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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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 Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 8:32 pm Post subject: Re: Sex is just way too much trouble |
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| Ya-ta Boy wrote: |
a 35-year-old Japanese man told Shukan Asahi this week, adding that ever since he used *beep* as a teenager, he's never desired a woman again. "As long as I have a sex toy available, I don't need women. I can't come when I have sex, and you've got to put a lot of emotion into dealing with women. Self-pleasure is a hell of a lot less demanding than trying to please somebody else."
Read all about it here: http://www.atimes.com/atimes/Japan/JC08Dh01.html |
I am sure some of the people (not all for sure) who have been to see prostitutes or what have you, have done so, because they don't feel they can handle the emotions of a woman and have trouble with women for whatever reason. I definitely don't think frequenting a brothel is the way whether you are single or married, and a person was not mean to have a plastic p*ssy. Yes, you must put emotion into dealing with women sometimes, but you can actually grow as a person, and also make better choices later in women or men if you are a woman.
Relationships aren't easy. I remember reading this Tibetan influenced
Kiwi writer saying that we are often in trouble with relationships, because people are afraid of each other. Often, men and women no matter how tough they protect themselves to be are afraid of the loss of their ego, to go into some kind of ego death, so they will argue and argue, and in the end they are arguing to preserve their egos. Simply engaging in physical sex with some random person from a night club might be easier to deal with mentally then fighting with a girlfriend. But how about being at a point where you don't get into those major fights? |
Is funny how many men in asia who would never go near a *beep* in their own country go absolutely crazy about them in places like LOS |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:32 pm Post subject: |
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kiwiboy, I like women.
Never been into substitutes, and while at the tender age of 20 I thought about shelling out money, a healthy fear of Hep C kept me in check.
However, sometimes I just don't want to listen to the noise. Philip Roth's "Operation Shylock" instead of listening to it is my SOP as compared to toys, inanimate and/or disease ridden. |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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kiwiboy, I like women.
Never been into substitutes, and while at the tender age of 20 I thought about shelling out money, a healthy fear of Hep C kept me in check.
However, sometimes I just don't want to listen to the noise. Philip Roth's "Operation Shylock" instead of listening to it is my SOP as compared to toys, inanimate and/or disease ridden. |
So you didn't do the soapy slidy in L.O.S. I'm disappointed in you. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject: |
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| I hate to say it but I have something resembling a social justice conscience as well-not proud of it, tried to get rid of it before going to Thailand, cannot exorcise it completely. |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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| crusher_of_heads wrote: |
| I hate to say it but I have something resembling a social justice conscience as well-not proud of it, tried to get rid of it before going to Thailand, cannot exorcise it completely. |
I hope the Lonely Planet didn't influence that decision. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:19 pm Post subject: |
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No-I had that back before 1998.
And, Lonely Planet is like Arirang-good for a very basic introduction, if you can read critically and spot the silly poopytalk.
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mateomiguel
Joined: 16 May 2005
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| No woman can compete with a man's hand. |
This is totally untrue. My ex girlfriend's hands could beat mine any day of the week. She wouldn't even need to use anything else. Its physically impossible for me to come close to replicating the things she did to me. My thumbs are facing the wrong way and I'd have to ... well, best to not even get into it.
I used to praise her manual skills so much she joked that she should start doing it professionally, or open a hagwan and teach a class. Of course she was shocked when I told her that the an-mas DO do it professionally. Or... at least... she seemed to be shocked... I always have had my irrational doubts, and I'm sure you guys will only encourage them too damnit.
But on the main topic, I completely disagree that sex is overrated. It feels like when I'm not having sex I'm cut off from the rest of humanity, or like I'm not fully alive. Its cold, sad, and depressing to not be able to touch anyone in THAT most significant way. And when I'm back to having a girlfriend or lover, the small touches of hand to hand can give the same feelings as a full on pounding. Plastic just cannot do that.
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 12:17 am Post subject: |
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| Kepler wrote: |
| No woman can compete with a man's hand. |
This is totally untrue. My ex girlfriend's hands could beat mine any day of the week. She wouldn't even need to use anything else. Its physically impossible for me to come close to replicating the things she did to me. The thumbs are all wrong and I'd have to ... well, best to not even get into it.
I used to praise her manual skills so much she joked that she should start doing it professionally, or open a hagwan and teach a class. Of course she was shocked when I told her that the an-mas DO do it professionally. Or... at least... she seemed to be shocked... I always have had my irrational doubts, and I'm sure you guys will only encourage them too damnit.
But on the main topic, I completely disagree that sex is overrated. It feels like when I'm not having sex I'm cut off from the rest of humanity, or like I'm not fully alive. Its cold, sad, and depressing to not be able to touch anyone in THAT most significant way. And when I'm back to having a girlfriend or lover, the small touches of hand to hand can give the same feelings as a full on pounding. Plastic just cannot do that. |
I aways go for the happy endings when having a massage |
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The Bobster
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:54 am Post subject: |
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| some men are increasingly turning their backs on sex. |
Hmmm ... |
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cdninkorea
Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 1:08 pm Post subject: |
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| some men are increasingly turning their backs on sex. |
Hmmm ... |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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| some men are increasingly turning their backs on sex. |
Hmmm ... |
That how Freddy Mercury got Aids. |
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Justin Hale
Joined: 24 Nov 2007
Location: the Straight Talk Express
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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| mateomiguel wrote: |
| Kepler wrote: |
| No woman can compete with a man's hand. |
This is totally untrue. My ex girlfriend's hands could beat mine any day of the week. She wouldn't even need to use anything else. Its physically impossible for me to come close to replicating the things she did to me. My thumbs are facing the wrong way and I'd have to ... well, best to not even get into it.
I used to praise her manual skills so much she joked that she should start doing it professionally, or open a hagwan and teach a class. Of course she was shocked when I told her that the an-mas DO do it professionally. Or... at least... she seemed to be shocked... I always have had my irrational doubts, and I'm sure you guys will only encourage them too damnit.
But on the main topic, I completely disagree that sex is overrated. It feels like when I'm not having sex I'm cut off from the rest of humanity, or like I'm not fully alive. Its cold, sad, and depressing to not be able to touch anyone in THAT most significant way. And when I'm back to having a girlfriend or lover, the small touches of hand to hand can give the same feelings as a full on pounding. Plastic just cannot do that. |
Several excellent points. A woman's hand (with long nails) on my single barrel pump action handgun = yummy. Very yummy indeed. |
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pkang0202
Joined: 09 Mar 2007
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| Either your girl has skills or she doesn't. I have yet to meet a girl who has mastered the trifecta (hand, mouth, hip movements). Some had their specialties, none could do all three masterfully. |
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igotthisguitar
Joined: 08 Apr 2003
Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:12 pm Post subject: |
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Meditation is much more satisfying.
Kundalini energy  |
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yawarakaijin
Joined: 08 Aug 2006
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:58 pm Post subject: |
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Meditation is much more satisfying.
Kundalini energy |
I always thought you were a little loony, now I have proof!  |
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