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What amounts to the coolest expat you've seen?
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captain kirk



Joined: 29 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 4:58 pm    Post subject: What amounts to the coolest expat you've seen? Reply with quote

I can't recall any 'creepy expats' that I've met. I think, 'yeah, well, MAYBE that guy was kind of creepy' but then I have to make some assumptions to make that person 'hell yeah definitely creepy'.

I've been wronged by fellow expats in creepy, backstabbing, underhanded ways a few times, and that's sort of creepy/unpleasant BUT everybody's under stress here to a degree. The Korean working culture has imposing, mindfark managment and, above and beyond the wonderful students (most of the time), expat FTs have 'issues'. With that and the homogenous culture.

Mostly I think fellow expats, the longer they've been here, become 'real characters'. The issues mentioned above giving them a kind of rugged individualist tunnel vision to cope with their sense of being surrounded and 'different', a vision which directly supports themselves.

As a thread opposite and parallel to the 'What amounts to the creepiest expat you've seen?' here's the question; 'What amounts to the coolest expat you've seen?'.

For me it's just about every foreigner. Why? Koreans have their homogenous culture and, walking amongst them, like an oddball, like a freak, like a 'Stranger in a Strange Land', like an astronaut is the guy or girl totally not of this earth, not of this Korean earth. It's cool. I always wanted to meet an alien, be an alien, have strange powers (such as being able to speak English), etc.


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eamo



Joined: 08 Mar 2003
Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
The issues mentioned above giving them a kind of rugged individualist tunnel vision to cope with their sense of being surrounded and 'different', a vision which directly supports themselves.



Wow. Very insightful.

That's exactly why my location sig has been "standing by me" for the last couple of years.
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WoBW



Joined: 07 Dec 2007
Location: HBC

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The coolest expat I've met is the guy who used his credit card to pay for my flight home when my dad had cancer. I'd only known him for about 4 months at the time. (Yes, I paid him back when I could).

We're still good friends and working on a book project together.

Another cool guy who I had great times with has gone back to America, he's now a cop in Montana. I miss him, he was a laugh.
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Lekker



Joined: 09 Feb 2008
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

WoBW wrote:
The coolest expat I've met is the guy who used his credit card to pay for my flight home when my dad had cancer. I'd only known him for about 4 months at the time. (Yes, I paid him back when I could).



That's amazing. You don't find people like that a lot in the world these days. It's unfortunate. Bless your father. Sorry to hear about that.
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Pligganease



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: The deep south...

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Arlo.
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say my riding buddy shannon. 57 years old. Works at a university. Rides his bike all over the province. Plyas b-ball with the uni boys, and can post with any of them. Plays several instruments (banjo, dobro, and somethign else) with the Pickerson Grinners (bluegrass). The cut their first CD this psring and they play in Pohang now and then as well as other places in Korea.
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MollyBloom



Joined: 21 Jul 2006
Location: James Joyce's pants

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pretty cool!
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Pooty



Joined: 15 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 8:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

MollyBloom wrote:
I'm pretty cool!


Hmmmm, anyone that makes wild assumptions based on physical appearance is definitely not cool imo.
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A2Steve



Joined: 10 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

the one who laughed at my stories of the psycho roomate and then said I reminded him of his anthropology professor.

I hope the Indiana Jones fedora was only partially for that response.
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MollyBloom



Joined: 21 Jul 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pooty wrote:
MollyBloom wrote:
I'm pretty cool!


Hmmmm, anyone that makes wild assumptions based on physical appearance is definitely not cool imo.


da.da.da.da. Rainbow in the dark!
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shaggy



Joined: 11 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 8:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pooty wrote:
MollyBloom wrote:
I'm pretty cool!


Hmmmm, anyone that makes wild assumptions based on physical appearance is definitely not cool imo.


I think you're cool Miss Bloom- Cool
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MollyBloom



Joined: 21 Jul 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shaggy wrote:
Pooty wrote:
MollyBloom wrote:
I'm pretty cool!


Hmmmm, anyone that makes wild assumptions based on physical appearance is definitely not cool imo.


I think you're cool Miss Bloom- Cool


Thanks! I think you are cool too for your comments! Very smart.
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i4NI



Joined: 17 May 2008
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go to the coex mall, it's full of creepy looking expats.
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Scotticus



Joined: 18 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 11:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i4NI wrote:
Go to the coex mall, it's full of creepy looking expats.


Truth.
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OK, the other thread is creepy expats and this is the coolest expat thread.

I thought the American trout fishing guide guy in Changwon is really a cool one, but I only hung out with him once for a beer though he's a great writer who knows more about Korea than any other expat I know of. Really good guy if you get a chance to meet him.
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