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"a gentler environment for bringing the kids up."
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 10:09 am    Post subject: "a gentler environment for bringing the kids up." Reply with quote

From, of all places, the BBC...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/7359513.stm
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'Gentler environment'

Why is it then that so many Americans - and foreigners who come here - feel that the place is so, well, safe?

I have met incredulous British tourists who have been shocked to the core by the peacefulness of the place

A British man I met in Colorado recently told me he used to live in Kent but he moved to the American state of New Jersey and will not go home because it is, as he put it, "a gentler environment for bringing the kids up."

This is New Jersey. Home of the Sopranos.


Brits arriving in New York, hoping to avoid being slaughtered on day one of their shopping mission to Manhattan are, by day two, beginning to wonder what all the fuss was about. By day three they have had had the scales lifted from their eyes.

I have met incredulous British tourists who have been shocked to the core by the peacefulness of the place, the lack of the violent undercurrent so ubiquitous in British cities, even British market towns.

"It seems so nice here," they quaver.

Well, it is!

Violent paradox

Ten or 20 years ago, it was a different story, but things have changed.

And this is Manhattan.

Wait till you get to London Texas, or Glasgow Montana, or Oxford Mississippi or Virgin Utah, for that matter, where every household is required by local ordinance to possess a gun.

Folks will have guns in all of these places and if you break into their homes they will probably kill you.

They will occasionally kill each other in anger or by mistake, but you never feel as unsafe as you can feel in south London.

It is a paradox. Along with the guns there is a tranquillity and civility about American life of which most British people can only dream.

Peace and serenity

What surprises the British tourists is that, in areas of the US that look and feel like suburban Britain, there is simply less crime and much less violent crime.

Doors are left unlocked, public telephones unbroken.

One reason - perhaps the overriding reason - is that there is no public drunkenness in polite America, simply none.

I have never seen a group of drunk young people in the entire six years I have lived here. I travel a lot and not always to the better parts of town.

It is an odd fact that a nation we associate - quite properly - with violence is also so serene, so unscarred by petty crime, so innocent of brawling.

Virginia Tech had the headlines in the last few days and reminded us of the violence for which the US is well known.

But most American lives were as peaceful on this anniversary as they are every day.
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ceesgetdegrees



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 5:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sure, america is safe if you live in the suburbs. There most be some accounting for the 11000 + hand gun murders a year though, although if it's mostly minorities then it doesn't really matter does it.
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The article is about New York City and New Jersey, which is the most populous city and state (by sq/mi), respectively.
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ceesgetdegrees



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 6:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thats great, i mean aside from the little fact that americans blow each other away more then any other industrialised country on the planet. sounds like an idyllic place to live.
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ED209



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 6:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

For Christ's sake don't let the Brits in. Time to fake another terrorist attack and blame the Chavs.
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 6:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ceesgetdegrees wrote:
Thats great, i mean aside from the little fact that americans blow each other away more then any other industrialised country on the planet. sounds like an idyllic place to live.


It actually is.

Some rules of thumb for not getting shot:

1) Don't talk s/hit to a guy with a gun
2) Don't buy your blow in a ghetto

So far, it has worked for me.
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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I once had a conversation with a petrified grandmother. She was going to be taking her 4 year old grandkid to the US to visit the kid's parents who were doing their graduate studies. She was absolutely convinced that she had to have a harness/leash thing or she'd never get through the airport without the kid getting kidnapped.

Violence and crime are serious problems in America but foreigners shouldn't be getting their ideas from movies and TV shows. But then, they shouldn't be taking their religious philosophy from Star Wars either.
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 7:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, but most of this violence is highly concentrated in the ghettos. Don't go to the ghetto. The non-ghetto area of cities (95% of the city) is perfectly safe. The crime is hugely exaggerated. I recently met Swedish tourists (grown men) who won't leave their hotel after 8pm.

London, on the other hand, is in entirety a violent place. The part about gangs of drunk kids being absent in America and the norm in the UK is perfectly true.
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Justin Hale



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I disagree that London's violence and crime is quite that bad, but certainly it is more spread out and generalized than in the US. Another major difference is that UK violent street crime is so often alcohol-driven, a cultural alcohol/violence problem, whereas in the US I've personally observed nothing of the sort. Generally, the US not only feels far safer than the UK and with a much better, feelgood atmosphere, but is in every conceivable way a superior society and culture. It's all to do with the decline of Far Right nationalism and rise in feminazi liberalism and tyranny of the mediocre. The US has seen no such thing and this is a major factor.
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I exaggerated a tad. What are the major theories on why the British drink themselves to such disrepair? When compared with the French, Dutch and Americans the UK has a very low-class, crass and dangerous relationship with alcohol. Why?
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Pluto



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mises wrote:
I exaggerated a tad. What are the major theories on why the British drink themselves to such disrepair? When compared with the French, Dutch and Americans the UK has a very low-class, crass and dangerous relationship with alcohol. Why?


Don't forget about us latinos! We party ourselves silly yet we don't even have those kind of problems. I mean for heavens sake, there is a club in Salamanca Spain, a big university town, that stays open until 12 noon the next day; people party there until that time too. Yet, I never hear these type of stories coming out of Spain or even Mexico for that matter. -- Don't get me wrong, Mexico does have its bad parts though they are mostly along the US boarder.


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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Agreed. I'm in a minority-majority city and my experience mirrors yours.
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mises wrote:
I exaggerated a tad. What are the major theories on why the British drink themselves to such disrepair? When compared with the French, Dutch and Americans the UK has a very low-class, crass and dangerous relationship with alcohol. Why?


Part of the problem is that since WW1, there have been restrictions, such as legal drinking hours. Most pubs must stop serving at 11 pm, and must have turfed out all their customers by 11:20 pm.

What happens is that at 10:30, knowing last orders will soon be called and drinking will be over, loads of punters go up to the counter and order themselves a glut of drinks. So you'll have loads of guys, in loads of pubs, all over the town, skulling down 3 or more pints of beer in less than an hour, and then spilling onto the streets at exactly the same time.

An excellent recipe for trouble.
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 8:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Justin Hale wrote:
I disagree that London's violence and crime is quite that bad, but certainly it is more spread out and generalized than in the US. Another major difference is that UK violent street crime is so often alcohol-driven, a cultural alcohol/violence problem, whereas in the US I've personally observed nothing of the sort. Generally, the US not only feels far safer than the UK and with a much better, feelgood atmosphere, but is in every conceivable way a superior society and culture. It's all to do with the decline of Far Right nationalism and rise in feminazi liberalism and tyranny of the mediocre. The US has seen no such thing and this is a major factor.


Very curious to know how the evil feminazis have contributed to London's violence. If you have a coherent and entertaining theory on how this came about, please do enlighten us.
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Self defense is basically against the law there. In the UK, there little chance of social or immediate consequence for crime. The criminal is playing the odds against the state, and the state is simply overwhelmed at the volume of crime.

In America, if you break into my house, I'll shoot your ass. No, I'll shoot your face. In the UK, if I so much as threw a stone at you, I'll get charged.

Maybe this is what Justin meant, maybe not. But the UK has removed the ability of the average citizen to protect his family, life and property.

For example, home invasions account for less than 10% of robberies while in the UK they are more than 50%. I wonder why? If I hear some guy robbing my yard or car, he's going to get shot (at?). In the UK, I'd call the cops and they likely wouldn't even show up.
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