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TheMrCul

Joined: 09 May 2003 Location: Korea, finally...
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 2:39 am Post subject: feeling up |
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<<I was in the swimming pool shower room and a Korean ajuma came up to me and felt me up. Did NOT appreciate that but had no idea what to do. That was definately the strangest thing that a Korean person has done to me.
I do think that the old lady with the dead rabbit was stranger and more disgusting than my incident. why would anyone do that????>>
Same thing happened to my sister in Japan (except they were a little more "discrete")
They're curious. You probably have different curves so they're interested. I'm not justifying it, however. I think the ones who do that are quite basic. But that's Korea I guess. |
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Derrek
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 3:00 am Post subject: |
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When I was riding on the subway in Seoul, and the old "subway person" sitting next to me was fascinated with my leg hair. He kept trying to touch it, and I almost got up and left, but was just too darn tired (I had waited too long for the seat).
I ignored him, only to feel a weird scraping on my leg about 2 minutes later. He had pulled out a disposable razor, and was trying to shave my leg hair!!!
The Koreans across the way had a look of shock which nearly rivaled mine. |
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Joe Thanks

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Location: Dudleyville
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 3:15 am Post subject: Re: feeling up |
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| TheMrCul wrote: |
<<I was in the swimming pool shower room and a Korean ajuma came up to me and felt me up. Did NOT appreciate that but had no idea what to do. That was definately the strangest thing that a Korean person has done to me.
I do think that the old lady with the dead rabbit was stranger and more disgusting than my incident. why would anyone do that????>>
Same thing happened to my sister in Japan (except they were a little more "discrete")
They're curious. You probably have different curves so they're interested. I'm not justifying it, however. I think the ones who do that are quite basic. But that's Korea I guess. |
There are an infinite ammount of curvaceous women in Japan (unlike Korea), so that's a bit odd.
Still, what would that woman think if someone slid their hand between her legs? A violation is a violatin and in Korea people don't usually do this crap to each other.
Again - it's a mental illness - that could be brought on by curiosity (but hey, I'm curious how it feels to do a moonsault but I can't physically accomplish it without dying, so I dont' do it -, though I am curious, so you don't have to be Norman Bates to satisfy a curiosity when you can research by just thinking about it logically, usually) - but it's an illness. It's f'd up no matter WHAT modern culture you're from.
Too much "oh cultural difference" crap belies the reality that such behavior is the result of mentally f'd up folks.
It's time people started slapping hands away, slapping faces, choke-clamming and letting it be known that you don't f around with another person who hasn't given you that RIGHT.
Emancipate yourself from this disturbing crap. The cops won't protect you from the harassment. Sometimes being civil only reinforces their behavior. Theirminds are damaged and made worse by their sham xenophobic government. You cease to be a "guest" when your rights based on local rule are violated. You become a VICTIM.
"There's no justice - there's JUST me."
Joe
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 3:46 am Post subject: |
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Well. . I was walking down one of the main streets in a smaller city, and it's a bright sunny day, everyone is out shopping, all good, right?
All of a sudden an ajuma grabbs my arm and pulls me over to the front of this department store. I, in my innocence, think " okay- they're gonna give me some coupons, get me to sample something, no problem."
Not Quite- they wanted to WAX my arms! ( I'm a blonde- my arm hair is barely visible)
Another time, I had to get a full medical checkup, and after the chest x-ray, they insisted on measuring my ribcage and boobs. Afterwards they looked like this:  |
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Corporal

Joined: 25 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 4:00 am Post subject: |
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| after the chest x-ray, they insisted on measuring my ribcage and boobs. |
What do you mean they "insisted"? That's unacceptable and ridiculous. You should have told them in no uncertain terms to go *beep* a sheep, or, failing that, to rent some Western porn if they were so damn desperate to see breas.t.s bigger than Korean women's.  |
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Beeg
Joined: 05 Oct 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 4:29 am Post subject: Whats the weirdest thing... |
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I am actually getting quite annoyed by the number of threads concering how weird Koreans are.
So a guy pushed you or an old lady took a dead rabbit out her pocket. These things don;t just happen in Korea. Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
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Joe Thanks

