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People who vow never to return to Korea...but do. How many?
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 3:11 am    Post subject: People who vow never to return to Korea...but do. How many? Reply with quote

I would say the number of people who leave Korea saying never again and then returning is about 90%.

Any thoughts comments? There seem to be an awful lot of bitter people venting their dislike of Korea and Koreans out there. Yet if anyone asks them why they are still here they say "It's just not that easy to leave" but still they keep coming back year after year.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 3:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

True: i've seen it time and again. But why? for all its daily irritations and annoyances, I still think its the easiest country in the world to get set up with little cash to start with, and save the most.
Plus, theres the "Devil you know" factor. Other countries aare also problematical, just for a different variety of reasons. If you keep in with Korea, you'll be totally figuring the place out, climbing the ladder, and improving your position every time here.
Starting up in a new country may be exciting, but workwise, you could be back to square one again.
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Eazy_E



Joined: 30 Oct 2003
Location: British Columbia, Canada

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 4:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

People just get sucked in to the lifestyle. I've seen it happen, even those who teach in countries like China. It's a relatively easy job once you get the hang of it, and how else can you get almost all the expendable cash you want and still save some? Also, the holidays suck in the first year so there's reason to stick around for a second year to get payback for your dues.

Of course, I vow never to come back to Korea after my contract is up.... hmmm...
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 5:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, tons come back. My first year was in Busan in 96-97. That year everyone of my close group very clearly said we would never come back here. There were probably a solid group of about 10-12 of us. All of us were counting the days down and everywhere had to be better than this place. Slowly we all left never to come back. Here is it though, dawning on 2004.. and about 6-7 are here right now..

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Cthulhu



Joined: 02 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 6:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Only if my wife gets a job working in a Korean-based foreign company...

...or I burn out teaching here at home.
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jlb



Joined: 18 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2003 7:52 am    Post subject: not quite done Reply with quote

I left in October vowing I would never be back and now I'm getting on the plane tommorrow to teach at a winter camp! Don't know if I'll ever do another year-long contract but the idea of it does have a bit of an attraction still. I think I'd probably check out Japan before coming back to Korea for a year.
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captain kirk



Joined: 29 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Dec 31, 2003 4:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A poster a few days ago said that those who vent and snarl about Korea really love Korea. And that they haven't, however, managed to satisfy some basic human needs. Lots of other things being great, they return. Back for more of the hair of the dog that bit them, Korea being a fascinating, fast-moving place. Maybe they'll change, or Korea will change; everything moves rapidly here, compared to the West it seems. Change is good.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Dec 31, 2003 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

After returning home, it doesn't take long to start to remember all the reasons why you left in the first place.
There are a lot more interesting places to go than Korea, but then again, I know something about the place now, I know what to look out for, I know I can save about half (if not more) of the money I earn. (not many other places can say that) Not to mention how easy it is to get a job here. Laughing
With the money I save, I can then afford to go somewhere I want to be.

Sure, I vowed never to return, and then did. Then I vowed never to make vows again. Shocked
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2004 6:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Could be the familiarity? People stay in situations they abhor sometimes 'cause they know what to expect?
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2004 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jajdude wrote:
Could be the familiarity? People stay in situations they abhor sometimes 'cause they know what to expect?

I'd say its for the money. Then the women second. And having friends you've met on other Korea excursions help too.

Particularly if the money wasn't here, I'd have no desire to keep coming back.. but #2 and #3 are fringe benefits to #1.
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2004 2:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nope. Have always known I'd be back in Korea again and again and again...
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katydid



Joined: 02 Feb 2003
Location: Here kitty kitty kitty...

PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2004 5:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I keep saying next year will be my last year here. Next March will be the second next year I go through. It's all about financial planning. I have to start saving some money so I can go "home."
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Joe Thanks



Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Location: Dudleyville

PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2004 9:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me. Vowed never to and here I am.


Joe
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itaewonguy



Joined: 25 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2004 11:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

does the word LOSER!!! mean anything here??? Laughing

the majority of the people who come back do because they cant get a job back home which is sweet as here... sad but true,.
in my case I want to leave.. but I am chained down byt he ball and chain!!
cant wait to I do get outof here.. I dont want to spend a large portion of my life here.. there are so many other places to see .!!!
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Mon Jan 12, 2004 7:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When you are a single gal it is sooo hard to save money...unless you sit at home all the time^^
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