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sarbonn

Joined: 14 Oct 2008 Location: Michigan
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 5:26 pm Post subject: Thoughts on jumping ship (advice requested) |
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I haven't been here very long. I was recruited for a Hagwon that is very poorly managed. It can sometimes be a massive struggle just to come into work each day because you just know it's going to be a nightmare trying to get through the day because the lessons are usually wrong, the schedule is completely whacked (scheduling people in two or three classrooms at the same time and then complaining because you didn't show up to one of the classes), and that sort of thing.
I have two MA degrees, and I actually am getting paid quite nicely here, so money is definitely not the issue. But I sometimes feel like I'm being treated like one of my middle school students.
People keep telling me I should really be teaching in a university, and all that, but I keep thinking that somehow this can all work out. The Hagwon boss is okay, most of the time. His supervisor is more the problem though, and her passive aggressive management style is very, very irritating.
Anyway, any advice, based on this limited info, on what should be done? Just stick it out and hope things get better? Are there better options available? Am I stuck here? I really don't know all the details about this whole political process here, so I'm wondering if any of you might have insight. |
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Monkey82
Joined: 18 Mar 2008
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 5:30 pm Post subject: |
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Now I'm still a bit iffy as to the rules about switching, but having come from a bad hagwon, I don't think you should stay unless things drastically change.
I felt that way, that it was really bad and I was treated poorly after about 4 months, but I was stubborn and stuck it out. And now I feel like an idiot and like I wasted 8 months. I was so confused about the way to switch though that I didn't want to get screwed if I couldn't. One good thing though - I have a sense of accomplishment - if I can deal with that bs I can deal with anything.
I would try for a university if I were you. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 5:42 pm Post subject: Re: Thoughts on jumping ship (advice requested) |
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sarbonn wrote: |
... what should be done? Just stick it out and hope things get better? |
Things will not get better. Give notice and leave:
'roll the dice' and apply for a PS job (no guarantees); or,
take a crap university job for a year (and use it to get a 'real' uni job). |
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The_Source

Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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If you do decide to go with a university, make sure it's not in Korea. Conditions at Korean universities aren't any better than your hagwon. Try Japan, Taiwan, China, etc. |
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saw6436
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Daejeon, ROK
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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When I first got here the disorganization was very frustrating. My boss was great but he really had no clue about scheduling. My classroom changed on a daily basis though I had a class schedule printed out. I would frequently walk into a class expecting it to be a 101 level only to have it filled with 302 students. Used to drive me crazy.
Then, I began to see it more as entertainment. Now when my school FUBARs my schedule I just laugh about it. I work part-time in a public elementary school and Friday was a blast. All of my classes were rearranged but nobody informed me about it till at the END OF THE DAY. I would go to my class only to be told that I was actualy teaching a different class. I proceded to that class only to be told that this class had been switched with another class. Chaos!! I ended up just going to my car and taking a nap till my shift ended.
OP, organization is not one of Korea's strong suits. Planning definitely got forgotten in the genetic code of most people here. I used to bang my head over it. Now I find it amusing. If all else is OK with your job then learn to go with the flow. Your not likely to find a more organized place in Korea. University or not.
Good luck. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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saw6436 wrote: |
OP, organization is not one of Korea's strong suits. |
When 'Dave's' had 'signatures' mine used to read -
"They once gave me five minutes notice. I didn't know what to do with the extra time." |
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sojourner1

Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 7:48 pm Post subject: |
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They sure are playing a head game with you. No one with any iota of common sense accidentally schedules an employee of any sort to be in 2 or more places at the same time. It's an irrational annoying game they are playing with you. I would go ballistic when I got a talking to about not being somewhere I was expected to be due to being scheduled to teach another class.
When you see this again, ask which one it's going to be and then ask them how they can be this absent minded. This will throw them off, but they would probably engineer something else to cause you more problem such as claiming you embarrass the director or getting complaints, but with no explanations for why you are wrong. It's a ruse.
I'd say to look for an exit as a shim sham school or company is not worth your precious time and efforts. |
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sarbonn

