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brento1138
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:00 am Post subject: Desperate or Ballsy? |
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So I was with this girl at Buddha's Belly in Itaewon, and we're eating and drinking some beer. And these two guys speaking some European language sit down near us. They immediately size me up, look at me angrily with scorn and hate. Then they look to the girl. And they don't take their eyes off her. Hehe. Anyways, I'm eating and laughing it up with this girl. Chatting away. And these guys keep looking at her. They can't stop. As we leave, I pay the bill, and I start walking away... I see this guy hand her a paper. As we get outside, she opens it up and starts laughing away.
Apparently, this guy actually gave her a note that said "Call me *his phone number* and his name, "Carlos." She passed me the note, and I looked at it, saying "Maybe we should call him" and she laughs. I try to offer it back, saying they really wanna meet you, but for some reason she refuses... hehe. Apparently they kept looking & winking at her during dinner. I didn't notice the winking.. but...
Wow.
Desperate or Ballsy? What's your opinion?
I thought European dudes wouldn't have a hard time here? |
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Jacobbm
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Location: Location, Location...
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:03 am Post subject: |
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you should have gone back into the bar and confronted them.. |
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brento1138
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:05 am Post subject: |
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Jacobbm wrote: |
you should have gone back into the bar and confronted them.. |
Nah. Waste of life and time. Let em get the dumb chicks and start fights with other meat-heads.
Life's too short for that crap. |
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caniff
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Location: All over the map
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:11 am Post subject: |
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Sorry, man, but you were a wimp in that situation. I wouldn't have put up with a couple of assholes gawking while I'm trying to enjoy my meal with my date (in my case, my wife).
No way, no how. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:34 am Post subject: |
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I say it is neither. I say it's rude. I mean, come on, a guy sees that a girl is with someone, and he still has the indecency to give her a note with his name and number??? Loser! |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:48 am Post subject: |
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Sometimes not giving a shit is the way you treat shit. But sometimes it's good to ask them what they want (confront them) or return, give them the paper and tell them "you should save this for someone you have a shot with."
Or better yet, post the number here on Dave's. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 9:23 am Post subject: |
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"Thanks for the laugh; Happy New Year, Carla."
You are welcome.
Bibbitybop is right-post the phone number, as it's the help this worthless piece of crap clearly needs. |
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aboxofchocolates

Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Location: on your mind
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 1:15 pm Post subject: |
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Better yet, make a fake profile on one of the sleazier korean dating sites using a hot Russian model for a profile pic and post the number there. |
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Paji eh Wong

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:44 pm Post subject: |
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That was weak on their part.
You handled it right. |
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Goku
Joined: 10 Dec 2008
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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Desperate,
Plenty of fish in the sea and they have to steal from other fisherman.
Desperate. Unless she was a whale of a catch.
(excuse the metaphor of women to fish, it's just my MO) |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:21 pm Post subject: |
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caniff wrote: |
Sorry, man, but you were a wimp in that situation. I wouldn't have put up with a couple of assholes gawking while I'm trying to enjoy my meal with my date (in my case, my wife).
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Unless it was creeping her out or scaring her, there's no reason to confront them about it. You're the one going home with her... they can gawk all they want, but it isn't getting them anywhere. |
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Milwaukiedave
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Location: Goseong
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:27 pm Post subject: |
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I think the OP did the right thing, he and his friend/date got the last laugh.
And I personally think it was ballsy of them in a desperate sort of way. |
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victorology
Joined: 10 Sep 2007
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 6:44 pm Post subject: |
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Scotticus wrote: |
caniff wrote: |
Sorry, man, but you were a wimp in that situation. I wouldn't have put up with a couple of assholes gawking while I'm trying to enjoy my meal with my date (in my case, my wife).
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Unless it was creeping her out or scaring her, there's no reason to confront them about it. You're the one going home with her... they can gawk all they want, but it isn't getting them anywhere. |
Exactly. I think OP handled it right since he's the one who wins in the end without doing anything. |
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Straphanger
Joined: 09 Oct 2008 Location: Chilgok, Korea
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 6:52 pm Post subject: |
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The think that makes me cringe a little is that there are people here actively emasculating the poster for *not* going back in and getting into a bar fight... This is why English teachers aren't allowed into many of the good bars. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Sun Dec 28, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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Bibbitybop wrote: |
Or better yet, post the number here on Dave's. |
Seconded. |
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