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cbclark4

Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Location: Masan
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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:45 pm Post subject: |
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So let's ask the question:
Should a MOD lock a thread that is racially charged, a few months old
with several hundred responses and thousands of views, because it
deteriorates into a slug fest between two people in violent agreement with
each other?
Should this be a MOD decision made solely by one MOD or several?
Should the MOD have received at least one complaint or many?
Also can we define Newbie and standardize the spelling?
I've seen Newbie, Newby, Noobie, Nooby are there any others?
Is that something the MODs can do? |
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Enrico Palazzo Mod Team


Joined: 11 Mar 2008
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:27 am Post subject: |
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| cbclark4 wrote: |
So let's ask the question:
Should a MOD lock a thread that is racially charged, a few months old
with several hundred responses and thousands of views, because it
deteriorates into a slug fest between two people in violent agreement with
each other?
[Mods do lock threads if they are extremely charged. (see the latest locks). It is usually more than 2 people going out of hand, more like a plethora of people reminding you of a brawl at a bar with chairs flying.
Would a whole thread just be locked just because of two people? Two posters can be dealt with without spoiling it for other posters. Anyway, it helps if posters alert mods as to what they perceive as problems, any suggestions they have. In one thread that was recently locked several
posters (more than 2) were going in a bad direction, so the mods had them locked. I guess that answer that. Remember, things are partially the way they are, because the mods were overtaxed, no one was really able to give feedback, enough input, help the forum members on here.
Should this be a MOD decision made solely by one MOD or several?
[How does one answer that one? Mods discuss with each other what should generally be done, share actions, and sometimes consult before they do certain things and just as you are asked to observe, mods observe. Mods often must make decisions on their own based on general guidelines like in any forum.
Should the MOD have received at least one complaint or many?
[Complaints are helpful for alerting mods to anything that could be problematic on the forum. A complaint has to have foundation. The more feedback, positive or negative about posts the better. You can't expect hard and fast rules for things. Things are based on judgement calls just like with baseball, but there are still guidelines for saying something is a foul ball.
Also can we define Newbie and standardize the spelling?
I've seen Newbie, Newby, Noobie, Nooby are there any others?
Is that something the MODs can do? |
[I am sure that is sarcasm. You do know every place has rules, standards including accounting with the GAAP, the NYSE the SEC Commission, the IRS with tax laws, and cars have traffic signs to make sure traffic moves smoothly. You are, generally expected to encourage
fair play, sportsmenship amongst each other. That's most of it. You can try to standardize the spelling of labour as labor in the English language world, but I don't know about newbie:) Good luck on that one!
Hope that helps.... |
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arjuna

Joined: 31 Mar 2007
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:28 am Post subject: |
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I hope the MODs do not pretend (to themselves) that they are fair and impartial. If IGTG deserved to take a vacation, several others deserved it, too. I am not on anyone's side--although from your narrow perspectives I might appear to be siding with this or that poster or position.
Let me put it clearly for you to see what you are avoiding: IGTG appears to be breaking the forum guidelines more because you do not like what he says than because you do not like how he says what he says.
Let me state once again that I have no interest in being for or against any one poster or a group of posters. I tried to take this forum seriously for a while. But the more I try, the more I have to laugh. Whatever you may think yourselves to be or whatever you may profess to aspire to be, you are all prisoners of the lie that is human civilization, especially if you have pretensions to spirituality. Keep on trying as you do, but you would make better progress if you stopped pretending to be what you are not. |
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Gopher

Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:03 pm Post subject: |
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"The lie that is human civilization." What a bitter thing to say. No one is impartial, especially not in a forum that discusses politics. But Enrico Palazzo is approaching this problem -- and it is a problem -- patiently and judiciously. Not all moderators have done so in the past, and I think we should recognize this and work with him.
That being said, Igotthisguitar probably suffers a mental disorder. I do not mean this to attack or undermine her political views. But she frequently spams the board. Her posts dwell on extreme paranoia (she believes that other posters here work for "the govt," for example, and come here merely to sow disinformation and to confuse) and often feature openly racist -- that is, antisemitic -- commentary. Other posters preach hate towards Arabs and Islam from time to time. The questions remain whether and where to draw lines as far as content goes.
Further, most posters lack the vocabulary to exchange political views civilly. (Enter the prosecutorial Nowhere Man, my personal stalker here, with a long list of my previous positions all the way back to kindergarten, with references to years-old pms other posters have sent him, designed to "expose" me and undermine all that I say without addressing the point substantively. So be it.) Should moderators challenge them to rephrase their commentary when appropriate? When would it be appropriate?
I think, unlike other moderators in the past, some of whom have participated in and contributed to the incivility, Enrico Palazzo is asking these questions rather than simply moving in to strong-arm everyone. I, for one, support this. |
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The Bobster

