here and I personally find you annoying and would love to not see you on here any more. In fact I wish Koreans wouldn't visit this board at all since it is for foreign English teachers in Korea.

I find jeffkim, that other loser and miss seoul to be the worst part about this whole forum.
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dude, where's your car?

ps DON'T DO IT BOYZ


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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps he's just keeping you around for the a$$ sex?

Seriously, if you don't talk about money with people close to you, why do you talk about a personal relationship on a chat board? You deserve the answers you get by posting this up here. Ask some close friends who know you, not a bunch of people who don't.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think if we are to believe this story and offer reasonable advice, we need some topless pics.
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PRagic wrote:


Seriously, if you don't talk about money with people close to you, why do you talk about a personal relationship on a chat board? You deserve the answers you get by posting this up here. Ask some close friends who know you, not a bunch of people who don't.




My friends seriously think I should marry him.
BUT I will NEVER marry again !!!!
Oh, do you know I've once married ????
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INGSOC



Joined: 11 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bjonothan wrote:
I find jeffkim, that other loser and miss seoul to be the worst part about this whole forum.


WORD!! Evil or Very Mad
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maddog



Joined: 08 Dec 2005
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

MissSeoul wrote:
PRagic wrote:


Seriously, if you don't talk about money with people close to you, why do you talk about a personal relationship on a chat board? You deserve the answers you get by posting this up here. Ask some close friends who know you, not a bunch of people who don't.




My friends seriously think I should marry him.
BUT I will NEVER marry again !!!!
Oh, do you know I've once married ????


No, I didn't know that, nor do I care. I don't think anyone does.

MD
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SuperFly



Joined: 09 Jul 2003
Location: In the doghouse

PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When she kills herself, her blood will be on all your hands. Just like the shawner suicide-murder that was pinned on Chris for sexually teasing shawners girlfriend, thereby cuckolding shawner. Terrible thing, this internet.
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