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Scott in HK
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: now in Incheon..haven't changed my name yet
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| AND, right, don't tell me Scott that you and your wife didn't hold a little candle for each other when she was in your class. She surely wouldn't have made her feelings known to you had you not given her that vibe. |
You almost got me...but luckily I had broken up with my ex (who in doing so returned the engagement ring that had been on her finger for about a month) about five months earlier...and was still in the 'i can't believe that happened' phase....so I didn't get any vibes. My future wife kept her interest a secret while in my class and if not for a twist of fate (and some tequila shots during an end of class party which was the first time i had been able to drink with my students), we may have never started to date.
But I can't say that the looks that I get for some students don't put little twinkles in my eyes...and sometimes less than professional thoughts in my head...well...I could...but you know that I was lying... |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:16 pm Post subject: |
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mithridates
Joined: 03 Mar 2003
Location: President's office, Korean Space Agency
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That's funny...from looking at the replies I would guess the title of this thread to be "Is it okay to bonk your adult students?" The question stated was about dating...
Sometimes not dating somebody that you know likes you and that you have a common interest in can be more distracting than actually trying it. Sexual tension exists whether there's any sex involved or not. Dating somebody and having sex is the physical manifestation of the interest two people have with each other, but it's just as present without the dating and/or sex. If a teacher and a student are interested in seeing each other, that's where the problems can start (or a meaningful relationship if it's meant to be).
The only time dating/having sex is different than just having an interest in someone is when other people start getting involved - family finds out, school issues a warning, etc. |
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Blue Flower
Joined: 23 Feb 2003
Location: The realisation that I only have to endure two more weeks in this filthy, perverted, nasty place!
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 4:13 am Post subject: |
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| Yes it is un-ethical. Ex students are cool. But current students is just icky, and it smacks of lechery. |
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kangnamdragon
Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 4:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Is it unethical for me to date my teacher (Korean language)? |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 4:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Is it unethical for me to date my teacher (Korean language)? |
A little fantasy of yours? 
Go for it if you think you can. |
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kangnamdragon
Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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| Not really a fantasy...She asked me today what my ideal woman is like and she said I am handsome.....but she is a good teacher.....I don't want to jeopardize that. But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 7:57 pm Post subject: |
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
But you'll go either way right? |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Not really a fantasy...She asked me today what my ideal woman is like and she said I am handsome.....but she is a good teacher.....I don't want to jeopardize that. But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
This is too funny.....did you wind up going to CSI? I had a similar experience there. |
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kangnamdragon
Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Butterfly wrote: |
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| But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
But you'll go either way right? |
No, this one is too good for a fling.. 
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Not really a fantasy...She asked me today what my ideal woman is like and she said I am handsome.....but she is a good teacher.....I don't want to jeopardize that. But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
This is too funny.....did you wind up going to CSI? I had a similar experience there. |
You did? Oh no! same teacher? |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:49 pm Post subject: |
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Not really a fantasy...She asked me today what my ideal woman is like and she said I am handsome.....but she is a good teacher.....I don't want to jeopardize that. But, she is wife material, I am not talking about a fling... |
This is too funny.....did you wind up going to CSI? I had a similar experience there. |
You did? Oh no! same teacher? |
Tall, Roman nose, killer body...?
No, actually she quit while I was still a student there (back in 1998), so probably someone else.
But everyone at that place was shamelessly flirty, from the woman running the place to the receptionists. Glad you decided to enroll.  |
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kangnamdragon
Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, but it is possible she likes me? I am not bad looking and am in the intermediate class. I am her only student. She even bought me a coffee.
Of course 1998 was a long time ago... |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2004 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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| kangnamdragon wrote: |
Yes, but it is possible she likes me? I am not bad looking and am in the intermediate class. I am her only student. She even bought me a coffee.
Of course 1998 was a long time ago... |
You never know....I was an only student too.
I'm sure lots of people like you! |
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Homer
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| Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2004 2:17 am Post subject: |
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Blue flower...."icky"???
For a second there I thought I was back in elementary school.... |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Kuwait
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| Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2004 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Blue Flower wrote: |
| But current students is just icky, and it smacks of lechery. |
Only if you're a greasy perv with dandruff and bad dress sense. |
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