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Location: Dudleyville
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 4:54 am Post subject: Re: Whats the weirdest thing... |
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Joe returns to layeth the smacketh down:
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| Beeg"I am actually getting quite annoyed by the number of threads concering how weird Koreans are. |
If you dont' like them don't read them. You'll feel better. Secretly you like them but deny it on the surface. Why else would you pay so much attention to them?
I'm sick of people who post that htey are sick of certain threads. Do one better and make threds you think matter.
I mean, talk-action=zero.
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| So a guy pushed you or an old lady took a dead rabbit out her pocket. These things don;t just happen in Korea. Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
The governmetns of France, england and the U. S. do not promote Eugenics and pride themselves on it, nor do their tutiary education systems virtual ignore the outside world.
The sychotic behavior in those countries comes from many things, but the psychotic behavior discussed o nthis thread comes from one thing: f'n around with foreingers in completely unacceptable ways dictated by their own culture - and in ways they don't f around with their own people.
So, in two words: you're lost. Stop excusing the behavior, especially when it is endemic of bigger social problems that stem from institutionalized xenophobia.
Class dismissed,
Joe |
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Derrek
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 4:58 am Post subject: Re: Whats the weirdest thing... |
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| Beeg wrote: |
I am actually getting quite annoyed by the number of threads concering how weird Koreans are.
So a guy pushed you or an old lady took a dead rabbit out her pocket. These things don;t just happen in Korea. Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
Well, it's an undeniable fact, as far as the rest of the world is concerned. Start asking foreigners here -- no matter what nationality -- and many of them would agree that Koreans are odd by comparison. |
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lush72
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: I am Penalty Kick!
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 5:16 am Post subject: Re: Whats the weirdest thing... |
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| Beeg wrote: |
| Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
Yes, Yes, and yes, I lived in NYC for years all the way out in FAR ROCKAWAY! Your a kyopo right? |
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shawner88

Joined: 01 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 5:25 am Post subject: |
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| In Ulsan: A drunk room salon agashi had her taxi stop at a convenient store where I happened to buying Shin Ramyon at 4AM after a night of Diablo 2 at the PC bang. She saw me and acted really surprised. I walked out, tired and oblivious, my head swarming with images of a Barbarian hacking and slashing. Well, she bought cake and kimchi of all things and chased me down to give them to me. She couldn't speak a word of English and at that time I knew very little Korean. She paid the taxi and went back to the motel where I was staying. She wanted to eat the cake and kimchi and drink beer. To cut to the chase, she didn't want to sleep in the motel, I think she was telling me it that would be like her job. So we went back to her little pad across town, she talked to me in Korean for about an hour, then we went to "sleep" and I left in the morning. That was really a weird but highly memorable experience. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 5:52 am Post subject: Re: Whats the weirdest thing... |
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| Beeg wrote: |
| Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
Sure I spent a couple years living in NY and riding the subways regularly.
However this is a forum about Korea by a wide assortment of different people from generally English-speaking countries living in Korea.
If I start a list of NY subway experiences.. what kind of interest would it generate and what kind of input would people provide?
Incidently my strangiest subway experiences have happened in Istanbul and Jakarta.. and definetely New York as well. Comparitively the Korean ones are very tame.. comparitively. However, those will have to be saved for some future 'worldwide subway incidents' thread. This thread is about weird things you've had Koreans done to you. |
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mithridates