Joined: 14 Oct 2008 Location: Michigan
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:03 pm Post subject: |
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sojourner1 wrote: |
They sure are playing a head game with you. No one with any iota of common sense accidentally schedules an employee of any sort to be in 2 or more places at the same time. It's an irrational annoying game they are playing with you. I would go ballistic when I got a talking to about not being somewhere I was expected to be due to being scheduled to teach another class.
When you see this again, ask which one it's going to be and then ask them how they can be this absent minded. This will throw them off, but they would probably engineer something else to cause you more problem such as claiming you embarrass the director or getting complaints, but with no explanations for why you are wrong. It's a ruse.
I'd say to look for an exit as a shim sham school or company is not worth your precious time and efforts. |
I don't really think they're doing it on purpose. What keeps happening is our supervisor makes three different schedules, gives them out, then changes them but ends up being the only person who has the updated schedule. Then our Hagwon boss goes through and makes changes, so that by the time I go to teach a class, I never have the correct schedule. I even double checked before class, was told that the one class I was teaching didn't start until Monday, so went and grabbed something at a store, but was called on my cell phone asking why I wasn't teaching my class. That sort of thing. It doesn't even matter if I double check; I'm still going to end up being wrong. When trying to talk about this, I'm treated as the dumb, uneducated American who obviously is wasting someone's time by trying to clarify information (you know that "eyes rolled" response you get from people?). |
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MrRogers
Joined: 29 Jun 2008
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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passive aggressive management style |
this is the Korean psyche which permeates society but it plainly manifests to me in the educational organizational behavior (I see it in the public school offices - provincial, district, and school principal, vice-principal, teachers - so your hagwon probably has its own style of the baggage |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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It's been my (limited) experience that K-employers/bosses will 'test' you to see how much you will 'take'. While this is true in any culture, in K-land the slightest sign of weakness (beyond culturally accepted age & sex defference) is read by the boss as a cart blanche invitation for abuse.
While it is true that in any culture most bosses will 'test' a new employee, in Korea it is taken to a different level than in English-speaking countries. How to say "No!" is the most important skill a foreign, English teacher can possess in K-land.
P.S. To all the 'apologists' and 'bleeding hearts' who want to jump on this thread and say something to the effect the students should be one's first priority... you're wrong. You can't teach if you don't look after yourself.  |
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ben-ja-mas
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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I used to get 5 minutes notice about class changes etc..
Pulled the manager aside and told her if I did not get 1 days notice I would not teach the class as I needed time for prep.
Funnily it never happened again. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:01 pm Post subject: |
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ben-ja-mas wrote: |
I used to get 5 minutes notice about class changes etc..
Pulled the manager aside and told her if I did not get 1 days notice I would not teach the class as I needed time for prep.
Funnily it never happened again. |
When I first started at my present school, two co-teachers decided to switch my classes with literally no notice. I refused to teach the 'new' class and went back to the staff room. They apologised, bowed, begged and had to explain to the vice principal why I was sitting at my desk instead of in the classroom. It never entered their pea-sized, 'listen and repeat' brains that I prepare different lessons for different classes.
It never happend again... now I just zero notice of class cancellations.  |
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call_the_shots

Joined: 10 Oct 2008
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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cruisemonkey wrote: |
ben-ja-mas wrote: |
I used to get 5 minutes notice about class changes etc..
Pulled the manager aside and told her if I did not get 1 days notice I would not teach the class as I needed time for prep.
Funnily it never happened again. |
When I first started at my present school, two co-teachers decided to switch my classes with literally no notice. I refused to teach the 'new' class and went back to the staff room. They apologised, bowed, begged and had to explain to the vice principal why I was sitting at my desk instead of in the classroom. It never entered their pea-sized, 'listen and repeat' brains that I prepare different lessons for different classes.
It never happend again... now I just zero notice of class cancellations.  |
I guess I'm kind of the opposite. I do the same lesson for each class. The school has begged me to adjust my lessons to match the different levels of the students. But as long as they continue changing classes with a moment's notice, I will continue to refuse to adjust my lessons. |
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moosehead

Joined: 05 May 2007
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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sarbonn wrote: |
sojourner1 wrote: |
They sure are playing a head game with you. No one with any iota of common sense accidentally schedules an employee of any sort to be in 2 or more places at the same time. It's an irrational annoying game they are playing with you. I would go ballistic when I got a talking to about not being somewhere I was expected to be due to being scheduled to teach another class.
When you see this again, ask which one it's going to be and then ask them how they can be this absent minded. This will throw them off, but they would probably engineer something else to cause you more problem such as claiming you embarrass the director or getting complaints, but with no explanations for why you are wrong. It's a ruse.
I'd say to look for an exit as a shim sham school or company is not worth your precious time and efforts. |
I don't really think they're doing it on purpose. What keeps happening is our supervisor makes three different schedules, gives them out, then changes them but ends up being the only person who has the updated schedule. Then our Hagwon boss goes through and makes changes, so that by the time I go to teach a class, I never have the correct schedule. I even double checked before class, was told that the one class I was teaching didn't start until Monday, so went and grabbed something at a store, but was called on my cell phone asking why I wasn't teaching my class. That sort of thing. It doesn't even matter if I double check; I'm still going to end up being wrong. When trying to talk about this, I'm treated as the dumb, uneducated American who obviously is wasting someone's time by trying to clarify information (you know that "eyes rolled" response you get from people?). |
uh, just out of curiousity - what are your two masters' in?
you might want to consider this -(1) they actually ARE doing it on purpose as in they know they are changing the schedule (2) they are perfectly aware they are NOT giving you the correct schedule because (3) they DON'T respect you either as
(a) a teacher
(b) a foreigner
(c) an American
(d) all of the above
one more note - even if you sit down and talk reasonably or throw a bloody temper tantrum until the walls shake and shudder - NOTHING will ever change. This is the way they've always done things and will continue to do things long after you've gone.
You can either live with it or find another job. Your choice, which is, by the way, very important to remember, especially when they PROMISE you everything will get better but it doesn't.  |
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sarbonn

Joined: 14 Oct 2008 Location: Michigan
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:22 pm Post subject: |
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My MAs are in political science and communication. I'm also ABD in political science for my Ph.D., but I doubt I'll ever get back to writing the dissertation. |
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