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English Matt

Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:14 am Post subject: Owner of my apartment wants me to move out so he can sell |
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So I've been with my Public School in Suwon for a little over 6 months. A couple of weeks ago, my handler mentions to me, in an off the cuff way, that the owner of my apartment wants to sell the apartment I'm living in and would like me to move out. She says that the real estate guy for my building will help me to find another similar apartment in the same building, and that the owner will cover the moving costs.
Now, I really like my apartment, but figured that other apartments in the same building would be pretty alike. So I agreed to check out what they had to offer. The first place they showed me was a disgrace, I mean there were holes in the wall, the paper was peeling, plug sockets were damaged, the fake wood laminate was peeling in big chunks from the floor. So I didn't feel too bad about turning it down.
My handler then mentioned to me that if I really insist that I don't want to move, the owner is bound by the contract he has with the school to let me stay in my apartment until the end of my contract. Now I don't know what financial difficulties this dude may be going through and I don't want to see him out on the street so I agreed to see a few more places.
I've now seen 2 more apartments, however neither are as good as my place. I feel like if I accept then I will be coming back to a damaged version of my current apartment every day and I really don't feel good about that. So, I told my handler that I'm willing to see any other apartments the guy has to show me but that I'm not happy about, essentially, downgrading.
Now she is saying that even though I can technically stay in my apartment, that a Korean would not hold an owner to a contract and that I should move. She says if I insist I can stay, but really didn't sound happy about it.
Am I being unreasonable? I mean I'm being made to feel like I'm the one putting somebody out here, when actually it's me who is being asked to do someone else a favour. My handler keeps on saying that it is going to look, to the real estate guy, like I don't want to move....well, hell, no I don't. She also keeps reiterating that the owner is willing to pay the moving costs...but again, if I didn't have to move there would be no moving costs...so that's the least he can do.
I'm worried about how this might effect my relationship with my school and wondering what I should do?
Should I stick to my guns if they don't come up with somewhere comparable to my current place...or will it cause more hassle than it is worth to try and keep my current place for the rest of my contract?
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:26 am Post subject: |
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If an alternate place is acceptable in terms of space & layout, it would be perfectly reasonable (& normal) to expect it to be repapered & refloored & have any faulty fixtures mended at your new owner's expense, before you move in. |
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Gimpokid

Joined: 09 Nov 2008 Location: Best Gimpo
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:28 am Post subject: |
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Nobody knows how much hassle it will be. Think about it this way; the landlord wants to sell your apartment because it's the best one he has. This is some kind of bait and switch stuff and I wouldn't stand for it. Tell the school you want to change buildings and cut the landlord out of the equation, I bet they become more supportive. |
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esetters21

Joined: 30 Apr 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:44 am Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
If an alternate place is acceptable in terms of space & layout, it would be perfectly reasonable (& normal) to expect it to be repapered & refloored & have any faulty fixtures mended at your new owner's expense, before you move in. |
I have to agree with schwa here. It's not uncommon for owners to do those things when tenants are changing.
I'm going through the same thing right now with my apartment, and gave the landlord my conditions on moving to one of her other units that is exactly the same in size and layout as my current apt. in the officetel. She agreed with no problem to have it completely cleaned, re-papered and change my larger refrigerator for the small one that is in the other place.
Moving is always a drag no matter the situation. |
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esetters21

Joined: 30 Apr 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:45 am Post subject: |
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English Matt

Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 2:50 am Post subject: |
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I don't think the landlord is in possession of all apartments in my officetel building. It's 12 storeys high with about 18 apartments on each floor. It may be that the guy owns more than just this one apartment and is maybe looking to sell this place before the property bubble bursts....and yes, being in a very good condition, maybe he thinks he can get a quick sell on the place.
I'll mention to my handler about the owner paying to repair any damage to another apartment in the building...however, I suspect he will be reluctant to renovate another landlord's run-down apartment. But I guess we can see.
What makes me angry, is that if I accept one of these run-down officetel apartments, the owner makes money from the sale of my current apartment, the real estate guy will get a commission from the landlord of my new apartment and probably a payoff from the owner of my current apartment as a thankyou for getting rid of me. The only person who loses out there is me. And what really bites is that when I explain this to my handler, she dimisses it out of hand and tries to guilt trip me and make me feel like I'm the one inconveniencing everyone else and doing something terrible.
I mean, the apartment is essentially part of my compensation package....so if you look at it another way, what if the apartment was not an issue and it was my school saying 'Hey, our budget's running sort of low this year, how about we bump your salary down by 100k a month, I mean your salary will still be similar."
It just pisses me off that they seem to expect me to roll over and just accept whatever apartment is offered me, whatever crappy state it's in and, when I raise an objection, treat me like I'm doing something terrible. |
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Sleepy in Seoul

Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Going in ever decreasing circles until I eventually disappear up my own fundament - in NZ
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:11 am Post subject: |
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You could always mention to your handler that it would be fine to move out of your apartment if your handler moves into the new one and you move into hers. |
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Xuanzang

Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Location: Sadang
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:13 am Post subject: |
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Get another place of equal stature. If they tried to pull the no money routine then no English. Koreans love the guilt trip routine but you have to keep to your guns. |
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English Matt

Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:18 am Post subject: |
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Sleepy in Seoul wrote: |
You could always mention to your handler that it would be fine to move out of your apartment if your handler moves into the new one and you move into hers. |
Awesome, that would be sweet actually. She lives in the same building, floor above me, pent house style apartment. I'll take that deal  |
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esetters21

Joined: 30 Apr 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:20 am Post subject: |
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English Matt wrote: |
Sleepy in Seoul wrote: |
You could always mention to your handler that it would be fine to move out of your apartment if your handler moves into the new one and you move into hers. |
Awesome, that would be sweet actually. She lives in the same building, floor above me, pent house style apartment. I'll take that deal  |
Are you sure that your handler isn't actually the owner of your current apartment? |
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Typhoon
Joined: 29 May 2007 Location: Daejeon
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:38 am Post subject: |
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If an apartment is shitty it is pretty standard for a landlord to pay between 500 000 and 1 000 000 to fix it up when a new tennant moves in. I have moved 5 times now and 4 times the landlord has paid to fix up the apt. One time it was floors and another wallpaper, another both. The last time the house was ok as is so there was no need.
As for you being told Koreans would move, I know this is not the case. My wife spends a lot of time a local real estate office and there is always stories of tenant being asked to move and holding their landlord up for moving costs, plus a months rent or some other monetary compensation. Money talks and if they want you to walk they will pay up. It all depends on how much the landlord stands to make from selling the apt. |
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English Matt

Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 3:50 am Post subject: |
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Typhoon wrote: |
If an apartment is shitty it is pretty standard for a landlord to pay between 500 000 and 1 000 000 to fix it up when a new tennant moves in. I have moved 5 times now and 4 times the landlord has paid to fix up the apt. One time it was floors and another wallpaper, another both. The last time the house was ok as is so there was no need.
As for you being told Koreans would move, I know this is not the case. My wife spends a lot of time a local real estate office and there is always stories of tenant being asked to move and holding their landlord up for moving costs, plus a months rent or some other monetary compensation. Money talks and if they want you to walk they will pay up. It all depends on how much the landlord stands to make from selling the apt. |
Thanks Typhoon, I appreciate hearing that it just ain't the case that I am acting contrary to any and all Koreans in my situation.
I think the biggest problem vis-a-vis getting a new landlord to repair the new apartment would be that this is a fairly desirable building for the area. It is very new and in an area which mainly consists of old and run-down walk-up apartment buildings. It is also just around the corner from a big university and is pretty popular with the students from there, heck even students from my high school live here rather than have long commutes back to their family home at the end of the day. So even though they are not in good knick, I think the real estate guy could probably find someone willing (or foolish enough) to rent them as is.
And I'm also thinking that my current landlord would be unwilling to fork out the cash to repair another guy's apartment....but....you're right, I guess it all comes down to how desperate the current owner is to make the sell and how much he stands to make.
I think I'll stand my ground and relay some of what's been said above to my handler. I know she's piggy in the middle with this whole situation and is probably getting some flack from my landlord / school to sort this as soon as possible, but I really wish she'd be on my side a bit. At the moment it all feels rather combatative, me vs. everyone else, with me on my own and her as 'everyone else's' representative. |
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R-Seoul

Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Location: your place
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:41 am Post subject: Re: Owner of my apartment wants me to move out so he can sel |
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English Matt wrote: |
...Now, I really like my apartment, but figured that other apartments in the same building would be pretty alike. So I agreed to check out what they had to offer.
My handler then mentioned to me that if I really insist that I don't want to move, the owner is bound by the contract he has with the school to let me stay in my apartment until the end of my contract. Now I don't know what financial difficulties this dude may be going through and I don't want to see him out on the street so I agreed to see a few more places.
I've now seen 2 more apartments, however neither are as good as my place. I feel like if I accept then I will be coming back to a damaged version of my current apartment every day and I really don't feel good about that. So, I told my handler that I'm willing to see any other apartments the guy has to show me but that I'm not happy about, essentially, downgrading.
Now she is saying that even though I can technically stay in my apartment, that a Korean would not hold an owner to a contract and that I should move. She says if I insist I can stay, but really didn't sound happy about it.
Should I stick to my guns if they don't come up with somewhere comparable to my current place...or will it cause more hassle than it is worth to try and keep my current place for the rest of my contract?
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Are you nuts, why are you even contemplating moving? Sod them and the Horse they rode in on. Stand your ground on this one & don't move, despite what the rest of the lilly livered Daves sheep are telling you. |
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orosee

Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Location: Hannam-dong, Seoul
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:51 am Post subject: |
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I don't quite undeerstand. Now you rent from landlord A. Landlord B has an empty yet ugly apartment, not making any money from it. So any repairs should be paid by landlord B, not A. Or perhaps you can negotiate with B the fixing and A throws in a new fridge or TV? Both stand to win from the transaction, you should not be the one to lose.
Since you know that A is selling, do you have the cash to buy from him? There's one way to avoid the shitty exchange losses. |
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English Matt

Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 5:58 am Post subject: |
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orosee wrote: |
I don't quite undeerstand. Now you rent from landlord A. Landlord B has an empty yet ugly apartment, not making any money from it. So any repairs should be paid by landlord B, not A. Or perhaps you can negotiate with B the fixing and A throws in a new fridge or TV? Both stand to win from the transaction, you should not be the one to lose.
Since you know that A is selling, do you have the cash to buy from him? There's one way to avoid the shitty exchange losses. |
As I mentioned above, I think the problem with getting landlord B to do the repairs is that he can probably find another tenant to rent his shitty apartment as is, as can landlords C and D.
Neither I nor my school deals direct with any landlords either....the landlords rent their apartments via an intermediary, AKA the real estate guy in the office on the 1st floor of my building.
My coteacher is working on behalf of my school to try and rectify this situation....which in a nutshell, means that we have 2 middle-people, the real estate guy and my handler, working on behalf of the landlords and school respectively trying to sort this situation out for the landlords and the school. Effectively I am respresenting myself and the only one looking out for my interests.
The real estate guy is just in it for the commission and is therefore going to be pissed if I don't move. My handler just wants an easy fix to this, which would be me accepting any crummy ol' apartment off of the real estate guy, so she can get this off her plate. Neither really gives a damn about me and the only person who speaks English out of this whole sorry ensemble - real estate guy, school admin., various landlords, handler - is my handler...without her on my side I'm rather left out on a limb and will likely find it hard to negotiate.
If I stick to my guns and say 'sod ya, I'm staying', then I am gonna have a pissed off real estate guy at the bottom of my building, a pissed off school, a pissed off handler to sit next to day in and day out in the office, and probably a pissed off landlord (although that last one most likely won't affect me directly, he may continue to pressure the real estate guy who will continue to pressure my school admin, who will as a result continue to pressure my handler).
I really do like the school and my job, but I hate the way they keep on creating little dramas out of shit like this. I mean, I just got one sorry mess finalised - I obtained a residence certificate from the UK which my school was giving me grief over for months (it took that long because that's just how long it took the Inland Revenue to get back to me). My school did not seem to be able to wrap their heads around why it was taking so long for me to get hold of it and seemed to think I was some sort of pathological liar for not getting it to them within a few days of them asking....gave me all sorts of hassle about it. Then I finally get it for them, and whammo a new drama for them to get into with me.
What next I wonder? |
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