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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| arjuna wrote: |
| IGTG appears to be breaking the forum guidelines more because you do not like what he says than because you do not like how he says what he says. |
This kind of thing is precisely why the CE Forum has at times become a free-fire zone due to mods being purposely oblivious to what goes on. Why purposely? Because no matter what, any action taken against a particular poster is inevitably going to be seen as moderators censoring that person's political or religious views because they don't agree with them, rather than because of the behavior of the poster in question.
My own view is that the content of ideas very occasionally does need to be moderated from outside, but only if it is so far off the topic of the thread that it constitutes a deliberate distraction - trolling, in other words.
Some suggestions toward the goal of self-policing (most of which I am lousy at following myself).
1. Play the ball, not the player. Try to imagine you've never heard of Nowhere Man or Gopher or yata boy or Bramble or igtg or whomever - The Bobster, for instance - and just look at the ideas being posted, and see if they have merit. If they have none, it doesn't matter who said it, and maybe nobody cares that you don't like that person because you argued with them last week and they disrespected you.
2. Connected to the above, avoid responding to the same people over and over, no matter how much you are still smarting from your last encounter or how much you'd like to stick it to them this time. From the outside, it's entertaining, but only for a while. Generally, it makes other people feel unwelcome to join the convo.
3. Avoid calling people stupid or crazy, no matter how much they seem so. If an idea or a fact is wrong, explain why or post some evidence to demonstrate the error. In the same vein, using words like "liberal" or "rightwing" as insults don't matter much if the person readily identifies with such labels.
4. If you feel harassed, either hit the little red exclamation mark and tell the mods or just ignore the person. When a discussion devolves into exactly two people calling each other names and little else, it's not a discussion anymore. When you don't respond to someone's bullying, there's not much more they can do except declare victory and retreat.
I might think of more. As indicated above, I myself have broken every single one of these suggestions, a few of them as recently as yesterday, so don't bother calling me on it, because I know, and that's why I'm telling you.
The ideal frame of mind is that everyone here could feel that they have something to learn from everyone else - that kind of atmosphere is never really going to happen, obviously, but it's something to shoot for, right?. Barring that, the goal is that it be a place we can spend our free time in entertainment - and constant bickering, vendettas and personality clashes between the same sets of people over and over is just plain boring. (Like said, I been there, and I know.)
The very last thing any of us should expect from the CE Forum is that we might change people's minds. It occasionally happens - I've altered my own views in one or two instances - but it's a sad fantasy if that is what you are here for, because for most it's uh-uh, no way Jose.
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The Bobster

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:53 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, yeah, one more thing.
When someone has an avatar that's too wide, it pushes the text far far over to the right. When that happens a moderator should contact the person and ask them to make it narrower. Gets annoying to have to keep pushing the bar at the bottom of the screen to read everyone else's posts.
Same goes for posting superlong URLs instead of using the posting tools properly. |
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Gopher

Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:18 pm Post subject: |
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| The Bobster wrote: |
| When you don't respond to someone's bullying, there's not much more they can do except declare victory and retreat. |
Yet it does not always work out that way. Some smart over things that have been said and follow others around for years, in spite of their being ignored from time to time. |
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The Bobster

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Gopher wrote: |
| The Bobster wrote: |
| When you don't respond to someone's bullying, there's not much more they can do except declare victory and retreat. |
Yet it does not always work out that way. Some smart over things that have been said and follow others around for years, in spite of their being ignored from time to time. |
Well, the third option after ignoring them or calling the mods is to just laugh it off, have a beer and reflect that, hey, it's only a message board, why let it bother me so much - you know?
Like I said, every single suggestion I make reflects stuff I wish I had done ... |
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Gopher

