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Has anyone here ever been to a booking room
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:13 pm    Post subject: Has anyone here ever been to a booking room Reply with quote

I never have but my students have told me about them. Basically, women go into a club and are led to tables of men. The men buy them drinks and chat with them. Apparently, the waiters can be insistent on them sitting with gentlemen. I am just curious about this because I can not envision such a set up in a Western country.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:20 pm    Post subject: Re: Has anyone here ever been to a booking room Reply with quote

Keepongoing wrote:
I never have but my students have told me about them. Basically, women go into a club and are led to tables of men. The men buy them drinks and chat with them. Apparently, the waiters can be insistent on them sitting with gentlemen.


Yes, that's basically what happens.

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I am just curious about this because I can not envision such a set up in a Western country.


Neither can I.
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jkelly80



Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I went to one in Bupyeong where the DJ put on a mask and stripped, using a silk shawl to cover his junk, and then showed his cheeks to the crowd. I had no idea what the hell was going on, and I never will.
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Silk



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They are mostly for young people, not really adult maturity level age. So even though the girls and guys in the booking club might be over 18, it's really more like a high school dance where the waiters help the shy girls mix with the shy boys.

If you can't envision it happening in western culture, it's because you are picturing confident, adult people taking part in it.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Silk wrote:
They are mostly for young people, not really adult maturity level age. So even though the girls and guys in the booking club might be over 18, it's really more like a high school dance where the waiters help the shy girls mix with the shy boys.

If you can't envision it happening in western culture, it's because you are picturing confident, adult people taking part in it.


Doesn't it cost a ton of money though? (at least if you're a dude)
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HyundaiGenisis



Joined: 14 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your not missing out on much if you dont ever go to one. It's a 5 drink minimum per table and the prices are really high for drinks, and I believe it cost around 10,000 won or so for the waiter to bring over 1 or 2 girls. If your from the Seoul area you are better off just going to Hongdae, most of the girls speak pretty good english.
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xCustomx



Joined: 06 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They do have them in the states. I went while I was still in college with 10 of my Korean friends. However, we were denied entry at the first location, even though all the girls were wearing dresses and all of us guys wore slacks, dress shirts and ties. The bouncer, named Turbo (this was in LA K-town), sent us down the street to another place.

We paid about $150-200 to get in, but that included a fifth of JD and a fruit platter with strawberries, watermelon, apples, etc. It was a fun experience and I'd recommend going at least once
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 10:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

xCustomx wrote:
They do have them in the states. I went while I was still in college with 10 of my Korean friends. However, we were denied entry at the first location, even though all the girls were wearing dresses and all of us guys wore slacks, dress shirts and ties. The bouncer, named Turbo (this was in LA K-town), sent us down the street to another place.

We paid about $150-200 to get in, but that included a fifth of JD and a fruit platter with strawberries, watermelon, apples, etc. It was a fun experience and I'd recommend going at least once


If that was in K Town then it was a Korean enclave and not usually frequented by those with a "non-Korean mindset. Was it mostly patronized by Korean Americans?
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seoulsucker



Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: The Land of the Hesitant Cutoff

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Hooking up" is tough in normal Korean-style bars. People usually go in groups, sit together and don't interact with other people.

Korean "nah-ee-tuh" clubs are simply there to compensate for some Koreans' lack of open socialization skills.
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pidgin



Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 10:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Silk wrote:
They are mostly for young people, not really adult maturity level age.


Actually differing ones cater to various age groups (including older divorcees) and financial levels. But for the obvious ones on display that advertise the hardest, you are correct.
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pidgin



Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

And to the Op:

I think "booking club" (rather than 'room') is the most commonly accepted nomenclature among Konglish speakers Wink
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Goku



Joined: 10 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd love to work in one of these places.

I'm great at conversation starters and I can be really charming on first meetings. Although, after about 5 hours I get very dull and they discover underneath this glacier is only a whole bunch of horny polar bears.

ANYWAYS, think of these places would hire English speaking Weigooks? Using english as a facade? Oh yeah...

English speaking Booking clubs. An excuse to practice "English".

Thinnly veiled way to hook up with foreigners. Because honestly, who doesn't want to learn English? no one could blame a Korean for wanting to learn more Engrish without looking like a *beep*.

I bet you could really rake in the dough. Get some uber thirsty foreigners... Think about a pretty blonde bombshell "oh god I could use another soda". Korean men would flock to buy it for her even if it costed 10,000. Cause even if it was a stupid purchase they could always justify it as education costs.

That's ONE thing I've really noticed. Koreans (generalizations of course) are willing to justify spending an exhuberant about of money for education.
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Alan Partidge



Joined: 29 Nov 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I went to one when I first got here. It was quite fun in that it kind of resembled a nightclub from home in that you could drink, dance and mingle a bit (table service bars here make that a bit more difficult). The table service and booking were different for me.

We didn't get any women sent over because the waiters didn't seem keen to do it. I was still pretty young, so I was happy enough to drink and take my chances on the dance floor (as I would at home). I danced with an ajumma in a cardy and she bought me a drink. That was about it.

It was funny when we arrived though, one of the guys I was with (who I later realised was a prize tool) was trying to swear at the waiters because they put us right next to the speaker and didn't send any women over. He kept saying ship pal instead of shibbal.

I'd recommend going if only to see for yourself.
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samd



Joined: 03 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 12:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've been on Dave's for 5 years and you don't know about booking clubs??
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xCustomx



Joined: 06 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 4:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Keepongoing wrote:
xCustomx wrote:
They do have them in the states. I went while I was still in college with 10 of my Korean friends. However, we were denied entry at the first location, even though all the girls were wearing dresses and all of us guys wore slacks, dress shirts and ties. The bouncer, named Turbo (this was in LA K-town), sent us down the street to another place.

We paid about $150-200 to get in, but that included a fifth of JD and a fruit platter with strawberries, watermelon, apples, etc. It was a fun experience and I'd recommend going at least once


If that was in K Town then it was a Korean enclave and not usually frequented by those with a "non-Korean mindset. Was it mostly patronized by Korean Americans?


Well obviously it was run by Koreans. I said the bouncers name was Turbo, which should have tipped you off right there. I said I went with all my Korean friends and was the only non-asian person there. We got a few girls to come over to our table, and then there were a few girls who would just sit down and want to take a couple of shots and then bounce. I can't say I'd go back again, but it was something fun to do when I was 21
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