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antgonz
Joined: 30 Nov 2007
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:22 pm Post subject: Were you happier once you moved to South Korea or no? |
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I am sure the first month is confusing and frustrating but afterwards being there - did it make you happier than your home country or were you the same? I want to know because I keep reading on the boards that some people think the people in South Korea are really unfriendly and rude. Is this the case or is it because the people going there are not aware of their cultural etiquette? What specifically is the best point of living in South Korea? I am not going to miss my family but what are some ways to ease into the transition? |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:38 pm Post subject: Re: Were you happier once you moved to South Korea or no? |
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antgonz wrote: |
I am sure the first month is confusing and frustrating but afterwards being there - did it make you happier than your home country or were you the same?
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I'm happier here. Steady job, wife, and plenty to do on weekends.
antgonz wrote: |
I want to know because I keep reading on the boards that some people think the people in South Korea are really unfriendly and rude.
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In my opinion they're much less rude than westerners.
antgonz wrote: |
Is this the case or is it because the people going there are not aware of their cultural etiquette?
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A little of both, but on this board you get a lot of people ignorant about cultural etiquette.
antgonz wrote: |
What specifically is the best point of living in South Korea?
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De-stigmatised alcoholism!
antgonz wrote: |
I am not going to miss my family but what are some ways to ease into the transition? |
Making lots of new friends. |
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runlikegump

Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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Tis a good day if I get to chuck the Pirsig on someone: The only Zen you find on mountaintops is the Zen you bring there.
If you are self-assured, well-adjusted, adaptable, and easy-going sort in the small town that spawned ya, you will probably be so here. If you are a whoa-is-me, can't cope with everything not being exactly the same as the small town that spawned me, non-coping moron, then you can stay up late at night and post on these boards.
I agree with the Traitor - there's lots to do, make some friends, and make yourself at home. |
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anyangoldboy
Joined: 28 Sep 2007
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:52 pm Post subject: |
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I chose to come to Korea and so I was happy here...I had a tough first job but wanted to stick it out because I don't like to quit and I really wanted the experience of teaching... |
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Temporary
Joined: 13 Jan 2008
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 7:04 pm Post subject: |
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Love it. Best decision I have made in my life. |
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chris_J2

Joined: 17 Apr 2006 Location: From Brisbane, Au.
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 7:23 pm Post subject: Happy in Korea? |
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Some tips:
* Learn about the Country & it's culture
* Keep in touch with family by cellphone / email
* Take up a hobby (eg photography, hiking)
* Make Korean friends
* Make friends with Expats
* Learn the language (Hangul)
* Have an open mind
* Counterbalance loss of old friendships with newly formed friendships
* Be patient
* have a backup Support Group |
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rumdiary

Joined: 05 Jun 2006
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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I loved my time in Korea and I'm going back in March. Easy work (compared to teaching in the United States), tons of stuff to do in Seoul, traveling around Korea is very cheap and I made friends from all over the world. I think it helps if your first job is at a school with several foreign teachers so you have a support group and you can make some friends quickly. Get Skype and a webcam and you can keep in touch with your family and friends for free. |
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nobbyken

Joined: 07 Jun 2006 Location: Yongin ^^
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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rumdiary wrote: |
... Get Skype and a webcam and you can keep in touch with your family and friends for free. |
I was going to say this.
We use MSN and have cam and microphone to have regular video calls to parents.
I speak more to my family now than I did when I lived with them!
Feels like you are only streets apart, really cool.
Also put some movie clips or pictures on a free esnips.com website, and have friends/family do the same for you. You will not feel very disconnected from them at all.
I also found an excellent English speaking church and have many friends and I'm part of the family of believers. |
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Justin Hale

Joined: 24 Nov 2007 Location: the Straight Talk Express
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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At first, absolutely, because I was pampered in the difficult first month. All told, yes, very happy, but the problem is....Korea gets boring after a while. It's a utilitarian (definition 2) country only. Those who like simple pleasures....money, yummy girls and an easy job will think Korea is fabulous, but those with the faculty of discerning what is aesthetically excellent will get bored after 2 years. |
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Mebertz
Joined: 16 Dec 2007 Location: Suncheon
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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Justin Hale wrote: |
Those who like simple pleasures....money, yummy girls and an easy job will think Korea is fabulous, but those with the faculty of discerning what is aesthetically excellent will get bored after 2 years. |
Justin,
Try after two months! I haven't found any yummy girls yet either. I really only like athletic looking women with a little muscle. I haven't found that yet, though to be truthful, I'm not really looking. I have really only been concentrating on procuring gourmet food, and that has been a task, let me tell you.
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bluelake

Joined: 01 Dec 2005
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Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject: |
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It was so many years ago it's hard to remember... However, this is where my house, wife, son and job are, so it's home to me. |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:05 am Post subject: |
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I'm happy everywhere I live. I also like to make fun of everywhere I live. I for one see a connection. |
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OiGirl

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: Hoke-y-gun
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:08 am Post subject: |
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Best thing I've ever done...every time! |
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Mebertz
Joined: 16 Dec 2007 Location: Suncheon
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 4:57 am Post subject: |
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Mindmetoo,
I love your avatar. It is one of the funniest things I've seen. Is it a real trading card?
Mike |
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agentX
Joined: 12 Oct 2007 Location: Jeolla province
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 5:46 am Post subject: |
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Don't pay attention to a lot of the messages of this board.
Some commentators here are sarcastic, but aren't very good at it- so you can't tell if they're being honest or not.
Oh hell yeah I'm happy! This place has a lot of interesting things going on.
Sometimes I step outside my door, I have no idea what to expect.
For instance just last week I travel 1 block and I see a woman in the bed of a pickup truck dressed in a hanbook holding a leash dragging a man with no shirt on (But a tie) down the street. Behind him are 6 dudes in suits and one of them is wearing a construction worker's hat and is hitting the guy with what I think is a bamboo sword.
I asked my co-teacher about this; she says it's "Korean Culture".
Ah, reminds me of San Francisco... |
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