Joined: 03 Mar 2003 Location: President's office, Korean Space Agency
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 6:23 am Post subject: |
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Hmm...I get quite a few weird things happening to me, but they're usually not physical like the ones I've seen so far here.
Last week I was studying at a Starbucks when a lady spotted me reading a book. It's the Analects of Confucius in the original Chinese plus Korean explanation so it's no easy read. She asked me, "You study Korean?" to which I replied, "�׳� �ѱ��� ���� �� �ƴϰ� �����." (Not Korean, it's Confucius.)
"What?"
"�����, ���ڰ� ���� ������ å�ε���..." (You know, the Analects, with Confucius in it..." and proceeded to hand her the book. She took a look at it, asked "It's difficult, isn't it?" to which I replied, "�ƴ�, �����ƿ�..."(No, it's okay.) The conversation was going nowhere so I went back to the book.
Then, an hour later she came around to my table again with a copy of ������� (A buy and sell free newspaper) that she had been reading and dropped it on my table, saying, "If you want." I shrugged, a bit confused, and didn't look at it, because well, it's an old buy and sell newspaper!
After I left though I wondered if she was actually a spy and had written something secret inside the otherwise non-descript newspaper. I'll never know.
Another day I was riding on the subway and an old lady was handing out advertisements for her church. She was about to hand me one when she saw my non-Korean face and proceeded to give me a different one. It was...Russian. I don't know Russian yet. It was cute though, quite a simple train of thought. Give foreign language script to foreigners, they will understand...�ܱ������״� �翬�� �ܱ���� �� ������!
I never get anything really weird I suppose, just a lot of small incidents. |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2003 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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What do you mean they "insisted"? That's unacceptable and ridiculous. You should have told them in no uncertain terms to go *beep* a sheep, or, failing that, to rent some Western porn if they were so damn desperate to see breas.t.s bigger than Korean women's.  |
It was a female x-ray technician, and I'm well capable of handling any unwanted attention. . but this seemed innocent enough- just odd. |
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khyber
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Compunction Junction
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2003 3:09 am Post subject: |
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frankly, i laughed my ASS off at the rabbit story. Man, that was funyn stuff....and i'd probably do the same thing too (if i could chose the right person).
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| a guy pushed you or an old lady took a dead rabbit out her pocket. These things don;t just happen in Korea. Have you ever rode the London, Paris or New York subways?? Now these are places that you find real weirdos. |
but please don't try to discredit this threads existence or a woman getting felt up by a stranger in a change room, or health workers wanting to get some. Come on man. You make it sound as though these weirdos are nothing compared to ones in other worlds.
I used to have this blind love of korea...things changed, then i noticed it more honestly. It was good and i'm glad that that happenned
and nothing personal joe but that was an easy one and the dude seemed to be more of a flare.
I personally haven't had too many strange stories; though i suddenly have a middle school boy (quite into girls and has a girlfriend) who keeps touching my head and giving me massages. It's weird but not yet a kind of uncomfortable "this shouldn't be happening, it's crossing boundaries of decency". |
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Joe Thanks

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Location: Dudleyville
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2003 3:27 am Post subject: |
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| mithridates wrote: |
Another day I was riding on the subway and an old lady was handing out advertisements for her church. She was about to hand me one when she saw my non-Korean face and proceeded to give me a different one. It was...Russian. I don't know Russian yet. It was cute though, quite a simple train of thought. Give foreign language script to foreigners, they will understand...�ܱ������״� �翬�� �ܱ���� �� ������!
I never get anything really weird I suppose, just a lot of small incidents. |
In Seoul I would be in Maebong station and some dued came up to and started talking to me in Korean. He asked me if my mother or father were Korean. I guess he thought I was a halfie. No soju smell - so I couldn't figure it out.
Also, while living in Seoul - I'd have Koreans come up to me and speak Russian to me.
When I visited Pusan, on two separate occasions, Russian women came up and just started talking to me in Russian. One of them was asking me something but I didn't know - I thought she was trying to talk to me. She kept repeating something and then, in English asked me , "you're not Russian?" We had a good laugh. The other figured out I wasn't Russian when I told her so, and just walked away.
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