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afsjesse



Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.

PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 9:34 pm    Post subject: Roomies with my VP?! Reply with quote

So I have an interesting situation..... my VP comes up to me and say's he wants me to rent one of my rooms to him until February.... he's paying me and said he'll share the management utilites. What ya'll think of this? I think this would be an interesting thing.
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Zutronius



Joined: 16 Apr 2007
Location: Suncheon

PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Talk about bringing your work home with you. Laughing If your VP is an alright person, then I don't see the harm in doing this. Why does the VP want to rent a room?
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afsjesse



Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.

PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 9:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He's an awesome fellow and we get along great. The rent he's willing to pay is a bit low, but I'll take any other money I can get in a rural area with no privates.... 100,000 Korean won... practically free living I know.
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Underwaterbob



Joined: 08 Jan 2005
Location: In Cognito

PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 10:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're in a rural area he's probably from elsewhere and thus needs a place to stay.
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He probably wants a place to party. His room will have a disco ball and ktv set up in it. Many ladies will be seen coming and going as well as all his buddies. Should be great fun if you like to drink and want to party.
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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 4:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unless the foreigner, you OP, live like a monk or in chastity, nothing good can come from this.

Wait, you have your own rooms for rent? Are you rich?

Honestly, you don't want anyone in your school knowing your personal habits at home. What happens when everyone knows you don't flush regularly? Or that you don't eat kimchi with dinner each night? What happens when you bring home a Korean girl? What happens when you VP leaves his dirty dishes out for you to clean?

Shit, meet fan, fan meet shit.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 6:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He should suck it up and get his own fkn place instead of putting you in this position.
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Kimchieyescream



Joined: 13 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do not do this. It is going to be "big brother" all the time. You need your time away from work. It will only end up being a pain. PM me.
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

afsjesse wrote:
He's an awesome fellow and we get along great. The rent he's willing to pay is a bit low, but I'll take any other money I can get in a rural area with no privates.... 100,000 Korean won... practically free living I know.


1. How close are you in age?

2. You guys ever go drinking together? How does that go?

3. Well well does your VP speak English?

4. What is your lifestyle (homebody, or do you like to go out and party, or bring women home?)

All things to consider.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
So I have an interesting situation..... my VP comes up to me and say's he wants me to rent one of my rooms to him until February.... he's paying me and said he'll share the management utilites. What ya'll think of this? I think this would be an interesting thing.


Don't do it! Don't do it! Don't do it!

Trust me, nothing good can come of this.

I'll say it again: DO NOT DO IT.
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ernie



Joined: 05 Aug 2006
Location: asdfghjk

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

this is a disaster waiting to happen. and you're only getting 100 bucks out of the deal? don't be an idiot.
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cazzy3



Joined: 07 May 2008
Location: kangwon-do

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

while i would never consider the idea, let's give the OP the benefit of the doubt. maybe he enjoys having a roommate/person around....maybe he and his VP get along great and the guy is a really nice person.

my only advice would be to have an escape clause in your agreement if you choose to do it. if after a month it's not working out, there needs to be some easy/non-confrontational way to say "sorry it didn't work out" or else there may be some problems in the future.
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afsjesse



Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The guy is nice, but to be honest.... I really don't know him and we have never hung out. I only said OK out of hast and because I didn't want to create any bad feelings. I really don't want him moving in but now that I said ok I'm pretty much obliged to let him. I could tell him I changed my mind because of _______ reason.... but no matter what way I spin it, it's going to harvest bad experiences in the future. Any ideas?
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just do it. Make the rules clear:

At school, your the boss. In my home, I'm the boss.
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OnTheOtherSide



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He thinks you're "handsome" and wants a Brokeback Mountain experience.
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