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catman



Joined: 18 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2008 6:41 pm    Post subject: Brothels see surge in applications Reply with quote

Guess which state? Cool

Video Here
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mises



Joined: 05 Nov 2007
Location: retired

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Related:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5N7tMa2phQ&eurl
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Gopher



Joined: 04 Jun 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

catman wrote:
Guess which state?


Nevada, of course. But you do not mention that the report explains "Kimberly" comes from out-of-state, and you seem to imply otherwise.

Prostitution is legal in Nevada outside of Clark County. The state regulates and taxes it. The real money is in stripping in Las Vegas, however. US$2K to $5K per night in places like Crazy Horse Too.
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 3:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

God dang, she said she tried everything, but she didn't try waiting tables. A pretty young lady can do really well waitin' tables. I knew a beautiful young woman in college who waited tables and made $200 to $500 in cold hard cash a night, 4 to 5 nights a week. This was 6 years ago and the economy was not good back then either and the job market was super tight too, at least in St. Louis.


Sex industry is sick. Why would you want to do her if she didn't like you, she's emotionally hurting inside, and is an indentured in like a slave for a way to have basic needs? It's just got to be more natural than setting up some poor woman you pay for, because you know if she resorts to selling her body, she's unfairly desperate and very unhappy. When I walked through poof houses in Europe, I was overwhelmed by the negative energy coming from these girls and it was very disturbing. Some places over there such as in Budapest, the girls are sex slaves abducted from other countries and the place is physically locked down with security. Needless to say, I didn't so anything as it was a big turn off. Maybe I'm more sensitive than other guys...
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sojourner1 wrote:
God dang, she said she tried everything, but she didn't try waiting tables. A pretty young lady can do really well waitin' tables. I knew a beautiful young woman in college who waited tables and made $200 to $500 in cold hard cash a night, 4 to 5 nights a week. This was 6 years ago and the economy was not good back then either and the job market was super tight too, at least in St. Louis.


Sex industry is sick. Why would you want to do her if she didn't like you, she's emotionally hurting inside, and is an indentured in like a slave for a way to have basic needs? It's just got to be more natural than setting up some poor woman you pay for, because you know if she resorts to selling her body, she's unfairly desperate and very unhappy. When I walked through poof houses in Europe, I was overwhelmed by the negative energy coming from these girls and it was very disturbing. Some places over there such as in Budapest, the girls are sex slaves abducted from other countries and the place is physically locked down with security. Needless to say, I didn't so anything as it was a big turn off. Maybe I'm more sensitive than other guys...


The sex industry itself, theoretically, is quite ok and only people trying to force outdated morals on others would say otherwise. Having said that, the sex industry today (in practical terms) is horrid, being pretty much everything sojourner1 said (and probably a lot worse) in most of the world.
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bacasper



Joined: 26 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sojourner1 wrote:
God dang, she said she tried everything, but she didn't try waiting tables. A pretty young lady can do really well waitin' tables. I knew a beautiful young woman in college who waited tables and made $200 to $500 in cold hard cash a night, 4 to 5 nights a week. This was 6 years ago and the economy was not good back then either and the job market was super tight too, at least in St. Louis.


Sex industry is sick. Why would you want to do her if she didn't like you, she's emotionally hurting inside, and is an indentured in like a slave for a way to have basic needs? It's just got to be more natural than setting up some poor woman you pay for, because you know if she resorts to selling her body, she's unfairly desperate and very unhappy. When I walked through poof houses in Europe, I was overwhelmed by the negative energy coming from these girls and it was very disturbing. Some places over there such as in Budapest, the girls are sex slaves abducted from other countries and the place is physically locked down with security. Needless to say, I didn't so anything as it was a big turn off. Maybe I'm more sensitive than other guys...

Why must she wait tables if she prefers to work in the sex industry?

Do you know this woman personally? How do you know she is " emotionally hurting inside?" Financially hurting, yes, but ther is nothing in the video to indicate emotional pain.

Desperate? Maybe only economically.

Unhappy? She was smiling throughout and never once gave any such indication.

Perhaps what you say is true elsewhere, but not in this woman's case.
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sojourner1



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In the video, you can tell she is discouraged and a bit sad about not being able to find a job. You can tell she is not happy and she does speak in a tone of voice of feeling defeated though, because she's working, she's not speaking her mind. And she hasn't even started the dirty job yet. She's in big trouble. She'll just end up a psychological wreck as a result. No woman could be happy with being a prostitute, but it's desperately needed money.
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Cornfed



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sojourner1 wrote:
No woman could be happy with being a prostitute.

