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Do Western Women Change Their Last Names in Korea?
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Thunndarr



Joined: 30 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So, let me get this straight. I remark that you've got penis on the brain, and you're comeback is....that *I* have penis on the brain. Well-played, sir.
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
Location: How totally stupid that Korean doesn't show in this area.

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just another day wrote:
Atavistic wrote:


He's an idiot for thinking that white women are trying to "improve" their lineage. But since he thinks like that, well then by their non-condom-wearing-white-man-boinking behavior, (a few of) his own pure-blooded Korean sisters are doing the same thing. If he wants to make stupid ass racist comments, let him. They come right back on him and his "kind."


actually my whole point is that if a korean woman doesn't wear condoms with a guy, she will not wear it with a korean guy or a white guy, altho it can be arguable that she is more likely to make a white guy wear it. but for arguments sake, lets say no to both.

but i have known plenty of white girls who make a white guy wear it, but not a korean guy.

maybe its over the top saying its "to improve their lineage", but there seems to be some sort of carnal forces are work there.


You keep talking. Yet you're still an idiot.
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just another day



Joined: 12 Jul 2007
Location: Living with the Alaskan Inuits!!

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just another day wrote:
Thunndarr wrote:
just another day wrote:
^ I think ur still in the ancient mindset where korean guys are not allowed to date white girls.

its pretty common now amongst my friends and in America. its the 21st century olaf. its time to put away the knob radio and get yourself a plasma tv.


What is this fascination with white male genitalia you have? And god, do I ever feel violated now.


okay... its weird how u bring up some reference to a penis in almost all of ur posts. i get this feeling u are jerking off on your keyboard right now.



but i guess if u think that the tiny knob on that radio represents your genitalia somehow by association, then what can i say olaf. that sort of information you probably shouldn't tell people publically.


olaf reread the boxes.

i have no problem with people losing touch with reality. thats the funny part to me. Laughing
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Thunndarr



Joined: 30 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just another day wrote:


i have no problem with people losing touch with reality. thats the funny part to me. Laughing


"I'm rich. I get lots of women. I'm a sell side trader who works off-peak hours. I'm a university student in calfiornia. I'm white. I'm Korean." -JAD (who apparently is well versed in losing touch with reality.)
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JMO



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 4:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just another day wrote:
JMO wrote:

Why would you usually get introduced to girls coming out of long term relationships? And why would that be relevant?


i dunno why it turns out that way. *shrugs* its weird.


You must just be that kind of guy, I guess.
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Okibum



Joined: 28 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 5:56 pm    Post subject: Re: Do Western Women Change Their Last Names in Korea? Reply with quote

just another day wrote:
I was just wondering, for the western women in Korea married to Korean men, did you have to change ur last name?

No right? Because in Korea, a woman keeps her last name (family surname) after marriage and doesn't change it.

Just a random question I had. Very Happy

So if you moved to a western nation with your husband, are you going to change your last name to his then?

so strange... this western practice of taking a husband's last name.

or what about some of you western guys married to korean women in korea? did you try to force your practice of her changing her last name in korea? what was the result?


My boyfriend and I have talked about this. I explained to my boyfriend that I want to have the same last name as my children, so I will take his last name when we get married. In my culture it is custom for a woman's maiden name to become their middle name and to take their husband's last names.
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bgreenster



Joined: 06 Feb 2007
Location: too far from the beach

PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is all a bit off-topic, but whatever. I have to say as a female who actually speaks with other females, we tend not to decide racially who has to put a party hat on down there. If a girl makes guys wear condoms, she usually makes ALL guys wear condoms. If she doesn't, she usually doesn't make any guys wear condoms, regardless of race/ancestry. Obviously a generalization, but going against this overall choice tends to be the exception (ie: stupid drunken mistakes). It's not like we're sitting around thinking, "Oooh, I'd MUCH rather get [insert your favorite STD here] from an Asian dude than a black one. Korean STDs are number one."
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Countrygirl



Joined: 19 Nov 2007
Location: in the classroom

PostPosted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 11:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I changed my name for my kids and not my husband. I wanted to be known as the (insert family name) family. I hate the Korean concept that you don't belong to the family you married into. If babies are being ripped from my body, I've d@mned well earned it. If I wasn't going to have kids, I would never change my name. It was also a minor rebellion against the Korean in-laws. And it's kinda fun for 5 seconds to freak out the nurses when they call out my name and this non-asian girl steps up.

