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Do you find overweight men sexy?
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Grab the Chickens Levi



Joined: 29 Apr 2008
Location: Ilsan

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:14 pm    Post subject: Do you find overweight men sexy? Reply with quote

Do they turn you on? Do they miss, do they?

Is there something comforting and authorative in their bulk...?

Hell we have the asian women / overweight chicks threads so why not....!
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rhinocharge64



Joined: 20 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Indeed sir, why not!! Come on ladies, give us your input, any stories would be thoroughly appreciated.
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Jeweltone



Joined: 29 Mar 2005
Location: Seoul, S. Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually, yes, they do turn me on Embarassed
Not rolls of fat, of course, but I do like a little cushioning... Very Happy

I am short and of average weight, btw.
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bogey666



Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rhinocharge64 wrote:
Indeed sir, why not!! Come on ladies, give us your input, any stories would be thoroughly appreciated.


what the " fat defense lobby" (usually 90% plus female) will NOT tell you is what ABC News recently learned doing a study on how BMI affects sexual activity (under the guise of looking for STD incidence, "risky" behavior, etc etc)

but what everyone really wanted to know is "do fatties *beep* too?"

the answer?

fat women get fucked as much as non fat women. Call it due to beer, call it due to male desperation, call it personal preference on part of some.. call it initiative on part of fat females.. WHATEEVER.

BUT.

fat men do NOT get laid. (nearly as much as non fat men)

so... while it's perfectly acceptable to critize people for holding up ahemm.... "unrealistic" standards for women... (e.g. size 16 bitching about size 0 proposed by Hollywood, while forgetting that size 6, 8 can be goood too!)

it's apparently NOT acceptable.. even to the same fat women.... if a man isn't a "Ken doll" Very Happy

at least, that's what the data indicates!

fat woman? you're "normal" and others are shallow.

fat man? you get to play with yourself Smile
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sistersarah



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I dated two chubby guys, one long term and one semi long term. I dated them because they were cute and because they were the nicest guys I'd ever met, plus talented and intelligent. So sure, chubby guys can be attractive.
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rhinocharge64



Joined: 20 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sistersarah would you prefer the medium build, or do you have no preference. Was performance effected?
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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 9:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Husky is good. In fact it is delicious.

My husband is getting fat and I told him it's good cause now he looks like a Canadian guy, with a big belly. J A man's not a man if he's all thin and trim. ewwwwwwwwwww
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sistersarah



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rhinocharge64 wrote:
Sistersarah would you prefer the medium build, or do you have no preference. Was performance effected?


I guess I don't really have a preference, as long as he's not super overweight or super skinny (that's almost worse). I'm more of a personality girl....and I'm not just saying that; I've dated quite a good mix of guys. My husband is average height medium build and that suits me just fine.
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 10:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Girls have cried that I can cut paper with my shoulder blades. I can say one thing though, it isn't comfortable to snuggle with sticks. I'm a stick.
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thatwhitegirl



Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Super skinny guys are much worse. painful, really.
I've never dated a really overweight man, but I have dated a few 'squishy' ones. They were great to cuddle with.
Being as I'm not an overweight man, I can't really say, but I think that fat men do get a lot of flak...much more than fat women. People are generally more 'respectful' of overweight women: I mean, they don't poke fun directly. But I have heard a lot of hurtful things said about bigger men, often to their face.
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BS.Dos.



Joined: 29 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel exactly the same about skinny girls.

Eat what you like ladies. You look sexier for it.
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SirFink



Joined: 05 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's a term for some guys "chubby chasers" i.e. guys who are into fat chicks.

There are no female chubby chasers. Well, unless the guy's a millionaire.
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thematrixiam



Joined: 31 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

that's not true I know many girls that like the big teddy bears. they are like a bowl fully of jelly.
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...

PostPosted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SirFink wrote:
There's a term for some guys "chubby chasers" i.e. guys who are into fat chicks.

There are no female chubby chasers. Well, unless the guy's a millionaire.


This is not true. I had a good friend who only wanted fat men. She found it really sensual. She was slim and attractive, with a very sexy personality and could have her pick. She always went for fatties.

I had an overweight guy once. I found him intelligent and funny, and finally I agreed to go out with him, and his weight never bothered me in the least. He was so lovely to cuddle with, and it didn't turn me off at all. When he knew I was returning to the country, he went on a diet and became quite slim, because he worried he wasn't attractive enough for me. When I met up with him, I was kind of disappointed! He didn't look like himself. But I soon got used to it and didn't notice it after a few days.

Like sistersarah, I'm more interested in a personality than a face or a body type. I've usually had slim handsome boyfriends, but that's because they are more confident about approaching you than men who worry they are physically unnattractive. Once you are really into a man's character and his mind, he looks wonderful to you anyway.
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Roving_gypsy_gurl



Joined: 29 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yep! My ideal body type for men is tall and heavy. Don't know why, but that's just sexy to me.
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