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Would your wife let you go to SE Asia/ Thailand alone?
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R-Seoul



Joined: 23 Aug 2006
Location: your place

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Faunaki wrote:
^ Actually I don't think all men are cheaters. My original philosophy when getting married was that if you can't trust your partner then you shouldn't marry them at all. Plain and simple. But then I married a Kguy and he's always implying that I am going to cheat or something. Like it's the natural progression of married people. I've never cheated in my life and never given him a reason to think so.

So I am assuming it must be a Kthing to be paranoid, cause I think cheating happens more often here - both ways. So that's why I can't go to Shanghai.

And also I like giving the ESl riff raff a hard time. Laughing

I guess the question to men is would you let your wife go to Jamaica or any of the carribbean islands for two months alone.


Psychology for beginners; if a man is accusing you of cheating then he is projecting in other words he has been cheating on you and is feeling guilty so hopes he can trip you up by accusing you of infidelity as well.
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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

R-Seoul wrote:
[Psychology for beginners; if a man is accusing you of cheating then he is projecting in other words he has been cheating on you and is feeling guilty so hopes he can trip you up by accusing you of infidelity as well.


You remind me of this chick I recently met who has never dated a K, doesn't have any k friends, and basically sticks to her western life. It was the first time I met her for dinner and I told her my husband couldn't come cause he was working late - as most Ks do. The first words that popped out of her mouth were, he's cheating that's for sure.

What a moron.
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moosehead



Joined: 05 May 2007

PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

she was probably right - working late is the oldest excuse in the books - Shocked Shocked
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the boy next door



Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: next door

PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiger Beer wrote:
Vacations are fine without the spouse, but two months is a really long vacation without her/him.


Indeed. I practically begged her to come along with me but she down right refused. Her job just seems more important...strange coming from a Korean girl...guess the times are a-changing.

I'm still in deep passionate love with my wife and will miss her dearly but I need this vacation to keep sane. I've been working like mad and I love Korea but sometimes, just sometimes we all need an extended break from here, yes?

We'll miss each other but it'll probably be a good thing for our marriage I keep telling myself...we'll appreciate each other more, maybe. Sad
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Colorado



Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Location: Public School with too much time on my hands.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 4:38 pm    Post subject: Re: Would your wife let you go to SE Asia/ Thailand alone? Reply with quote

mike123_ca wrote:
the boy next door wrote:
I have two months off, but my wife has to work. Would your wife (Korean) let you hit the beach in SE Asia?


My wife is Thai Very Happy

And No,
She said there would be "no way" I could go to Thailand by myself. Crying or Very sad



Same Same.
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fortysixyou



Joined: 08 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

the boy next door wrote:
Tiger Beer wrote:
Vacations are fine without the spouse, but two months is a really long vacation without her/him.


Indeed. I practically begged her to come along with me but she down right refused. Her job just seems more important...strange coming from a Korean girl...guess the times are a-changing.

I'm still in deep passionate love with my wife and will miss her dearly but I need this vacation to keep sane. I've been working like mad and I love Korea but sometimes, just sometimes we all need an extended break from here, yes?

We'll miss each other but it'll probably be a good thing for our marriage I keep telling myself...we'll appreciate each other more, maybe. Sad



If you need the vacation fuckin' go, dude!

Just be sure (and reassure her) that the ocean is the only place you'll be getting your willy wet, because ladies can smell infidelity like a mofo.

I'm not married, but my longtime girlfriend is 'letting' me go to SE Asia for two months this October, during which time I will be sticking to my 'no sticking other chicks' rule, which she seems to appreciate.

When and where you going?
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the boy next door



Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: next door

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fortysixyou wrote:
the boy next door wrote:
Tiger Beer wrote:
Vacations are fine without the spouse, but two months is a really long vacation without her/him.


Indeed. I practically begged her to come along with me but she down right refused. Her job just seems more important...strange coming from a Korean girl...guess the times are a-changing.

I'm still in deep passionate love with my wife and will miss her dearly but I need this vacation to keep sane. I've been working like mad and I love Korea but sometimes, just sometimes we all need an extended break from here, yes?

We'll miss each other but it'll probably be a good thing for our marriage I keep telling myself...we'll appreciate each other more, maybe. Sad



If you need the vacation fuckin' go, dude!

Just be sure (and reassure her) that the ocean is the only place you'll be getting your willy wet, because ladies can smell infidelity like a mofo.

I'm not married, but my longtime girlfriend is 'letting' me go to SE Asia for two months this October, during which time I will be sticking to my 'no sticking other chicks' rule, which she seems to appreciate.

When and where you going?


Need the vacation? I'd die without it...and, YES! I'm going. It's been nearly 18 months since I've had an extended vacation and I'm going crazy!

I'm outta here in 2 weeks and will be Thailandin' for sures then some other SEA hang, not sure yet... Cool

Where you all heading soon?
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Colorado



Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Location: Public School with too much time on my hands.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 10:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have either of you two ever BEEN to Thailand?
Good luck with that monogamy thing. Laughing
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Mr Crowley



Joined: 23 Mar 2006
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife would have me castrated before I stepped on a plane to Thailand alone.
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the boy next door



Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: next door

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Colorado wrote:
Have either of you two ever BEEN to Thailand?
Good luck with that monogamy thing. Laughing


This will be my 11th trip Thailandin'... Cool
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm SINGLE and not allowed to go to Thailand.
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relaxed111



Joined: 26 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:37 pm    Post subject: I can go when I want to, any time!!! Reply with quote

Hum...single. Very Happy
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the boy next door



Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: next door

PostPosted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 8:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nicholas_chiasson wrote:
I'm SINGLE and not allowed to go to Thailand.


You're a girl and Dad won't let you? Wink
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losing_touch



Joined: 26 Jun 2008
Location: Ulsan - I think!

PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife is Thai, and she would certainly let me go to Thailand alone in this situation.
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DrOctagon



Joined: 11 Jun 2008
Location: Chicago

PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 10:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is why I will never get married.
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