This side-issue of condoms and lineage. I've never thought of my lineage or trying to improve it for that matter. I think it is more likely a size issue rather than a lineage issue (just go to the sauna with your friends who always get to ride bareback to see if this theory makes more sense).
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Scarlet13



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 9:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not taking my future husband's family name, and I see no reason why I should. We have actually talked about him taking my family name. There is a very simple reason for this, his family is huge, my family is not. My paternal grandfather was an only child, as was my father, I have two sisters. The eldest took her husband's name (Brain Shocked ...better yet her middle name is Lorain...ahahaha) and my younger sister likely will as well. My family name and history would die out, so my kids will have my family name. Period.
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just another day



Joined: 12 Jul 2007
Location: Living with the Alaskan Inuits!!

PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scarlet13 wrote:
I'm not taking my future husband's family name, and I see no reason why I should. We have actually talked about him taking my family name. There is a very simple reason for this, his family is huge, my family is not. My paternal grandfather was an only child, as was my father, I have two sisters. The eldest took her husband's name (Brain Shocked ...better yet her middle name is Lorain...ahahaha) and my younger sister likely will as well. My family name and history would die out, so my kids will have my family name. Period.


interesting!
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just another day



Joined: 12 Jul 2007
Location: Living with the Alaskan Inuits!!

PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Countrygirl wrote:

This side-issue of condoms and lineage. I've never thought of my lineage or trying to improve it for that matter. I think it is more likely a size issue rather than a lineage issue (just go to the sauna with your friends who always get to ride bareback to see if this theory makes more sense).


ah... i see. hehe

hmm... this makes sense too. Wink
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jetrash



Joined: 02 Jun 2007
Location: the united steaks

PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

YEAH....BELIEVE ME SIZE MATTERS


Countrygirl wrote:

Quote:
This side-issue of condoms and lineage. I've never thought of my lineage or trying to improve it for that matter. I think it is more likely a size issue rather than a lineage issue (just go to the sauna with your friends who always get to ride bareback to see if this theory makes more sense).




hey JAD, talkin of size you are white right?


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size
Quote:
The studies of average erect *beep* length conducted on adult men worldwide included United States 12.9 cm, France 16 cm, Italy 15 cm, Mexico 16.9, Germany 14.48 cm, Japan 13.0 cm, Saudi Arabia 12.4 cm, Brazil 12.4 cm, Greece 12.18, India 10.2 cm and South Korea 9.6 cm



Embarassed


just another day wrote:
Quote:
i am white



found here- http://forums.eslcafe.com/korea/viewtopic.php?p=1260284&highlight=#1260284


Last edited by jetrash on Sat Jan 26, 2008 2:31 pm; edited 2 times in total
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just another day



Joined: 12 Jul 2007
Location: Living with the Alaskan Inuits!!

PostPosted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 10:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^ u are so obsessed with me. u asked me out to meet me, u bother me in every thread. u wonder who i pm...

whats wrong with you? syyyyyyyyyy koooooooo
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just another day



Joined: 12 Jul 2007
Location: Living with the Alaskan Inuits!!

PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jetrash wrote:
YEAH....BELIEVE ME SIZE MATTERS


Countrygirl wrote:

Quote:
This side-issue of condoms and lineage. I've never thought of my lineage or trying to improve it for that matter. I think it is more likely a size issue rather than a lineage issue (just go to the sauna with your friends who always get to ride bareback to see if this theory makes more sense).




hey JAD, talkin of size you are white right?


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size
Quote:
The studies of average erect *beep* length conducted on adult men worldwide included United States 12.9 cm, France 16 cm, Italy 15 cm, Mexico 16.9, Germany 14.48 cm, Japan 13.0 cm, Saudi Arabia 12.4 cm, Brazil 12.4 cm, Greece 12.18, India 10.2 cm and South Korea 9.6 cm



Embarassed


just another day wrote:
Quote:
i am white



found here- http://forums.eslcafe.com/korea/viewtopic.php?p=1260284&highlight=#1260284


Quote:
A widespread research done by Dr. Gomez de Diego, director of the medical company Andromedical specialised in andrology, in 2001, took into consideration several studies by physicians of different nationalities. He concluded that the average erect *beep* size for adult men is 14 cm,


Quote:
In 2001 Schneider et al, tested Korean men whose age ranged from 18-19 and 40-68 and measured an erect length of 14.48 cm for the former and 14.18 cm for the latter


from your same link....

anyways... whats wrong? why u so obsessed about me? its beyond normal stalkers.
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Rae



Joined: 10 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I get married, Korean or other, I'm keeping my name no matter what country we decide to settle in.

Very Happy
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