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nicam

Joined: 14 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:29 am Post subject: How are 30+ year-old teachers treated in Korea? |
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So, I recently had a phone interview where I was asked my age (29), and then told that I was actually 30 in Korean years. That's lame.
What should I expect as a 30 year-old female teacher in Korea? I've heard that people in their early to mid-twenties get preferential treatment. How mush of an issue is this? Will it help that I look much younger? Am I going to have to get used to being surrounded by 22 year-olds? |
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Pooty
Joined: 15 Jun 2008 Location: Ela stin agalia mou
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:36 am Post subject: |
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You'll be fine. I don't know what the median age is in Korea, but when I came to Korea, I was 31...no problems. |
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Eedoryeong
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Location: Jeju
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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You're going to have a blast. 30+ year olds in some cases are treated better. You may get the occasional 'you're how old? Oh my gosh we have to marry you off right away!' but for the most part you'll be welcomed. Enjoy. |
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icicle
Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Location: Gyeonggi do Korea
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 1:31 pm Post subject: |
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Don'r worry ... There are many many teachers here who are older than you and not experiencing any problems at all. If anything with the cultural respect for elders I think sometimes it is better to be older. 30 is not old. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 1:58 pm Post subject: |
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Relax. The preferential treatment is part of the hiring process. The order of preference goes:
a. females
b. blond females in their 20's
c. females with any color hair
Why is telling you that you are 30 in Korean age 'lame'? They count age differently here. It's part of the culture. |
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nicam

Joined: 14 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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Funny response, Ya-ta Boy. I see how it works now.
I was making a joke about gaining a year in age. I find it interesting and perfectly sensible that a culture would count the period of conception to birth as a year.
Now, I wonder if there are any salons in Korea that specialize in highlights? |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:13 pm Post subject: |
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be careful if you're planning to go blonde. The chemicals they use there are seriously harsh ( too much for my ashy blonde hair anyway) There's been a few threads on the subject, they shouldn't be too tough to find |
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nicam

Joined: 14 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, the highlight thing is good to know. I actually have them now, so I guess I won't be getting more, or maintaining them. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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29/30 is an excellent age to be in Korea. You can hang out with either the younger or middle-aged crowd and feel comfortable. More will actually depend on how old you look than how old you actually are. If you're single, Korean friends and co-workers may express concern that you've been unfortunate enough not to find a husband yet, but that's about the only age-related problem you're likely to face. You're old enough to teach uni but still young enough to teach at children's academies, in Koreans' eyes. Manipulative employers may prefer someone younger and easier to manipulate, but if they discriminate against you for this reason consider it a favour. |
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Stormy

Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Location: Here & there
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:24 pm Post subject: |
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Eedoryeong wrote: |
You're going to have a blast. 30+ year olds in some cases are treated better. You may get the occasional 'you're how old? Oh my gosh we have to marry you off right away!' but for the most part you'll be welcomed. Enjoy. |
So true. I'm 34 & everyone keeps telling me I'd better find a husband & have some babies before it's too late. Other than that age doesn't seem to be a factor in how I'm treated. |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:32 pm Post subject: |
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Stormy, I don't think that's an age thing, just a Korean thing. At the ripe old age of 24, I got informed that I should have the wedding planned, and the hall booked- finding the groom would be the easy part  |
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Stormy

Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Location: Here & there
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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peppermint wrote: |
Stormy, I don't think that's an age thing, just a Korean thing. At the ripe old age of 24, I got informed that I should have the wedding planned, and the hall booked- finding the groom would be the easy part  |
And did you follow their advice? |
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