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I got a date! Now what?
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afsjesse



Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:26 pm    Post subject: I got a date! Now what? Reply with quote

Alright this is the scoop. I joined on those internet dating sites. After going at it for awhile now, I met someone and have a date. Met this girl from Daejeon and she's nice, funny etc.... So.... she invited me out for the weekend and suggested we go out. So any big shots out there have any tips? I've never gone out with a Korea for starters.
Daejeon isn't my scene so I have no idea of any good places to go. Any tips on what to do or what not?
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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a lady so this is my advice - wear your best colon and dress up nicely. A good colon can weaken most women.

^^
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jkelly80



Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Faunaki wrote:
I'm a lady so this is my advice - wear your best colon and dress up nicely. A good colon can weaken most women.

^^


Do tell...
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Roving_gypsy_gurl



Joined: 29 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Faunaki wrote:
I'm a lady so this is my advice - wear your best colon and dress up nicely. A good colon can weaken most women.

^^


Please, please, PLEASE tell me you mean cologne!
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Perceptioncheck



Joined: 13 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 9:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I can't speak for all women but I certainly feel a bit weak at the knees around a good colon.

But not on the first date. . .I'm not that kind of girl.
Laughing
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ciccone_youth



Joined: 03 Mar 2008
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

we're talking about cologne, right?

yes, but only a LITTLE bit. don't shower in it, it's a repellent. but i agree, a subtle scent can be a major turn on.

however i think it's all about the personality, so try to act normal, and don't show signs of nervousness. girls like confident, laid-back guys. be funny, compliment her, listen to her and ask her questions.

i'd suggest a dinner and coffee or drinks afterwards. or an afternoon activity, but that should be for the second date. good luck!
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bundangbabo



Joined: 01 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Women love aftershave on a man - fork out and get a good 'un - think of how much she will appreciate it after smelling stale kimchi and tobacco on all her last boyfriends.

My latest aftershave collection

Oscar de la Renta
Chanel
Cerrutti 1881
Hugo Boss
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had my colon checked during a Thai massage.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Faunaki wrote:
I'm a lady so this is my advice - wear your best colon and dress up nicely. A good colon can weaken most women.

^^


Wow, that's a very creepy typo. Or is that how Americans spell cologne now?


Anyway, I will add some very crucial advice: take it very slow.
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hugekebab



Joined: 05 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's best not to engage in any Kolon Sport on a first date.
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Bucheonguy



Joined: 23 Oct 2008
Location: Bucheon

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:


I'm a lady so this is my advice - wear your best colon and dress up nicely. A good colon can weaken most women.


One word for you: FIBER! That's how I melt all the ladies. You hit that all bran hard tonight and you'll be ready for your date.

Seriously though, don't push things here. There are two ways this thing can go for you. If you want a relationship, if you like her if you wanna keep her around, cool your jets and take things slow. If you're looking for a quickie, just put it on the table after a few drinks that you want to sleep with her. She'll deny at first but if she doesn't up right leave, you're in. Works every time. I suggest the former the though.

Jesus Christ, I've laughed for like 15 minutes about the colon thing.
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Jandar



Joined: 11 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Chili at night fiber in the morning add cheese for that extra fragrance.
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jkelly80



Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fishead soup wrote:
I had my colon checked during a Thai massage.


lollerskates!
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afsjesse



Joined: 23 Sep 2007
Location: Kickin' it in 'Kato town.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LMAO!!!! Yes I do have a good colon. However I do have some good cologne so no worries there. I do want something more than a quickie so I guess I'll take things slow. Thanks for the help!
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Bucheonguy



Joined: 23 Oct 2008
Location: Bucheon

PostPosted: Sun Dec 14, 2008 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One more thing. Pay for everything on your first date if you like her. You don't always have to pay forever but you gotta remember, they are oldschool here. Imagine what it would be like dating a girl from the 1950s. There's a very good chance your girl is one like that too.

Also, gotta find out if she studied abroad or not. If she lived in the West for over a year it usually means she's more liberal and well, Westernized which is a good thing.

If she smokes and drinks, also a good sign that she might be kinda cool. It might also mean she's really easy though.

Just remember... 1950s, 1950s, 1950s...

It can be a real head game. You gotta feel out the situation for yourself.
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