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Whistleblower
Joined: 03 Feb 2007
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 Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:02 am Post subject: Who's Slept with their Co-Worker |
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I read an interesting thread about some teacher getting hammered and started to get on their soap box with some alcoholic lubrication but I am interested to know if anyone ended up having a one-night stand with their co-worker, boss, etc.
What happened? Were you fired? How did the school treat you after the event? Did you end up going out or were you lucky enough to get married? I am sure there are some interesting stories here. |
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spliff
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:32 am Post subject: |
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Nosy, aren't we? Not sure how many if any would be willing to spout off about their amorous work affairs on a public internet message board. That being said...paging Nolegirl.  |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:37 am Post subject: Re: Who's Slept with their Co-Worker |
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| Whistleblower wrote: |
| if anyone ended up having a one-night stand with their co-worker, boss, etc. |
Yep. 2 co-workers at the same school (their employment periods didn't overlap). One was the school secretary/receptionist, the other was one of the Chinese teachers.
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What happened? A good time was had by all.
Were you fired? Nope.
How did the school treat you after the event? They didn't know about it.
Did you end up going out or were you lucky enough to get married? "Dated" both for a while, but no marriage. |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:38 am Post subject: |
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| spliff wrote: |
| Not sure how many if any would be willing to spout off about their amorous work affairs on a public internet message board. |
What do I care. The school is out-of-business, I'm not naming names, and it happened a decade ago. |
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Imrahil
Joined: 04 Feb 2008
Location: On the other side of the world.
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:59 am Post subject: |
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| I did once, thankfully she was a crap teacher so she was fired about a month later. While she was still at the school it was a little awkward. thankfully I was friends with the only coworker that new I slept with her, so it never became an issue. |
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Ruraljuror
Joined: 08 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:05 am Post subject: |
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I was going to post a long message here about how that is pretty much the worst thing you can ever do. I was going to mention how this country is a buyer's market, with so many, many exciting women out there who would love to spend time with a young foreign man.
I WAS going to do this, but then I realized that EVERYONE knows it's a bad idea, but it happens anyway...so it really doesn't do any good to advise against it. Two amorous young adults mixed with alcohol are going to make BAD decisions...there is no way to rationally consider the downside when one is "in the moment" and the time to made a decision is nigh.
But it does need to be said, and I want to emphasize, for the record, just what a very very very very very very very very very bad idea this is. I can not and will not condone it. Please don't do it. There are so many other options that don't involve shitting where you eat. |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:14 am Post subject: |
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| Ruraljuror wrote: |
| I can not and will not condone it. |
Who's asking you to? |
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Ruraljuror
Joined: 08 Dec 2007
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:32 am Post subject: |
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| Who's asking you to? |
Absolutely no one. But, and I can only speak for myself here, the VAST majority of things that I do on a daily basis were never asked for. For instance, I eat breakfast every day...but no one ASKS me to do it. I just do it. No one ASKED me to turn on the computer, come this website or click on this thread. And yet I did all of these things.
And yet your question seems to suggest that in doing things that I have not been asked to do, I am acting improperly. I humbly disagree. To restrict my actions to only things I have been directly asked to do would pretty much utterly incapacitate me! I much prefer to go through life, impudently doing things WITHOUT prior invitation. What fun it is indeed! |
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Ed Provencher
Joined: 15 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:40 am Post subject: |
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| I generally agree that dipping one's pen in company ink is a bad idea. |
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EzeWong
Joined: 26 Mar 2008
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:50 am Post subject: |
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I know of a guy who did it.
And I've spoken to many people about the issue.
It really depends. The based on your disposition with the principal/school the action taken will usually not result in you being fired. However, you might prefer it.
One guy, was basically looked down upon by his other co-workers. It was a living nightmare according to him. The gal he rumped basically told everyone else. Classes were extremely akward to say the least. His boss liked him enough not to fire him, but of course, he knew.
Personally, I think it would be ok to date a co-worker, and then romance it to then next level with marrige as the intention. But a night of drunken soju and cass will lead to iffy relationships in the office place. |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 4:13 am Post subject: |
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| Who's asking you to? |
Absolutely no one. But, and I can only speak for myself here, the VAST majority of things that I do on a daily basis were never asked for. For instance, I eat breakfast every day...but no one ASKS me to do it. I just do it. No one ASKED me to turn on the computer, come this website or click on this thread. And yet I did all of these things.
And yet your question seems to suggest that in doing things that I have not been asked to do, I am acting improperly. I humbly disagree. To restrict my actions to only things I have been directly asked to do would pretty much utterly incapacitate me! I much prefer to go through life, impudently doing things WITHOUT prior invitation. What fun it is indeed! |
Yeah, that's what I was asking. Tool. |
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I-am-me
Joined: 21 Feb 2006
Location: Hermit Kingdom
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 4:38 am Post subject: |
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Frankenstein wrote
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| Yep. 2 co-workers at the same school (their employment periods didn't overlap). One was the school secretary/receptionist, the other was one of the Chinese teachers |
I have a pretty good imagination. Did either of them dress up as school girls with pigtails? DId it happen in the classroom? Did you tell them how bad school girls they were...lol.  Maybe I am just a sick bastard  |
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wylies99
Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 4:46 am Post subject: |
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| spliff wrote: |
| Nosy, aren't we? Not sure how many if any would be willing to spout off about their amorous work affairs on a public internet message board. That being said...paging Nolegirl. |
Be nice, spliff. Nolegirl writes some funny stuff. |
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Paji eh Wong
Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 5:27 am Post subject: |
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| An easier question is, who hasn't? |
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spirit2110
Joined: 06 Sep 2007
Location: I am with Dan Druff. Nice guy, you should meet him.
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| Posted: Tue Sep 16, 2008 6:14 am Post subject: |
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| Paji eh Wong wrote: |
| An easier question is, who hasn't? |
I haven't. Ugly adjumma-like chicks, balding short dudes, and liver spots don't really do it for me. |
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