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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 6:48 pm Post subject: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WE ARE ALL SUPERSTARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| Well, that's the impression I get from nearly every expat I talk to these days. No one ever seems to have left a dead end job. No one has ever been paid less than $50,000 a year right out of college. No one ever worked at a hogwan in Korea. No one ever dated a less than perfect gal back home or had a string of galpal phone numers to call at their leisure. It's gotten to the point where I just can't believe anything I hear anymore because it's so BS laden. Does anyone here have a less than Hollywood story about why they came to SK? I feel like I'm in Wonderland. |
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zpeanut

Joined: 12 Mar 2008 Location: Pohang, Korea
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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If you read more on the board.. you'll see plenty of non-hollywood stories.
Ppl don't come to Korea to become pimps. Besides.. half of us are women. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 6:51 pm Post subject: |
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| zpeanut wrote: |
If you read more on the board.. you'll see plenty of non-hollywood stories.
Ppl don't come to Korea to become pimps. Besides.. half of us are women. |
I know there are lot of women but trust me the chest beating comes from the guys although I will add that I've heard some career smuck from the ladies from time to time. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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I'm a PhD dropout and student loans defaulter who was getting seriously depressed and agoraphobic shortly before I came here. My girlfriend had left me for a job in France and I had maybe two dates in the year before I came here. I was making around $13,000 / year on a TA fellowship. Spending $10 on Thai take-away was a luxury. My future as a likely part-time uni instructor didn't look much more lucrative. I lived in a one-room apartment that had a five-year collection of used furniture.
I only wish that I had come to Korea sooner. I just got back from two weeks away and was warmly greeted by all my co-workers who were all really happy to see me again. It was my fourth holiday outside the country in the past year. Today I'll order something for lunch without even considering the cost. It's not exactly living the high life but I'll be the first to admit that I was no superstar who came to Korea for the sake of expanding my knowledge and altruism. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
I'm a PhD dropout and student loans defaulter who was getting seriously depressed and agoraphobic shortly before I came here. My girlfriend had left me for a job in France and I had maybe two dates in the year before I came here. I was making around $13,000 / year on a TA fellowship. Spending $10 on Thai take-away was a luxury. My future as a likely part-time uni instructor didn't look much more lucrative. I lived in a one-room apartment that had a five-year collection of used furniture.
I only wish that I had come to Korea sooner. I just got back from two weeks away and was warmly greeted by all my co-workers who were all really happy to see me again. It was my fourth holiday outside the country in the past year. Today I'll order something for lunch without even considering the cost. It's not exactly living the high life but I'll be the first to admit that I was no superstar who came to Korea for the sake of expanding my knowledge and altruism. |
Thanks for being honest YBS. |
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Pooty
Joined: 15 Jun 2008 Location: Ela stin agalia mou
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Sorry, I'm not going to make up a sob story just to make you feel better. The first time I came to Korea, I was straight out of uni and I made a teachers salary. Even back in 1996, 2.7 plus housing was good. I worked for Halla Heavy Industries teaching business English. My E2 visa was sponsored by the company. I left 2.5 years later after IMF was in full swing. I went to work for several companies and later got on with IBM in their IT dept. I married my wife and after living in the states for 8 years, my father in law passed on. We came back for several reasons that I won't disclose here because it would probably be construed as bragging. I now work for a large Korean company and make 5 million a month. I didn't start out like that when I got here a year and a half ago. It took interviewing and job hunting and some patience. Same for my wife. She had 3 jobs before she finally got a job in her industry. My wife makes almost 3 million a month now. I have an F2 visa. I don't care about other people and why they're in Korea, I don't even ask people when I meet them why they chose to come to Korea, and I don't care if they were dirt poor before coming here, it's none of my business. |
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billybrobby