But aren't all women essentially prostitutes? Isn't this one of the bedrocks on which society is based? How many women don't expect to derive external benefits from sex in one form or another? Personally I think they're damn lucky. When more obviscated forms of prostitution and their idiot affirmative-action "jobs" dry up they've got this to fall back on, whereas men have to do things like teaching English in Korea. Lucky sluts.
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mises



Joined: 05 Nov 2007
Location: retired

PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cornfed wrote:
sojourner1 wrote:
No woman could be happy with being a prostitute.

But aren't all women essentially prostitutes? Isn't this one of the bedrocks on which society is based?


No. It isn't.
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bacasper



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cornfed wrote:
sojourner1 wrote:
No woman could be happy with being a prostitute.

But aren't all women essentially prostitutes? Isn't this one of the bedrocks on which society is based? How many women don't expect to derive external benefits from sex in one form or another?

But surely there is a difference between paying a woman $200. outright for sex and spending that $200 wining and dining one for a night in order to bed her down...isn't there?
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bacasper wrote:
Cornfed wrote:
sojourner1 wrote:
No woman could be happy with being a prostitute.

But aren't all women essentially prostitutes? Isn't this one of the bedrocks on which society is based? How many women don't expect to derive external benefits from sex in one form or another?

But surely there is a difference between paying a woman $200. outright for sex and spending that $200 wining and dining one for a night in order to bed her down...isn't there?


For her there is a HUGE difference. In the latter case, she may actually like you. In the former situation, she is more than often absolutely repulsed by you, and is carefully keeping her deep revulsion concealed from you. All the while she is thinking "Jesus, I wish this guy would just hurry up and come...he makes me want to PUKE..."
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Cornfed



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 11:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bacasper wrote:
But surely there is a difference between paying a woman $200. outright for sex and spending that $200 wining and dining one for a night in order to bed her down...isn't there?

Of courrse there is. One is paying for sex and the other is paying for the chance of sex if the prostitute expects to enjoy the sex. Of course in that case the prostitute is free to accept the largess without the slightest intention of keeping up her end of the bargian and if the client objects to being ripped-off in this fraud-by-custom then naturally he is the bad guy. You would think the latter form of prostitution would be cracked down on under fair trading laws.
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riverboy



Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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For her there is a HUGE difference. In the latter case, she may actually like you. In the former situation, she is more than often absolutely repulsed by you, and is carefully keeping her deep revulsion concealed from you. All the while she is thinking "Jesus, I wish this guy would just hurry up and come...he makes me want to PUKE..."


Are you speaking from experience here Big Bird? I often wonder why, if these girls are so repulsed, do they continue to do it?
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe I'm a Puritan, but I really doubt a woman would hop in bed and let a guy boink her if she had any other option. Some truely ugly chicks have come on to me and I ran as fast as I could the other direction because that was just not what I was interested in...B. Franklin's suggestion that all you need to do is put a bag over her head... (In self defense, I've been the recipient of a proposition or two from what almost any 20-20 guy would think was a good opportunity...) Are women that different? I doubt it.

Prostitution in whatever form is exploitation of women's economic desperation. On the other hand, prostitution is a 5-minute exploitation Very Happy of men's inability to control their biological drive.
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bacasper



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
Maybe I'm a Puritan, but I really doubt a woman would hop in bed and let a guy boink her if she had any other option. Some truely ugly chicks have come on to me and I ran as fast as I could the other direction because that was just not what I was interested in...B. Franklin's suggestion that all you need to do is put a bag over her head... (In self defense, I've been the recipient of a proposition or two from what almost any 20-20 guy would think was a good opportunity...) Are women that different? I doubt it.

You could say that about almost any job. How many people would be teaching in Korea if they had any other option? Prostitution can be a gig like any other, plus it pays well and the work is not too hard. It is legal in Holland, where after work many prostitutes return home to their husband and children. Prude.

Are women really different from men??? I won't violate the TOS by insulting anyone's intelligence here, but let's just say yes, they are physically, emotionally, anatomically, biologically, hormonally, neurologically, endocrinologically, (shall I continue?), etc.
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