Joined: 04 Jun 2005
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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| The Bobster wrote: |
| Like I said, every single suggestion I make reflects stuff I wish I had done ... |
All right, Bobster. I can respect your willingness to move on. Cheers. |
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Adventurer

Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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| The Bobster wrote: |
Oh, yeah, one more thing.
When someone has an avatar that's too wide, it pushes the text far far over to the right. When that happens a moderator should contact the person and ask them to make it narrower. Gets annoying to have to keep pushing the bar at the bottom of the screen to read everyone else's posts.
Same goes for posting superlong URLs instead of using the posting tools properly. |
Bobster, hi. I've been guilty of this. What is the posting tool that one uses for not having a superlong URL? Thanks...Anyway, I don't think that is a major concern for us, now is it? It just might annoy some...I know there is that URL tool above, but is there something to where you can have one word hit to be a link?
Waiting for your answer on that tool to use in my shed..... |
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The Bobster

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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Hope this helps.
First, type the words that are going to be the link. LIke this:
The Bobster.
If it's an article from a website, it might be the title, or it could just be some words inside of the text you had already typed yourself. In either case, highlight them, then click on the tool that says "URL." Now, it will look like this:
[url]The Bobster.[/url]
The next part is just a little tricky, but I could figure it out and so can you. Go to the website you are linking to, which you have in a separate window. Go to the URL bar at the top of that page, right-click so that it all turns blue, then hit the choice on the menu that appears that says < C > for copy.
Now come back to this page, and it's the tricky part I mentioned: carefully place the cursor directly in between the letter < l > in the initial bracket that contains "[url]" and then type the symbol for equal sign < = >. Now, it should look like this.:
[url=]The Bobster[/url]
You already have the website URL stored in your mouse's short-term memory, so right there in that space after the equal sign hit control + V to clipboard it in. Now, on your screen, it looks like this (except that I inserted a space between the two < / > to illustrate things):
[url=http:/ /forums.eslcafe.com/korea/search.php?search_author=The+Bobster]The Bobster.[/url]
When you've gotten this far, you can check it by hitting the < Preview > button. You should see this:
The Bobster
And this is what you wanted, most likely. There may be easier ways to do it, but it's worked for me, and if you do it a couple of times you can do it faster so it's not so tedious. Happy posting! And more economical linking!
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igotthisguitar

Joined: 08 Apr 2003 Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Gopher ...
i agree Erico is trying to mediate in a seemingly professional manner, and from what i can gather, doing a reasonably decent job.
He has made two specific requests to which IGTG has reluctantly agreed to self-censorship.
Speaking from experience i know that the ref hardly ever has it easy.
Yes, i agree Erico has thus far proved himeself to be among one of the BEST, most responsive, pro-active and reasonable mods to grace Dave's ESL over the past FIVE, oftime tumultuous ( hey ... it's politics & CE, the world is facing some pretty major issues, how genuinely "civil" do you expect it to be? ) years.
| Gopher wrote: |
That being said, Igotthisguitar probably suffers a mental disorder.
I do not mean this to attack or undermine her political views. But ... she frequently "spams" the board. |
Here's a thought Gopher: "EVERYBODY" suffers from mental dis-order.
e.g. You wouldn't bother to attack or criticize "others" unless you yourself suffered from some kind of mental dis-EASE.
Arrggghhhh! Noooooooo ... not that again! Stooopppp!
Do you meditate? I bet if you did you'd be a lot happier, more grounded person.
MEDi-tation = MEDi-cation
Free & available to all ( with a long-standing & proven track record ).
Those who engage in such daily practices are frankly less ill at ease than those who are addicted to life's melodrama, televalium, alcohol, cigarettes, projecting their EGO, endless games of "one-up" man-ship" etc.
btw - Yes, i do suffer. It's the inescapable fact of life.
| Gopher wrote: |
Her posts dwell on extreme paranoia (she believes that other posters here work for "the govt," for example, and come here merely to sow disinformation and to confuse) and often feature openly racist -- that is, *ahem* anti-semit-ic -- commentary.
Other posters preach hate towards Arabs and Islam from time to time.
The questions remain whether and where to draw lines as far as content goes. |
No, that's right politics & current have has nothing to do with "the gov't", occult secret societies or "conspiracy" does it?
Never does, never did, never could, never will
NEWSFLASH!!
1 ) Most semites are not "jews".
2 ) Most jews are NOT "semites".
3 ) For the record i do not believe in "hate", nor do i support racist policies or worldviews.
Spiritually deluded, hate is a mental & emotional poison.
A major worldy afflcition, it undoubtedly contributes to what you refer to as mental dis-EASE or dis-ORDER.
As far as race goes, i am of the view that there is but one race: THE HUMAN RACE.
btw - As a side, where is it exactly that we're all supposed to be "racing" off to?
| Gopher wrote: |
| Further, most posters lack the vocabulary to exchange political views civilly. |
Hmmmm ... me ... ugghh ... thinks this not true.
Sophistry often breeds obfuscation.
KISS ...
Sometimes a child points out the most painfully obvious truths that extremely "educated" & well-versed adults either fail to see or, for whatever reason, are reluctant to comment on / present in balanced, fair & accurate manner.
e.g. THE EMPEROR WEARS NO CLOTHES.
Oh, this reminds me, last time i checked, freedom of speech clearly included "unpopular" & yes, even sometimes "offensive" views.
( Use it OR LOSE IT! )
Have a nice day
| arjuna wrote: |
I hope the MODs do not pretend (to themselves) that they are fair and impartial.
If IGTG deserved to take a vacation, several others deserved it, too.
I am not on anyone's side--although from your narrow perspectives I might appear to be siding with this or that poster or position.
Let me put it clearly for you to see what you are avoiding:
IGTG appears to be breaking the forum guidelines more because you do not like what he says than because you do not like how he says what he says. |
For the record "Thank-you Arjuna".
i could not have said things any better myself.
Your comments suggest you are a truly "NOBLE" soul indeed.
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cbclark4

Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Location: Masan
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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| The Bobster wrote: |
| Gopher wrote: |
| The Bobster wrote: |
| When you don't respond to someone's bullying, there's not much more they can do except declare victory and retreat. |
Yet it does not always work out that way. Some smart over things that have been said and follow others around for years, in spite of their being ignored from time to time. |
Well, the third option after ignoring them or calling the mods is to just laugh it off, have a beer and reflect that, hey, it's only a message board, why let it bother me so much - you know?
Like I said, every single suggestion I make reflects stuff I wish I had done ... |
Bobster's buying beer for everyone....  |
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Enrico Palazzo Mod Team


Joined: 11 Mar 2008
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:01 pm Post subject: |
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It will necessary to post two posts to get something across coherently.
Gopher, I appreciate your contribution to this thread. However, please refrain from labeling a poster whether IGTG or another poster as mentally ill. We are not psychologists on this forum. It does not seem civil to do so. Even if what was said by you is true, IGTG has feelings regardless of how he or she has conducted him or herself on this forum.
Probably, it was not your intention to come off that way, I will assume.
The mods can only do their best, by being civil to other members, each other, and demand some consistency. Your comments were looked at for drafting recommendations.
Bobster, your posts were interesting. Your comments were quite helpful.
They will probably be included in the recommendations to be posted with some cleaning up tomorrow morning. Important things will be placed in bold.
Clark, your comments were also looked at. The board is not a free speech forum for spam, bigotry and the like, but political diversity must be protected, encouraged. A balance must be sought.
Now, to look at IGTG's long posts. It would be addressed in this post if it weren't very long.
Thank you, Grazie.... |
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Enrico Palazzo Mod Team


