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i like someone: attn guys, advice sought
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Diana X2



Joined: 06 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:19 am    Post subject: i like someone: attn guys, advice sought Reply with quote

never mind. thanks though. just can't deal with the jokesters and the wicked ones.

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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I cannot comment for every man. For me, I am not so focused on a woman's weight. I have dated women who were pretty thin and women who were rather chubby and maybe thick. Some men are open to a variety of women. As far as dating, none of us do it perfectly. People are often afraid of each other somehow and have their barriers.

Men like someone who pays attention to them, hears them, compliments them, smiles, and someone who is warm. At least, that's what I like.

As far as your symptoms, I am wondering why you are expressing those syptoms. I can guess as to why you are manifesting those symptoms.
However, you would have to describe your symptoms more. I would ask you to change your diet.

You probably also get bloated, foggy brained etc... If so, I would reduce and eliminate sugar, reduce bread, do not consume dairy products, go to Homever and buy olive leaf tea and drink a lot of the tea, and you will bounce back... I gave that recommendation to a chat pal in India, and he was a lot better. Also, eat more vegetables than fruits. If you eat fruits, eat low sugar fruits such as grape fruit.

I hope that helps...

Namaste..
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jetrash



Joined: 02 Jun 2007
Location: the united steaks

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:48 am    Post subject: Re: i like someone: attn guys, advice sought Reply with quote

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what are...
...major turnoffs?
smelling of cheese,not wearing modern jeans,unshaven pootang

...automatic dealbreakers?
herpes,hep C ,TB

...major turnons?
an excellent BJ,money,lesbian friends who will join in,but only if combined weight is LESS than a small german car.

...minor turnons?
olives,snacks,beer,a small dog or kitten

...must-haves?
a balanced rack and a "sincere" bush.

...other?
no talking(at any time)
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Oreovictim



Joined: 23 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't know what your question was, but if you'd like to ask, just PM me. I can give thoughtful, sincere advice. Really, I can.
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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honesty, humor and soap. You should use them all.
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endo



Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sexy underwear is a huge plus in my book.


Don't be a *beep*, but definately be a c-ock tease. If a guy responds all shy and timid, you can control him.

If he plays the game back and puts you on edge, you're gonna get played.
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JustJohn



Joined: 18 Oct 2007
Location: Your computer screen

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some general ones:

Turnoffs - Whiney, ugly, stinky, stupid, completely irrational, rude/crass, annoying friends, ultra high maintenance, likes to spend money

Turnons - hot, easy to talk to, affectionate, nice, smart, cute, funny, good cook
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Fresh Prince



Joined: 05 Dec 2006
Location: The glorious nation of Korea

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Great topic...

Turnoffs: Not being upfront or honest, stressed out, not easy to talk to, too serious, negative, too materialistic, stupid, demanding...

Turnons: Chilled out and relaxed, easy to talk to, happy, dress attractively, smart, fun to be around, smiles, wear makeup if needed but not excessively, smell good...
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JustJohn wrote:
Some general ones:

Turnoffs - completely irrational,


But I thought this was a universally feminine trait?!
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JustJohn



Joined: 18 Oct 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, no. "Generally irrational" is a universal trait. "Completely irrational" is only about 40 percent.
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JustJohn wrote:
No, no. "Generally irrational" is a universal trait. "Completely irrational" is only about 40 percent.


OK, then. Generally irrational it is then. I think I can manage that. Razz
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!

PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spend the night, bring a girlfriend. Odds are he will like that.
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Mix1



Joined: 08 May 2007

PostPosted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:20 am    Post subject: Re: i like someone: attn guys, advice sought Reply with quote

Diana X2 wrote:
never mind. thanks though. just can't deal with the jokesters and the wicked ones.


Aw, come on! Now we latecomers have no idea what your question was. Anyway, just look at the jokesters as insight into the retarded yet devious yet sometimes brilliant male mind! I'm assuming it's a male you want to attract, right? I guarantee he doesn't think much differently than many of the jokesters on this forum. Guys will be guys! Get used to it! Wink
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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I do have one major turn off and that is a woman who is very inconsistent in terms of her moods. I don't mean a woman cannot be moody, be melancholic here and there, but not go from warm to cold, and then cold to warm. Someone who is basically relaxed, predictable, you know what you're getting. Also, a selfish woman for me is a turn-off. I prefer a woman who leans toward being more selfless. Honesty is also important, and many women put on a facade, and then you get a very different person. Men do that as well.
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Stormy



Joined: 10 Jan 2008
Location: Here & there

PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 2:57 am    Post subject: Re: i like someone: attn guys, advice sought Reply with quote

jetrash wrote:

what are...
...minor turnons?
olives,snacks,beer,a small dog or kitten


I find this a little disturbing. Please explain.
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