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Bama
Joined: 11 Feb 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 1:05 pm Post subject: Newbie looks to enjoy Korea |
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Hello, all:
I am thinking of teaching at a hagwon in Korea for a year. I would like to live in the southern part of the country, like Busan or thereabouts.
What I would like to know, from any who may have had experience, are these questions:
Will there be any places for nightlife that native Koreans go to? I don't really want to hang out in the western places.
After a couple of months, is it acceptable to invite my bosses and their families to a dinner party at my home?
Will korean bought electronics plug into my laptop?
Any answers will be appreciated!
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 3:11 pm Post subject: Re: Newbie looks to enjoy Korea |
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Will there be any places for nightlife that native Koreans go to? I don't really want to hang out in the western places. Of course there will be. you might even have trouble finding the western hangouts, if you're the only foreign teacher at your school. Koreans don't often do things alone though, so you might get some awkward responses, particularly in restaurants
After a couple of months, is it acceptable to invite my bosses and their families to a dinner party at my home? Acceptable, but likely inadvisable. Most hagwon provided apartments are tiny one room type places. Even if you are one of the lucky few who get a civilized apartment, the bosses family likely won't speak much English, and may be uncomfortable with the idea. Dinner for the boss and coworkers might be a better idea.
Will Korean bought electronics plug into my laptop? you may need a plug adapter so your western laptop will plug into a Korean wall socket, ( they're not hard to find, and cost about a dollar there) but computer ports are the same everywhere. |
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bellum99

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: don't need to know
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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There is no way to explain how life is here in Korea. You may not want to live out of Seoul, you may not want to invite the boss (trust me), you may need to have some western food. You have to come and experience it yourself...like sex for the first time.
---No one can really explain Korea to another person..everyone sees Korea in a different way. |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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Dinner for the boss and coworkers might be a better idea. |
They would think this very strange indeed, the boss should invite you and coworkers for dinner and pay.  |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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Most Asian homes are not like ours back home. It's much more natural here to go out for dinner. Inviting people to your house, though done sometimes, especially house warming parties, doesn't happen that often. |
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Bama
Joined: 11 Feb 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:35 pm Post subject: Thanks, all |
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Thank you for your responses.
I suppose it will not do to hostess my boss and his family at my home.
I would like to make a reciprocating gesture if my boss entertains me. Would it be acceptable to host he and his wife at a nice restaurant?
I am wondering whether or not to hold informal get-togethers at my home. In my cultural milieu, it is appropriate to host/ess friends for drinks and discussion. Does anyone think that this is a thing that Koreans and expats will enjoy?
Do karaoke bangs have songs in English? Can you bring your own CDs into the bang?
Thanks again for your correspondance.
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rebel1
Joined: 29 Nov 2007 Location: A spot far away from the bright centre of the Universe.
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:48 pm Post subject: |
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.....no, seriously!?!  |
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Bama
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:57 pm Post subject: |
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Seriously. |
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normalcyispasse

Joined: 27 Oct 2006 Location: Yeosu until the end of February WOOOOOOOO
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 5:19 pm Post subject: |
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You're overplanning. When/if you arrive here you'll find that Korea is probably quite different from your expectations. |
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xtchr
Joined: 23 Nov 2004
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 5:32 pm Post subject: Re: Thanks, all |
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Bama wrote: |
I am wondering whether or not to hold informal get-togethers at my home. In my cultural milieu, it is appropriate to host/ess friends for drinks and discussion. Does anyone think that this is a thing that Koreans and expats will enjoy?
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Until you get to Korea there is no way of knowing this. Your 'home' may be a tiny mould infested grot hole. And you may live in an area where all the locals speak Korean only. I once had a co-teacher who could only manage the single utterance of 'ooh, puppy cutie'.
Or you may live in a decent sized, nice apartment in an area with many expats or locals who have been abroad and speak English reasonably well. |
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 5:37 pm Post subject: |
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normalcyispasse wrote: |
You're overplanning. When/if you arrive here you'll find that Korea is probably quite different from your expectations. |
Agreed. Come to Korea. Play it by ear. You may come, dislike your boss, or the other way round then all this pre-stress will have been for no point. You can come to Korea with all these plans in mind but the reality is a lot different. If you have bad relations with your boss, I'd think it'd be super awkward to have them round.
Korean's don't generally invite people round to their houses for dinner parties. They go out. The food is dirt cheap. So by all means take your boss out. If it's a regular thing then Koreans have a "I'll pay this time, you pay next time" system.
Be weary Koreans are the most planned people. I have a friend who gets in a real tiz, panicky almost when she doesn't have the day laid out minute by minute. Also if she's in the company of Koreans what the timescale is for things. She's slowly learning to relax.
All the noraebangs I've been to have plenty of English songs. I've not heard of people taking their own music but I'm sure it's doable.
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nomad-ish

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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OP, just wait until you get here and settled before you worry about throwing any parties/get-togethers for your boss or anyone else.
as for the singing rooms (norae-bangs), they usually have a big book filled with korean and english songs, so no need to worry about that |
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Mi Yum mi
Joined: 28 Jan 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject: |
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Why don't you see how big your place is. Why don't you wait and see what kind of boss you get. I can't picture you having a party for some a$$ you hate in your one room 3mx3m apt. |
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