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BlueMystery
Joined: 28 Jan 2009
Location: Seoul, Korea
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 Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 2:42 pm Post subject: |
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| mole wrote: |
TCA's got a great point. NETWORKING.
UWB, too. Learn some Korean. |
I strongly agree. It's been my experience that simply speaking Korean sets you apart and gives you such an advantage. Both Korean men, who at first wouldn't let you talk to their women, and the women themselves, disarm easily with Korean.
The free Korean classes are great. You can also take your class lessons, and go talk to women in the subway or on the street, and ask the Korean women for help with certain words. From there you can easily chat her up.
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| Prey, I mean play up to the K-hotties mercenary instinct. Once you are seen with one, others get curious.And they tell two friends and so on and so on and so on... |
This is known as social proofing. That's why if you go to clubs, the guy who has a girl around him is the guy who will probably be stared at the most.
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Soon you find yourself with a veritable harem of groupies inviting you out every free second you have.
Even though it's overrated, don't forget to SLEEP sometimes. |
The thing you want to be sure of is to not come across as just a "Social Guy". Social Guys don't get laid. They get popular, but not laid.
The worst case scenario will be that you are going out with this harem of groupies, but they only want you "as a friend" AND you still don't sleep! Talk about a waste of time.
Instead, you want to come across as the "guy who is sexually-into-the-girl-for-who-she-is guy". You want to let the women you are sexually into, know that you are into them AND that you are into them for either something they've done (like tried speaking to you in English, bought you a beer, ANYTHING but it has to have meaning to you), or for who they are (they've traveled overseas, they can jug a whole soju bottle, they speak French. Again, anything that has meaning to you).
From there, you want tell them that you find what they're doing 'sexy'. This is called "pulling" them. Once they've registered what you said, you can push her away by saying something like "but we just met!". What this does is that it sparks and initially defines the tension between the two of you.
Good luck!
BlueM
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mole
Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 3:32 pm Post subject: |
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WELLY WELL AND WELL DONE, Sir.
Teaching an old dog new tricks, eh?
Hey, hey , hey, after all, Blue M, in fact, DID write the book~! And a tip o'the ole hat to ye. |
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ED209
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Can I advertise my room salon on here. Or haven't the rules on advertising changed? |
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BlueMystery
Joined: 28 Jan 2009
Location: Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 3:21 am Post subject: |
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| mole wrote: |
WELLY WELL AND WELL DONE, Sir.
Teaching an old dog new tricks, eh?
Hey, hey , hey, after all, Blue M, in fact, DID write the book~! And a tip o'the ole hat to ye. |
Thanks for the props Mole.
Always the best,
BlueM
www.datekoreanwomen.com |
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