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nomad-ish

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 3:40 pm Post subject: Menstruation Leave |
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Article 71 (Menstruation Leave)
An employer shall, if requested by a female worker, grant her one day�s menstruation leave per month. <Amended by Act No. 6974, Sep. 15, 2003> |
just curious, has anyone heard of someone that has tried this? i doubt i ever would, but it's tempting |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 3:45 pm Post subject: |
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I wonder as a guy if I could get away with it. I want one day off a month..
God damn women getting all the luck  |
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creesschaef

Joined: 18 Jun 2007 Location: Gyeonggi-do
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject: |
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I have heard of this being used, although it wasn't a teacher.
For her, it was an unpaid day of leave. |
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mrsquirrel
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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Wonder if I can use it because the missus has given me grief all night and I didn't get any sleep. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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I've never heard of a teacher actually being able to use this. If anything this 'law' suggests that women are not as dependable or capable workers as men. Whether that is or isn't true, it seems to send a bad message. |
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Ilsanman

Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Location: Bucheon, Korea
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 10:43 pm Post subject: |
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So another privilege women have over men. No army service either. |
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aalais

Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 11:45 pm Post subject: |
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Ilsanman wrote: |
So another privilege women have over men. No army service either. |
Oh, yeah, shedding your uterine lining in a way so painful that sometimes you literally can't get out of bed is awesome. You should definitely sign up for it next time around!
OP, I wouldn't try to use it; your co-workers will never respect you again. If it's that bad, use a regular sick day. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 12:04 am Post subject: |
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aalais wrote: |
Ilsanman wrote: |
So another privilege women have over men. No army service either. |
Oh, yeah, shedding your uterine lining in a way so painful that sometimes you literally can't get out of bed is awesome. You should definitely sign up for it next time around!
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And there's the classic feminist dilemma: do you want to admit that you're disatvantaged and try to use it to your benefit, or pretend that you're not? It's interesting that, for the sake of the latter, a law like this could never pass in the feminist west, but could in an ultra-sexist country finally showing a wee bit of compassion towards the 'weaker' sex, at least in lip service. |
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Ilsanman

Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Location: Bucheon, Korea
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 12:06 am Post subject: |
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Sure it sucks, but I'd trade places with you if it got me out of 2 years army service and a day off of work every month.
Can I take a day off if I have blue balls?
aalais wrote: |
Ilsanman wrote: |
So another privilege women have over men. No army service either. |
Oh, yeah, shedding your uterine lining in a way so painful that sometimes you literally can't get out of bed is awesome. You should definitely sign up for it next time around!
OP, I wouldn't try to use it; your co-workers will never respect you again. If it's that bad, use a regular sick day. |
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aalais

Joined: 26 Mar 2008 Location: Bundang
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 12:50 am Post subject: |
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Ilsanman wrote: |
Sure it sucks, but I'd trade places with you if it got me out of 2 years army service and a day off of work every month.
Can I take a day off if I have blue balls? |
Okay. Please be advised that it also comes with a 20% average lifetime pay cut in both the US and South Korea. Also, people will assume you're PMSing when you're really just a disagreeable person.
I think a day off for blue balls is fair, if you're willing to call your employer and explain why you need it.
Edit: Yu_Bum_suk, your point is thoughtful and well considered. It kind of reflects the division between second and third wave feminists in the West; e.g., should women seek or reject treatment that differentiates them from men? |
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mnhnhyouh

Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 12:56 am Post subject: |
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aalais wrote: |
Ilsanman wrote: |
Sure it sucks, but I'd trade places with you if it got me out of 2 years army service and a day off of work every month.
Can I take a day off if I have blue balls? |
Okay. Please be advised that it also comes with a 20% average lifetime pay cut in both the US and South Korea. Also, people will assume you're PMSing when you're really just a disagreeable person.
I think a day off for blue balls is fair, if you're willing to call your employer and explain why you need it.
Edit: Yu_Bum_suk, your point is thoughtful and well considered. It kind of reflects the division between second and third wave feminists in the West; e.g., should women seek or reject treatment that differentiates them from men? |
His response will be that you have 5 minutes, so hurry up and wash your hands afterwards.
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seoul_lecturer
Joined: 17 Oct 2007
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 5:13 am Post subject: Re: Menstruation Leave |
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nomad-ish wrote: |
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Article 71 (Menstruation Leave)
An employer shall, if requested by a female worker, grant her one day�s menstruation leave per month. <Amended by Act No. 6974, Sep. 15, 2003> |
just curious, has anyone heard of someone that has tried this? i doubt i ever would, but it's tempting |
I have students at Yonsei University trying to get away with missing class by giving me "Official Menstruation" excuses. The university leaves it up to instructors whether we accept them or not. I'm a female and I NEVER accept them. If I have to go to work, they have to come to class! (I've never asked for a day off a month, but I'm positive Yonsei would not allow it.) Whatever happened to women wanting equal rights? |
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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 6:03 am Post subject: |
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aalais wrote: |
... Okay. Please be advised that it also comes with a 20% average lifetime pay cut in both the US and South Korea. Also, people will assume you're PMSing when you're really just a disagreeable person. |
Gender Issues Pay and Salary
The 76-cent myth
Do women make less than men? The wage-gap ratio isn't the best gauge for pay discrimination, and overemphasizing it can undermine an important issue.
By Jeanne Sahadi, CNNMoney.com. (February 21, 2006)
http://money.cnn.com/2006/02/21/commentary/everyday/sahadi/index.htm
Meanwhile: Exploiting the gender gap
by Warren Farrell, International Herald Tribune (September 6, 2005)
http://www.iht.com/articles/2005/09/05/opinion/edfarrell.php
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When the Rochester Institute of Technology surveyed business owners with MBAs from one top business school, they found that money was the primary motivator for only 29 percent of the women, versus 76 percent of the men. Women put a premium on autonomy, flexibility (25- to 35-hour weeks and proximity to home), fulfillment and safety.
After years of research, I discovered 25 differences in the work-life choices of men and women. All 25 lead to men earning more money, but to women having better lives.
High pay, as it turns out, is about tradeoffs. Men's tradeoffs include working more hours (women work more around the home); taking more dangerous, dirtier and outdoor jobs (garbage collecting, construction, trucking); relocating and traveling; and training for technical jobs with less people contact (like engineering)....
There are 80 jobs in which women earn more than men - positions like financial analyst, radiation therapist, library worker, biological technician, motion picture projectionist. Female sales engineers make 143 percent of their male counterparts; female statisticians earn 135 percent. |
Why Men Earn More (video runs for about 6 minutes)
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By Glenn Sacks
http://www.glennsacks.com/male_female_wage.htm
For Young Earners in Big City, a Gap in Women's Favor
By Sam Roberts, The New York Times (August 3, 2007)
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html
Lonely at the Top
By Cheryl Wetzstein, THE WASHINGTON TIMES (December 13, 2005)
http://www.washingtontimes.com/culture/20051212-103116-1924r.htm
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Does success make women less marriageable to men? In some cases, the answer is yes: Most women like to "marry up," and that is harder to do if a woman is on the top floor of her profession.
But a bigger problem simply may lie in successful women's lack of planning for marriage, said Carrie Lukas, director of policy at the Independent Women's Forum. |
Successful women begrudge husbands who earn less, study claims
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Women Are Women's Worst Workplace Enemy: Poll
Chosun Ilbo (September 19, 2006)
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Most Women Quit Work to Get Married
Chosun Ilbo (March 22, 2006)
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54% of Working Moms to Quit Jobs
By Yoon Ja-young, Korea Times (August 1, 2006)
http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/nation/news_view.asp?newsIdx=2943639
Most Married Women Have Secret Slush Fund - Survey
Chosun Ilbo (December 3, 2007)
http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200712/200712030018.html
Wives Found Far Richer than their Spouses
Chosun Ilbo (March 21, 2001)
http://www.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200102/200102150006.html
Marriage More Expensive for Man
Chosun Ilbo (March 27, 2001)
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Women taking lead in filing for divorce
JoongAng Daily (July 1, 2005)
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Women Remarry Faster Than Men
By Lee Hyo-sik, Korea Times (April 19, 2007)
http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/biz/biz_view.asp?newsIdx=1313&categoryCode=123
Teenage Boys Spend Money on Girls -- and so Do Girls
Chosun Ilbo (November 13, 2006)
http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200611/200611130007.html |
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nomad-ish

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 6:54 am Post subject: |
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aalais wrote: |
Ilsanman wrote: |
So another privilege women have over men. No army service either. |
Oh, yeah, shedding your uterine lining in a way so painful that sometimes you literally can't get out of bed is awesome. You should definitely sign up for it next time around!
OP, I wouldn't try to use it; your co-workers will never respect you again. If it's that bad, use a regular sick day. |
nah, i wouldn't have the balls to use that excuse. besides i use enough tylenol that i would never need to! i was skimming the korean labour law yesterday and i was just curious if any western women used that excuse (for one reason or another) and it was accepted |
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little mixed girl
Joined: 11 Jun 2003 Location: shin hyesung's bed~
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 7:07 am Post subject: |
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i've been tempted to use it a few times since i've come to japan.
what's stopping me is that i don't know how it will be recorded on the time sheet.
there's a stamp for a regular day off, but for a period?
(an angry face, perhaps?)
so far, i just call in sick (and by "sick" i mean i take a regular day off and not a sick day). |
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