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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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| igotthisguitar wrote: |
Hi Gopher ...
i agree Erico is trying to mediate in a seemingly professional manner, and from what i can gather, doing a reasonably decent job.
He has made two specific requests to which IGTG has reluctantly agreed to self-censorship.
Speaking from experience i know that the ref hardly ever has it easy.
Yes, i agree Erico has thus far proved himeself to be among one of the BEST, most responsive, pro-active and reasonable mods to grace Dave's ESL over the past FIVE, oftime tumultuous ( hey ... it's politics & CE, the world is facing some pretty major issues, how genuinely "civil" do you expect it to be? ) years.
| Gopher wrote: |
That being said, Igotthisguitar probably suffers a mental disorder.
I do not mean this to attack or undermine her political views. But ... she frequently "spams" the board. |
Here's a thought Gopher: "EVERYBODY" suffers from mental dis-order.
e.g. You wouldn't bother to attack or criticize "others" unless you yourself suffered from some kind of mental dis-EASE.
Arrggghhhh! Noooooooo ... not that again! Stooopppp!
Do you meditate? I bet if you did you'd be a lot happier, more grounded person.
MEDi-tation = MEDi-cation
Free & available to all ( with a long-standing & proven track record ).
Those who engage in such daily practices are frankly less ill at ease than those who are addicted to life's melodrama, televalium, alcohol, cigarettes, projecting their EGO, endless games of "one-up" man-ship" etc.
btw - Yes, i do suffer. It's the inescapable fact of life.
| Gopher wrote: |
Her posts dwell on extreme paranoia (she believes that other posters here work for "the govt," for example, and come here merely to sow disinformation and to confuse) and often feature openly racist -- that is, *ahem* anti-semit-ic -- commentary.
Other posters preach hate towards Arabs and Islam from time to time.
The questions remain whether and where to draw lines as far as content goes. |
No, that's right politics & current have has nothing to do with "the gov't", occult secret societies or "conspiracy" does it?
Never does, never did, never could, never will
NEWSFLASH!!
1 ) Most semites are not "jews".
2 ) Most jews are NOT "semites".
3 ) For the record i do not believe in "hate", nor do i support racist policies or worldviews.
Spiritually deluded, hate is a mental & emotional poison.
A major worldy afflcition, it undoubtedly contributes to what you refer to as mental dis-EASE or dis-ORDER.
As far as race goes, i am of the view that there is but one race: THE HUMAN RACE.
btw - As a side, where is it exactly that we're all supposed to be "racing" off to?
| Gopher wrote: |
| Further, most posters lack the vocabulary to exchange political views civilly. |
Hmmmm ... me ... ugghh ... thinks this not true.
Sophistry often breeds obfuscation.
KISS ...
Sometimes a child points out the most painfully obvious truths that extremely "educated" & well-versed adults either fail to see or, for whatever reason, are reluctant to comment on / present in balanced, fair & accurate manner.
e.g. THE EMPEROR WEARS NO CLOTHES.
Oh, this reminds me, last time i checked, freedom of speech clearly included "unpopular" & yes, even sometimes "offensive" views.
( Use it OR LOSE IT! )
Have a nice day
| arjuna wrote: |
I hope the MODs do not pretend (to themselves) that they are fair and impartial.
If IGTG deserved to take a vacation, several others deserved it, too.
I am not on anyone's side--although from your narrow perspectives I might appear to be siding with this or that poster or position.
Let me put it clearly for you to see what you are avoiding:
IGTG appears to be breaking the forum guidelines more because you do not like what he says than because you do not like how he says what he says. |
For the record "Thank-you Arjuna".
i could not have said things any better myself.
Your comments suggest you are a truly "NOBLE" soul indeed. |
IGTG, it is appreciated that you are making an attempt to self-regulate. Guidelines will be put place and it will apply to Gopher, Steve, IGTG, Justin, Kuros, Bobster, Adventurer, and every good poster on this forum.
Gopher, may have been viewed by you as uncivil with his speaking of you as being dis-eased. Looking at the post you posted above, you seem to get involved on the forums as if you have a mission, and you are preaching and preaching as evidenced by the long post. Excessive preaching is not what the forums needed.
You have taken CE type posts very much outside of the forum as well. The mods are soliciting what can be done to cut down on flaming, excessive propaganda, name-calling, and not whether most Semites are Jews or aliens from Mars or if Bantus are mostly friendly or not. That was not the point of this thread, and it doesn't really promote a proper exchange. You are not posting in a way to where you are trying to actually have people hear what you are saying. It defeats the purpose of your posts, in the end.
The Mods are not here to make friends, but rather to help those who want a forum that is conducive to exchanging diverse views in a civil, manageable way can have that environment. We are trying to be patient with each and every member, but the guidelines must be maintained and so must the forum be maintained.
Thank you, and I hope Bobster has quality beer for you with those hot dogs while you watch a Korean baseball game since the Yankees are not around.
Play ball! |
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