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endo

Joined: 14 Mar 2004 Location: Seoul...my home
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:23 am Post subject: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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You try not to be a judgmental person in life, but sometimes it's hard.
Now personally I'm torn on this point of view. To be honest I've seen quite few Thai girls that are out of this world and as a result I've definitely fantasized about them. In addition I haven't gotten any in about a week. So I'm real to the fact that there might be some internal issues going on.
But still when I see a Western guy with a Thai girl (especially older and uglier dudes) I can't help but judge them.
I mean to each his own, and if two consenting adults choose to do this then so be it. I'm open like that.
But I still think these guys are losers!
Especially this older guy I met who described his interaction with a Thai prostitute as "making love".
I wonder how other males feel about this when in Thailand? |
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sobriquet

Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Location: Nakatomi Plaza
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:38 am Post subject: |
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i feel much the same way when I see all these dorks here in Korea with relatively hot women that they could never get at home. |
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crocadoodledoo
Joined: 26 Nov 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:44 am Post subject: |
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yeah! preach on, but I used to hate when I was volunteering at a refugee camp in thailand, learned to speak pretty good thai and would have some wanker tourists commenting about me when I walked by with a couple of my students - drove me crazy
but isnt that life in asia? sometimes i think gender roles are just more open...... |
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NoExplode

Joined: 15 Oct 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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sobriquet wrote: |
i feel much the same way when I see all these dorks here in Korea with relatively hot women that they could never get at home. |
Really? I rarely see Korean 10's with foreign guys. It's usually the too-much makeup skanky Korean ladies that you see with foreign guy. Usually with glitter somewhere around their eyes.
You'd also be surprised at the number of foreign guys who have no idea they are "dating" a prostitute. |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:42 pm Post subject: |
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Last year it bothered me, but it was my first trip to Thailand.
Last year, I met a british guy who lived in England. He had a 3 year old son with a gal from chang mai and went to bangkok months every year to be with the gal and his son, but liked the ladies.
This year, I met a 55 year old dude who owned a bar on rat u thit road in patong. He had 2 kids, and was faithful to his wife. She is 27.
I met a gal years younger and I didn't give her a dime.
There are genuinely good people there-now, while I was at a restaurant one there was this late 40's German dude with a huge gut waiting around until midnight to take home the 16 year old greeter-that was the only down point of my vacation. As much as I would like to, I cannot change that, but don't be quick to judge as kimberly in south korea does more than enough of that.
Dude, you know I think you're cool, but maybe you should hang out less with kimberly adjosshi, because you sound like one in this thread.
p.s. haven't gotten any in a week? I wish I had your problem |
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losing_touch

Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Location: Ulsan - I think!
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:48 pm Post subject: Re: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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endo wrote: |
But still when I see a Western guy with a Thai girl (especially older and uglier dudes) I can't help but judge them. |
I will keep this in mind and avoid you when walking down the street with my wife who happens to be Thai. |
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curiousaboutkorea

Joined: 21 Jan 2009
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Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:54 pm Post subject: Re: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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losing_touch wrote: |
endo wrote: |
But still when I see a Western guy with a Thai girl (especially older and uglier dudes) I can't help but judge them. |
I will keep this in mind and avoid you when walking down the street with my wife who happens to be Thai. |
owned! |
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Ilsanman

Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Location: Bucheon, Korea
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:51 am Post subject: |
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Well, yeah, they're losers. |
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endo

Joined: 14 Mar 2004 Location: Seoul...my home
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 6:52 am Post subject: Re: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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curiousaboutkorea wrote: |
losing_touch wrote: |
endo wrote: |
But still when I see a Western guy with a Thai girl (especially older and uglier dudes) I can't help but judge them. |
I will keep this in mind and avoid you when walking down the street with my wife who happens to be Thai. |
owned! |
I don't know about "owned". Do you actually know the meaning of the term.
And in terms of Western males with Thai girlfriends or wives, that's a tough one.
Now I'm sure that there are Thai woman who want to have no part what-so-ever in the sex industry. But for some visitors to Thailans it's hard to disassociate one without the other. Especially if the girs a 9 or a 10.
With the couples I don't judge as much, especially if the woman isn't wearing the "*beep*" uniform. And you guys know what I'm talking about.
I primarily have a problem with certain types of couples. Like in Phuket where I saw a guy who must have been in his 70s. He was standing in front of an ATM who two young girls next to him. The dude was so old that he was literally shaking.
Well that was actually quite funny.
I more despise the middle age guys who act like they're the sh-it simply because they have a dime piece on their shoulder.
Now don't get me wrong, some of these girls are fine. And perhaps my frustration in that I will never score with one of them (primarly on moral and safey i.e. health concerns) fuels my judgement
I think you will always have issues with Western men who date or marry women from the developing world. I'm sure genuine love is involved in many of these cases, but you can't help but put the economic factor into perspective. And in turn question the intentions of either side in those types of relationships. |
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crocadoodledoo
Joined: 26 Nov 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:34 am Post subject: |
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endo - I used to HATE people with that attitude - I volunteered in thailand for 9 months, speak pretty good thai and was the only foreigner around where I was volunteering, but sometimes I would go into town with some students or friends and would walk by other foreigners who would gossip and all that garbarge about how 'bad' I am to be with a thai girl or a group of thai girls, who were students or friends. This attitude you are displaying is the EXACT same attitude as the kimberlys who throw a hissy fit every time a foreigner is with a korean. Come on now, you should be better than that! |
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itaewonguy

Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:34 am Post subject: |
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JESUS!! come on!! nothing wrong with doing hookers!!
doing drugs, having a drink! its all fun and games!! |
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sobriquet

Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Location: Nakatomi Plaza
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 3:57 pm Post subject: Re: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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endo wrote: |
I primarily have a problem with certain types of couples. Like in Phuket where I saw a guy who must have been in his 70s. He was standing in front of an ATM who two young girls next to him. The dude was so old that he was literally shaking. |
The guy was with his two daughters getting some money out for them going shopping.
Nope must be a sex tourist, can't be anything normal
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I more despise the middle age guys who act like they're the sh-it simply because they have a dime piece on their shoulder. |
no idea wat you are saying there
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Now don't get me wrong, some of these girls are fine. And perhaps my frustration in that I will never score with one of them (primarly on moral and safey i.e. health concerns) fuels my judgement |
Most likely because you associate SEA women as whores and always will do, yet the yellow skins of Korea you don't. interesting that.
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I think I will always have issues with Western men who date or marry women from the developing world. I'm sure genuine love is involved in many of these cases, but you can't help but put the economic factor into perspective. And in turn question the intentions of either side in those types of relationships. |
Like girls who want visas to America. that would never happen else where in the world. Or women who marry their man for money or menwho marry women fr money. That never happens in the west either.
interesting that you also made no comment about the ladies out there getting nailed by the young Thai guys.
Is that because you were getting nailed by a young Thai guy ad are too shy to admit it? |
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:48 pm Post subject: |
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Thailand is a great place for a vacation. Nothing wrong with a single guy getting some while there even if that is his main reason to go there. I'm with itaewonguy on this one. Save your judging for people who do bad things. |
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endo

Joined: 14 Mar 2004 Location: Seoul...my home
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Posted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 6:26 am Post subject: Re: Thai Sex Tourists are Losers! |
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sobriquet wrote: |
endo wrote: |
I primarily have a problem with certain types of couples. Like in Phuket where I saw a guy who must have been in his 70s. He was standing in front of an ATM who two young girls next to him. The dude was so old that he was literally shaking. |
The guy was with his two daughters getting some money out for them going shopping.
Nope must be a sex tourist, can't be anything normal |
I'm not a complete idiot. They weren't his daughters dude. And you're clearly a moron for trying to explain it that way.
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I more despise the middle age guys who act like they're the sh-it simply because they have a dime piece on their shoulder. |
no idea wat you are saying there |
I'm talking about the men in their 30s and 40s who clearly would not have a chance with some of these women if it weren't for their wallet.
The same dudes who appear in love. Total losers!
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Now don't get me wrong, some of these girls are fine. And perhaps my frustration in that I will never score with one of them (primarly on moral and safey i.e. health concerns) fuels my judgement |
Most likely because you associate SEA women as whores and always will do, yet the yellow skins of Korea you don't. interesting that. |
I don't associate all SEA women as whores, just the ones who wear the *beep* uniforms.
And I've been to just about every country in SEA, so it's not like I'm some newb.
Now the women in Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Hong Kong (i.e. the more developed nations) do also have plenty of ladies. But in terms of economics these girls have a lot more opportunities than the girls in developing nations.
So there is clearly a difference. However, you can also spot the prostitute in the developed nations as well.
Basically what I'm saying is that girls from developed nations likely see us less of a potential financial security blanket (although this obviously still occurs in some cases) as opposed to women from developing nations.
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interesting that you also made no comment about the ladies out there getting nailed by the young Thai guys.
Is that because you were getting nailed by a young Thai guy ad are too shy to admit it? |
What?
Clearly I pinched a nerve with you and you respond in kind like the little insecure twit that you are.
Yeah, I do judge Westerners more than the Thai men.
Why? I'm not Thai, I'm caucasian. So it's just easier to call out some of these morons for the losers that they are.
Listen, I realize I'm not making a lot of friends here.
And I still think if consenting adults choose to use direct currency for sexual relations, then they should be able to do it.
But I the same time I still maintain my god-given right to express my opinion and call them out for the losers that they are.  |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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Posted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 8:03 am Post subject: |
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Endo, you'd be better served if you stopped hanging out with soju soaked, self righteous pecker blocking kimberlys, as you are turning out to be one.
You are welcome. |
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