Joined: 09 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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Ah, pooty, you're taking the fun out of this, nobody gives a sh*t if you're life was OK. I want to hear tales of woe and misery!
I worked at a Home Depot before I came here. Granted, I was still in college. 6 years of college. And 2 years of dating the same girl. That was the sad part. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Sorry, I'm not going to make up a sob story just to make you feel better. The first time I came to Korea, I was straight out of uni and I made a teachers salary. Even back in 1996, 2.7 plus housing was good. I worked for Halla Heavy Industries teaching business English. My E2 visa was sponsored by the company. I left 2.5 years later after IMF was in full swing. I went to work for several companies and later got on with IBM in their IT dept. I married my wife and after living in the states for 8 years, my father in law passed on. We came back for several reasons that I won't disclose here because it would probably be construed as bragging. I now work for a large Korean company and make 5 million a month. My wife makes almost 3 million a month working at her company. I have an F2 visa. I don't care about other people and why they're in Korea, I don't even ask people when I meet them why they chose to come to Korea, and I don't care if they were dirt poor before coming here, it's none of my business. |
I'm not asking you to make up anything. And whatever you wrote fact or fallacy, would have zero affect on my composure Your story doesn't seem that hard to beleive and my story is not all that bad. Now go on back and talk to Nolegirl? |
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RyanInKorea
Joined: 17 Jan 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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I'm a PhD dropout and student loans defaulter who was getting seriously depressed and agoraphobic shortly before I came here. My girlfriend had left me for a job in France and I had maybe two dates in the year before I came here. I was making around $13,000 / year on a TA fellowship. Spending $10 on Thai take-away was a luxury. My future as a likely part-time uni instructor didn't look much more lucrative. I lived in a one-room apartment that had a five-year collection of used furniture.
I only wish that I had come to Korea sooner. I just got back from two weeks away and was warmly greeted by all my co-workers who were all really happy to see me again. It was my fourth holiday outside the country in the past year. Today I'll order something for lunch without even considering the cost. It's not exactly living the high life but I'll be the first to admit that I was no superstar who came to Korea for the sake of expanding my knowledge and altruism. |
Change the names of sheite low level jobs and add the fact that I was on unemployment for near eight months for the second time since University. Otherwise, pretty good summary. I also wish I started teaching ESL a long, long time ago. It was always in my mind, way back when I was still in Uni, but it took me being utterly despressed and jobless to finally teach ESL overseas.
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maddog
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:40 pm Post subject: |
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Before I went to uni, I was getting paid about $50,000 a year. But that was living in Cardiff. A crappy apartment was costing about $800 a month and a car was a necessity. Add in the cost of insurance, road tax, fuel, council tax, tax for the sake of being taxed, etc, etc, and that 50K gets whittled down pretty quickly. On a super-tight month, I could save about $1000. But that meant staying in all month, and living off tesco value beans on toast. It's safe to say that I'm FAR better off with my my crappy 2.4M a month in Daegu than I was in Cardiff. On a crazy month, I save a million.
I'm sure there are some people who had good gigs back home, but decided to drop out of the rat race. But I'm sure there's a lot of BS on this board. |
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nolegirl
Joined: 17 Apr 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:46 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm not asking you to make up anything. And whatever you wrote fact or fallacy, would have zero affect on my composure Your story doesn't seem that hard to beleive and my story is not all that bad. Now go on back and talk to Nolegirl? |
hey, pooty's cool, i'll pm you later pooty so we can diss xingyman!!!
I came to Korea:
I was bored with my life
25K in student loans
6K on the AMEX
Pending legal issues
My desk job was actually pretty good out of school with good pay but I was already gaining 10 pounds sitting on my a$$ all day.
Well if you must know the truth I actually came to Korea to find a Korean man that I can cook and clean for; preferably one that will carry my purse and where silk shirts 24/7 |
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Faunaki
Joined: 15 Jun 2007
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:46 pm Post subject: |
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I was poor before I came here but that's because I messed up and began teaching ESL in 2002 and haven't stopped yet.
This is how poor I was (due to my shit job in Canada which was paying 26.25 an hour but couldn't cover rent, car insurance, gas, loans, etc.,):
On the 30th floor of a shitty download apt. near a park nicknamed sex park (all the homeless did it there), 4 of us rented a two bedroom. One girl in one room, one girl in the other and me and boyfriend changed living room into a room. We all shared the kitchen and bathroom. Rent for the hellhole was 1200 a month.
It sucked ass. That was a year ago in Canada. Now, in Korea, we have a house. |
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Zutronius

Joined: 16 Apr 2007 Location: Suncheon
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:03 pm Post subject: |
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| I was out of work in small town Ontario and wanted a change of scenery. I had $25,000 in student loans to pay off (down to $15,000 now). No credit card debt (never spend more than I can afford to pay off). I live pretty well here and send home a thousand a month to pay down debts and build up a small savings. The teaching has its good and bad days, but its generally good. |
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Pooty
Joined: 15 Jun 2008 Location: Ela stin agalia mou
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:19 pm Post subject: |
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I fly business class, nana-na na!  |
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bejarano-korea

Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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You haven't read 'whose wandering the wide world at 30 thread' or my post about my stint as a night security guard. I was a bum - then I got myself an education and now I'm here - I'm not ashamed to admit it! |
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